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biglouis Thu 22-Aug-24 11:33:58

I would not chase the woman who did not turn up. If she wanted the cat she could at least have contacted you and made another arrangement to pick her up. She is obviously in no hurry.

Calipso Thu 22-Aug-24 11:16:53

WoodLane7 I too have been in this situation. I wasn't in the market for another cat but she mysteriously appeared and refused to leave. She is my shadow cat, a lovely gentle soul who at some point has been owned and has been used to other cats. I did everything I could think of: local FB groups/cat rescues, posters round the village, messages left with all local vets, paper collar in case she was owned locally by someone not on social media. I had a couple of people come to see her as they thought she might be their lost cat...... they weren't sure, though in fairness she is black with no real distinguishing features. My vet was really supportive and after four weeks he was happy that I'd taken all reasonable measures to find her owner and that I was quite certain about keeping her. He had that microchip in faster than you could blink. Strangely she was neutered but not microchipped and doesn't have the clipped ear that the trap/neuter/release charities use to denote feral cats that they have treated.
She was a special gift from somewhere as I had to have our beloved 19 year old tabby PTS early in the year and she has been such a comfort in my grief.
I think your instincts are correct. Get her microchipped and she is yours flowers

Vito Thu 22-Aug-24 11:01:59

You have done everything right to find out its owner. Well done you. As the cat isn't registered to anyone, I think you can safely say she's yours smile congratulations lucky pus cat.

Calendargirl Thu 22-Aug-24 10:53:49

loopylou

OP has already stated the cat has been taken to the vet, but no microchip.

loopyloo Thu 22-Aug-24 10:49:56

As of June 24th all cats in England should be microchipped.
You should take it to the vet and see if its owner is registered . If not adopt it!
Lucky you!

Gummie Thu 22-Aug-24 10:44:08

You now have another cat. Do not contact the woman again!

If she turns up tell the cat left of it's own accord. If it was hers and she loved it she would have turned up.

It frightens me the people that take cats (and dogs) with no evidence that they are fit to own them and don't want them for horrible reasons.

Indigo8 Thu 22-Aug-24 09:58:27

My sister recently took in a very young, female cat who was living rough in the nearby park. She made all the usual enquiries but failed to find an owner.

The cat is now very much part of the family and rules my sister's other cats with a paw of iron. The other cats are elderly bachelors who seem to regard her with amused tolerance.

On the subject owners reclaiming their cats; we used to have a large female British Blue cat. Once we found a small Blue Burmese had been lurking outside our house for several days so we took him in and made enquiries. A man claiming to be his owner turned up and when our British Blue answered the door with us he exclaimed "That's him! I'd know him anywhere." Needless to say we did not let him take either cat away. Luckily, we were able to contact the real owners via our vet.

ronib Thu 22-Aug-24 09:20:25

Quite tricky. I would be inclined to contact the woman and ask if there had been a change of mind, or would she like to make another appointment to pick up the cat? At least then you would have some definite information to work on.
Although cats do have their own opinions too.

WoodLane7 Thu 22-Aug-24 09:07:14

First time posting a new thread so please try and be gentle; not an AIBU, rather a WWYD

A very young, small and thin but lively and friendly cat turned up a few days ago and moreorless moved herself in (we already have 2 cats who seem a bit bemused by new arrival but not freaked out). I put pics on a couple of local Facebook chat groups asking if anyone recognises her (made it clear that I would want some kind of proof in the form of pictures, video etc from anyone coming forward, I wasn't about to hand her over to any random person) and a lost and found charity has also been contacted. We also popped her to our vet to check for a microchip but there is none. Vet reckons she is 6-12 months and seems healthy, albeit rather light and thin. Seemed voraciously hungry initially but not quite so bad now having had a few good meals, albeit she is still quite food-orientated.
A lady messaged me with a photo that looks exactly like her; said her cat had been missing since Feb - she lives about 3 miles away from me. I responded, we spoke via video call and said she would call round in the afternoon - that was a couple of days ago. Not a word since, and no results from lost and found.
We are happy to keep her - already getting very attached to be honest and she seems to have her paws well under our table. But is there anything else I should be doing? I haven't chased the lady who contacted me because I am feeling that if she was that keen to have her cat back (if this is her cat) then she would have been in contact by now and I don't want to send her back somewhere she may have run off from, but should I be being more proactive? Any words of advice appreciated and thank you for reading