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HeavenLeigh Tue 08-Oct-24 12:02:24

Always speak to strangers that’s very often how strangers can become very good friends

Greenfinch Tue 08-Oct-24 12:00:29

I love talking to strangers now but didn’t do so in my youth. It makes the time pass more quickly if waiting for a bus or in the hospital waiting room. I hate walking past people who do not even acknowledge me with a smile .

Celieanne86 Tue 08-Oct-24 11:59:20

In the past I’ve aways spoken to strangers, in shops, on buses, at the doctors, when walking the dogs, it was just a normal thing to do to me but it’s not now. I find people are more suspicious, and definitely not so friendly.
Possibly just a sign of the times perhaps mobile phones have taken over their lives but I have noticed you don’t have to smile at a child now as I did not so long ago and the mother moved away from me.

Dee1012 Tue 08-Oct-24 11:55:30

I often recall a train journey some years ago....I was reading my book and a woman (much older than i was at the time!) sat opposite.
She began chatting.
At first I was slightly "miffed" as I was enjoying my book etc but found her so interesting, I really enjoyed our talk.

When we arrived at our destination, as we walked down the platform, she thanked me for talking to her and said she lived alone, ours was the first 'conversation' she'd had in some time.

I've never forgotten that...

fancythat Tue 08-Oct-24 11:54:54

On this site, I have been a bit horrified on occasions, of the number of posters who write on certain threads, "we keep ourselves to ourselves", as if it is some kind of virtue.

fancythat Tue 08-Oct-24 11:53:26

I speak to strangers too.
Or at least give them a smile.
I do find, could just be where I am, that peeople are smiling at each other more than they used to. Which is nice.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 08-Oct-24 11:46:47

I do already. I’m just mindful to be polite and chatty. Only a sentence or two as in “oh I do like your dress”. It’s a cheerful way of interacting.

Shelflife Tue 08-Oct-24 11:42:55

I often speak to strangers , in the supermarket , cinema , leisure centre. I find it an easy thing to do.

RosiesMaw2 Tue 08-Oct-24 11:40:04

To my ACs’ embarrassment I have always spoken to strangers!
I have met some really interesting people often on the train to and from London on the many occasions when DH was in the Royal Free or, more often now, when I am at a theatre or cinema matinee -usually on my own.
Sometimes a harmless pleasantry is sort of brushed off (so what) but more often than not the other person seems happy enough to chat.
The advantage of being 76 with white hair is that I am no way regarded as “chatting someone up” and if anybody secretly thinks “Sad old biddy” - well tant pis (or so much p*ss ) as we used to say.

kircubbin2000 Tue 08-Oct-24 11:09:28

I have been going to my keep fit for months now and yesterday was the first day one of the men spoke to me and invited me to sit with them at coffee afterwards.
Earlier a new lady came over to me and said she was really anxious as she knew no one.
We really should make more effort to at least smile at people. I'm very bad at that myself but it makes such a difference.