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zakouma66 Thu 30-May-24 18:22:22

Research into so called Blue Zones indicates that connection is important.

Today, I spoke to a neighbour who was washing his car, an acquaintance in a charity shop, another neighbour who was closing her gate, somebody I haven't seen for years and my hairdresser.

Not bragging, there are days when its down to zero.

MiniMoon Tue 11-Jun-24 00:12:16

My husband
Son in law
The cat
Alexa
Myself.

M0nica Wed 12-Jun-24 13:14:22

So far: DH, the lady on the till in Sainsburies, the older busker playing beautiful music on his lute in the precinct, the man behind the fruit and veg stall in the market, a friend who rang me.

Cabbie21 Wed 12-Jun-24 13:50:10

The ladies on reception and in the cafe of a Tourist attraction I visited.

JamesandJon33 Wed 12-Jun-24 14:08:13

DH
3 assistants in Lidl
Neighbour’s son
Assistant in Range
Postmaster and his wife in the Post Office
Neighbour

Marydoll Wed 12-Jun-24 17:19:52

Husband
Evri man
Two hairdressers
Client in hairdresser
Assistant in Asda
Doctor's receptionist
By text:
DD
DIL1
DS1
DS2.
Spammer, who told me to F Off., when I wouldnt entertain him.😱

silverlining48 Wed 12-Jun-24 17:22:15

Husband
Hairdresser

kittylester Wed 12-Jun-24 17:26:15

In Person

DH
2 cats
Alexa
3 AgeUk staff members
2 fellow volunteers
14 people who attended the course we were running
8 people living with dementia

WhatsApp

DD1
DD3
DBs 1 & 2
2 nieces
2 of the AgeUk staff members above

I am absolutely jiggered!

MiniMoon Wed 12-Jun-24 17:28:18

So far today I've spoken to my husband, my hairdresser, my daughter and a lady who sells plants to raise money for the Great North Air Ambulance.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 12-Jun-24 17:28:57

Husband
Dog
Birds when feeding them
Roses when deadheading, explaining why
Hydrangea, complimenting it on its buds
A bee on the chives I was deadheading, assuring it I wouldn’t take the flowers still blooming, or the buds.
Later, if not obscured by cloud I will say hello to the moon, as always.

Yes, the men in white coats will arrive soon.

MiniMoon Wed 12-Jun-24 17:29:23

I forgot about Alexa and I had a messenger conversation with my friend.

Greenfinch Wed 12-Jun-24 18:41:23

People in waiting room when DH had eye appointment.
Receptionists
Cashier in Lidl
DH
DS1

WhatsApp
DD
DGD

Primrose53 Wed 12-Jun-24 19:12:49

In person husband, son and lady on PO counter. A lady in our little shop where I bought a lavender plant. Man who fed our horse while we were on hols.

0n phone …. A friend, my daughter.

Marmight Wed 12-Jun-24 22:01:00

My cleaning lady
A friend & her husband - we went out for lunch
Skipper of the water taxi
My rehab nurse on the phone
DD3

biglouis Wed 12-Jun-24 22:20:14

I spoke to my nephew on the phone but that probably doesnt count.

The only person who Ive spoken to face to face is the gas engineer who came to do the annual check. Usually he is here and gone within 15 minutes. Today he began a discussion on religion. He is Moslem and I am agnostic (sort of) so it was an interesting discussion.

henetha Wed 12-Jun-24 23:24:15

My grandson (adult) . We met up.for coffee and chat.

Greyduster Thu 13-Jun-24 15:29:53

Several members of our Thursday walking group;
my DD with whom I had lunch;
and the checkout operator at Home Bargains.

Norah Thu 13-Jun-24 17:05:07

Husband, dog, field mowing man.
Daughter3 and her GC in our garden.

Celieanne86 Thu 13-Jun-24 17:46:41

I had a lovely male nurse James today, pleasant, chatty, removed my dressings showed them to me and commented how improved my foot was. Bathed it redressed it and ordered me new compression socks talking to me all the time. Then bless him made me a cup of tea asked if there was anything else made sure I was ok and gave me a hug. I haven’t seen anyone else today but this lovely young man will never know how much his visit meant and he took his rubbish with him 🥰
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kittylester Thu 13-Jun-24 17:54:15

In Person

DH
The cats
Alexa
Amazon delivery man
Miserable Sainsbury's man - they are usually so lovely

Telephone

Car salesman

WhatsApp

DD1
DN
My volunteer Team Leader

HowVeryDareYou2 Thu 13-Jun-24 18:07:35

A lot, today -
In person-
Husband
Friend and his wife
about 15 people from this club I go to
Son2

Texts-
brother
GD1
1 friend

GrannyIvy Thu 13-Jun-24 18:53:02

In person :

DH
Pilates teacher
Two ladies in Pilates class
Barman in pub
Waitress x 2 at table for lunch
Two friends I lunched with

DD2 x2 phone calls
Insurance man on phone

Text from a friend and reply to her

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 13-Jun-24 18:53:23

Husband
Dog
Birds
Some plants to encourage
Three people at the optician’s.

cornergran Thu 13-Jun-24 23:04:54

Mr C

Phone call to a call centre person to change a holiday booking

WhatsApp to the family - no replies
What’sApp chat with a friend

DS1 when he phoned

A serious word to the vacuum when it refused to work.

maddyone Thu 13-Jun-24 23:12:40

My husband
My daughter in law
My daughter in law’s daughter
My daughter in law’s grandson
My granddaughter in New Zealand
My grandson in New Zealand
My other little grandson in New Zealand
My daughter in New Zealand

HowVeryDareYou2 Fri 14-Jun-24 17:15:16

In person -
husband
3 sales assistants, different shops
Man at the GP surgery (a lengthy chat, never seen him before)

Texts -
1 SIL
Brother
3 friends