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JaneJudge Sat 10-Aug-24 10:26:55

I’m going away for a few days with my husband. It’s a place we go on special occasions. The hotel we stay in does a glorious breakfast. Fruit, yogurts, toasts, breads, cereals, pastries and jans. Then they do a really good cooked option. Generally we both just have the cooked option as it’s plenty. Other people seem to have loads of food before the cooked option.

My question is..is it extremely wrong to discretely put a couple of pastries or some bread, cheese and fruit in a zip lock bag so that we could have that for lunch? Or is it a complete no no 🙃 it’s not a budget hotel, we stay for dinner etc just wondered on others thoughts. Normally we would just buy a sandwich from M&S to share, which we may still do..

MaizieD Sat 10-Aug-24 12:39:00

But if there is a continental choice and a cooked choice and both have been paid for, but only the cooked food eaten why shouldn’t you take the continental part for later?

I'm not sure where this idea comes from. The hotel won't be costing their breakfast on the premise that all guests are going to eat a continental breakfast and a full English at one sitting. It'll be averaging it out somewhere. Or charging for them individually.

I think that asking if it's OK is a perfectly reasonable way to go about it. Smuggling food out looks so bad😆

Aveline Sat 10-Aug-24 12:38:04

Would you do it in someone's house? In a private B and B? Or are only hotels fair game for this greed?

Babs03 Sat 10-Aug-24 12:36:20

I’ve never done it but went away with a good friend who asked staff sweetly if she could filch a pastry or two and a banana for later. They were quick to say yes.
I suffer from GERD so after eating a big brekkie I generally don’t eat much till much later anyway so tend to grab an early dinner.

MissAdventure Sat 10-Aug-24 12:31:25

I was just thinking along those lines.
Instead of two rolls for breakfast, maybe eat just one, and take the other?
I dontsee that as particularly despicable.

Doodledog Sat 10-Aug-24 12:27:47

I wouldn't do it. The last time we stayed in a hotel we were going out for lunch (meeting people), so just had a croissant and coffee each for breakfast. It was disappointing in a way, as hotel breakfast buffets have far more on offer than I would have at home, but it didn't occur to me to compensate for having paid for a breakfast we weren't eating by bagging up fruit and pastries (surely people don't pinch bacon and eggs?) for later.

The nearest I come to that is that I sometimes put one of the little packs of biscuits from the bedroom in my bag to eat in the car if there is a long journey home and we're not stopping for food on the way. Usually I don't, though. If the journey is long we stop for food, and if short we wait till we get home. It's those '3 hours or so' ones that might need a biscuit to stave off rumbly tummies.

MissInterpreted Sat 10-Aug-24 12:27:00

This is what I don't understand, Cossy - presumably someone could sit there and eat a massive cooked breakfast and help themselves to lots of stuff from the continental section too (if they wanted to). What's the difference between doing that and someone taking a few items for later? The same amount of food is being consumed whether it's at the breakfast table or not.

Cossy Sat 10-Aug-24 12:21:07

OldFrill

Ask the restaurant/hotel manager ( l bet noone does) that's the only way to make it legitimate.
Having worked in hotels staff generally find it despicable, l certainly do and would never do it.

But if there is a continental choice and a cooked choice and both have been paid for, but only the cooked food eaten why shouldn’t you take the continental part for later?

We have lots of mini breaks in this country and the amount of waste (mainly on people’s plates) at buffet meals is astonishing.

I must admit we prefer to order and have everything freshly cooked.

Aveline Sat 10-Aug-24 12:20:23

I certainly wouldn't do it and think the worse of people that do.
On our last river cruise, after all the guests had been fed, the staff descended on the buffet and cooked eggs for themselves too. The manager insisted that all staff had a good meal and there was no waste.

MissInterpreted Sat 10-Aug-24 12:19:30

OldFrill

Ask the restaurant/hotel manager ( l bet noone does) that's the only way to make it legitimate.
Having worked in hotels staff generally find it despicable, l certainly do and would never do it.

As I said in my earlier post, my MiL always used to ask and was always told it was fine.

Bakingmad0203 Sat 10-Aug-24 12:18:23

Crossed posts OldFrill I couldn’t have expressed it better!

Cossy Sat 10-Aug-24 12:18:00

NotAGran55

Never.

For those who feel it is OK to take from the buffet, why don’t you ask before you do it? You probably know what the answer would be!

I have asked before and been happily told yes! I also have been known to take a cuppa and a croissant back to my room to eat too. Never a second glance.

Bakingmad0203 Sat 10-Aug-24 12:16:25

For me it’s a no no. Having worked in food and beverage management the food margins are very tight, especially now.
The amount of food put out for guests is based on the number of guests staying, so if everyone took extra for their lunch then there would not be the same choice available for those who arrived later and as someone pointed out earlier, which they had paid for !!

At the risk of a ton of bricks coming down on my head, people I have seen doing this surreptitiously, give the impression that they are stealing and can’t afford to buy a sandwich at lunchtime. Why not just ask the staff if it’s OK ?

One hotel I stayed at in France a few years ago had a notice on the wall ( in English) saying that anyone seen taking food out of the dining room would be charged extra for it.

Athrawes Sat 10-Aug-24 12:12:08

I certainly wouldn't do it either. I would ask if I really wanted to take something away from the breakfast. I admit however I do take the odd toiletry away if I've previously used it.

OldFrill Sat 10-Aug-24 12:09:47

Cossy

I certainly don’t think it’s an issue!

Lots of the leftovers are simply thrown away.

Go for it!

Most hotels don't have lots of leftovers to throw away - budgets are tight, staff often get their meals provided (often at a discount - not free). Hotels budget for food provided to eat at that sitting, not including free takeaway. Any stolen food results in increased costs, passed on to future guests. If you haven't asked if you can remove food for later then it's theft.

OldFrill Sat 10-Aug-24 12:05:40

Ask the restaurant/hotel manager ( l bet noone does) that's the only way to make it legitimate.
Having worked in hotels staff generally find it despicable, l certainly do and would never do it.

Theexwife Sat 10-Aug-24 11:57:53

My sister does this and it makes me cringe, she also clears the tea tray of any biscuits, tea bags etc and any toiletries that are left.

Those I have seen doing this at breakfast are rather covert about it, I think if you feel you are entitled to it then do it openly or even ask if it is ok.

Mollygo Sat 10-Aug-24 11:57:10

Witzend
PS, I was relieved to hear from their conversation that they weren’t Brits!
🤣🤣🤣
The guests in Italy bagged their sunloungers before breakfast!
The egg collector in my post wore loud checked clothes.
But then all-you-can-eat places in the UK has told guests that you can’t take food away, so Brits are not innocent.
If the hotel is relaxed about it, I don’t see a problem.

Witzend Sat 10-Aug-24 11:43:45

Witzend

Personally I wouldn’t do it, and have stayed in a hotel where there was a sign expressly forbidding it. (Not in the U.K.)

At a fairly expensive hotel in Prague we were once 😱 to see at a nearby table, 4 very well dressed and affluent looking middle aged people, endlessly on the lookout for any staff watching - as they slipped masses of stuff into their bags - fruit, yoghurts, rolls (buttered and stuffed with ham etc.), pastries, you name it.

At a hotel in Greece we did once ask whether it’d be OK to make ourselves sandwiches from the breakfast buffet, since we were going on an all day sailing trip where lunch wasn’t provided.
They were fine with it, but I wouldn’t do it otherwise.

PS, I was relieved to hear from their conversation that they weren’t Brits!

Auntieflo Sat 10-Aug-24 11:40:26

When we had a holiday in Switzerland, there were notices not to take away food, and the manager used to hover around watching all the guests!

Witzend Sat 10-Aug-24 11:40:22

Personally I wouldn’t do it, and have stayed in a hotel where there was a sign expressly forbidding it. (Not in the U.K.)

At a fairly expensive hotel in Prague we were once 😱 to see at a nearby table, 4 very well dressed and affluent looking middle aged people, endlessly on the lookout for any staff watching - as they slipped masses of stuff into their bags - fruit, yoghurts, rolls (buttered and stuffed with ham etc.), pastries, you name it.

At a hotel in Greece we did once ask whether it’d be OK to make ourselves sandwiches from the breakfast buffet, since we were going on an all day sailing trip where lunch wasn’t provided.
They were fine with it, but I wouldn’t do it otherwise.

Callistemon213 Sat 10-Aug-24 11:36:41

LauraNorderr

If anyone clutches their pearls just smile sweetly while inwardly hoping they choke themselves with them

🤣🤣🤣

I do remember we were told it was very cheap to eat out in that particular country but when we got there, there was hyperinflation, they'd devalued on the Foreign Exchange and it wasn't at all cheap.

dragonfly46 Sat 10-Aug-24 11:34:29

We had (rich) friends who used to do this and I found it very embarrassing.

Joseann Sat 10-Aug-24 11:32:00

LauraNorderr

Btw I haven’t done this myself because I don’t eat lunch if I’ve had a cooked breakfast but have never frowned upon anyone else. Their business not mine.

I'd frown, because I'd be cross if they took all the pains aux raisins and left me the pains aux chocolat. I can't stand them!

Callistemon213 Sat 10-Aug-24 11:31:23

I've never done it but I remember our first holiday abroad with the DC, two were teenagers and always hungry but breakfast was very simple, lovely fresh bread, meats, cheeses, hardboiled eggs (it was an ex-Communist country so food wasn't plentiful).

However, we palled up with another family with three boys and every morning she'd ask for more food and then sit at the table making sandwiches for their lunch.

Galaxy Sat 10-Aug-24 11:15:43

Dh treats hotel breakfasts as a personal challenge he eats a lot then doesnt eat lunch. Most people I would say have cooked and continental, if you are only having cooked then I think it's fine to take some fruit, etc. None of it makes sense really does it. I can confidently say that if you take a few things for lunch, you will still be eating less than some.