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merlotgran Tue 08-Oct-24 12:39:11

Mug!!

You’ve been in my life for many years, surviving a falling shelf when everything else was smashed, being left out in the rain more times than I could possibly count, indignity in the greenhouse when seedlings are being pampered and you’ve been placed next to grubby hasbeens stuffed full of labels, bits of string and a marker pen that no longer writes!

You have always understood that big drinks are not for me and your bone china elegance has always provided a more refined offering of my favourite brews unlike the large, clumpy pottery monstrosities hanging on my kitchen dresser because people keep giving them to me. I don’t mind that they proclaim me to be the world’s greatest granny or a gardening guru but they just don’t keep my drinks HOT so I end up leaving almost half of it.

You survived four months in storage in a packing case clearly marked so I could unpack you first and claimed your rightful place next to the tea caddy almost as fast as I could get the kettle on.

This morning, however, I had to make the sad decision that a suspicious looking crack could no longer be passed off as part of the autumnal charm of your tasteful design so I will gently place you in the bottom of the bin because I already have enough cracked mugs littering up the shed and greenhouse and in any case you would hate the company! 😢

ronib Wed 09-Oct-24 04:21:18

The mirror frame is fantastic. Did you make or buy it LauraNorder

Whiff Wed 09-Oct-24 05:44:14

merlotgran alas the demise of your old drinking companion. It has seen you through the good and bad times in your life and held a variety of your favourite tipple. 😞.

Alas I have had many favourite mugs over the years unfortunately they never last long as I drop them and they get smashed but why is it they are always clean . Perhaps they choose to leave in all there glory😁

RIP favourite mugs everywhere.

DanniRae Wed 09-Oct-24 07:13:28

I have a favourite mug and I dislike it when a visiting member of my family offers to make tea and hands MY MUG to someone else!

LauraNorderr Wed 09-Oct-24 09:00:50

ronib

The mirror frame is fantastic. Did you make or buy it LauraNorder

My daughter in law made it for me after we downsized and had to get rid of lots of china.
I know that feeling DanniRae. My favourite owl mug has been passed to another by well meaning family, I have to grit my teeth 😂

Iam64 Wed 09-Oct-24 09:04:05

I have one China mug for tea and a smaller one for coffee.

I made our house number plate in a mosaic pattern, using cracked blue and white crockery from clearing my parents house

downtoearth Wed 09-Oct-24 09:26:03

Merlot love the tribute to your faithful mug.

I have special mugs for different times of the day, my favourite morning tea mug is getting faded through countless dishwasher cycles, but she is pretty and a comfort for my first cuppa.

LauraNorder gorgeous mirror.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 09-Oct-24 09:29:20

Tuaim

Could you not grow something in it or use it for a mini flower display?

What a great idea! Perched on your kitchen windowsill perhaps?

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 09-Oct-24 09:32:30

Allira

can your faithful friend not be kept in service as a pen and pencil holder in the kitchen, merlotgran?

Another really good idea Allira!
And wow! - your mirror is fabulous LauraNorder!

Some clever people about …. 😁

Cossy Wed 09-Oct-24 09:36:19

This made me smile and those who feel tea and coffee are best served in China mugs or cups are absolutely right!

Cossy Wed 09-Oct-24 09:37:40

LauraNorderr

Make a lovely frame for a mirror in honour of your faithful old mug.

Wow!! I adore that mirror! It’s fabulous!

merlotgran Wed 09-Oct-24 09:59:38

OK, OK. She’s coming back out of the bin!! 😂

I don’t think I’m anywhere near clever enough for a mosaic mirror frame and having already declutterred I’d have to start selecting a few unfortunate old faithfuls to smash!

I’ve tried the plant pot holder idea before which works for a while but the plants soon romp away so it’ll have to be a slow growing succulent. I have one in mind! If it doesn’t work she can sit on a bookshelf in my spare room and eventually get filled up with drawing pins, paper clips and other bits and bobs!

Thanks for all the suggestions.

NotSpaghetti Wed 09-Oct-24 10:01:40

merlotgran Hooray!
🎉

Beechnut Wed 09-Oct-24 10:03:04

merlotgran

OK, OK. She’s coming back out of the bin!! 😂

I don’t think I’m anywhere near clever enough for a mosaic mirror frame and having already declutterred I’d have to start selecting a few unfortunate old faithfuls to smash!

I’ve tried the plant pot holder idea before which works for a while but the plants soon romp away so it’ll have to be a slow growing succulent. I have one in mind! If it doesn’t work she can sit on a bookshelf in my spare room and eventually get filled up with drawing pins, paper clips and other bits and bobs!

Thanks for all the suggestions.

Your mug has now cracked a smile *merlotgran) 😂

bikergran Wed 09-Oct-24 10:12:42

Can you use it for bits n bobs (pens, loose change etc)

Allira Wed 09-Oct-24 10:19:15

Beechnut [groan] 😂

Mug is so excited to start off on her new adventure.
Pens and pencils here I come!

mabon1 Wed 09-Oct-24 11:43:14

Well, I am sorry to say that I am beyond words reading that. I have just lost a beloved daughter in law aged 55. Grieving for a flipping mug does not make sense to me, get a grip woman.

PamQS Wed 09-Oct-24 11:47:20

I do like a nice mug for my tea, I have to say. I’m sorry your mug has to be ‘retired’ (to put it tactfully). I have old mugs all over the house full of pens/pencils - a habit I picked up from my mum and dad! Unlike them, I don’t keep pens that don’t work properly in retired mugs!

PamQS Wed 09-Oct-24 11:51:06

mabon1

Well, I am sorry to say that I am beyond words reading that. I have just lost a beloved daughter in law aged 55. Grieving for a flipping mug does not make sense to me, get a grip woman.

My sympathies for the loss of your daughter in law, mabon1.

If the loss of a favourite mug has made someone sad, I don’t think being told to ‘get a grip’ is going to help, TBH.

cc Wed 09-Oct-24 12:00:59

merlotgran

OK, OK. She’s coming back out of the bin!! 😂

I don’t think I’m anywhere near clever enough for a mosaic mirror frame and having already declutterred I’d have to start selecting a few unfortunate old faithfuls to smash!

I’ve tried the plant pot holder idea before which works for a while but the plants soon romp away so it’ll have to be a slow growing succulent. I have one in mind! If it doesn’t work she can sit on a bookshelf in my spare room and eventually get filled up with drawing pins, paper clips and other bits and bobs!

Thanks for all the suggestions.

This is why I have a nice hard kitchen floor, nothing survives a fall. Having downsized recently I've still got enough china to happily throw away a mug! Don't let the sentimentalists on here persuade you to keep it.

Allira Wed 09-Oct-24 12:07:22

I'm very sorry to hear your sad news mabon1, the worst thing that can happen is to lose a child, it is not the natural order of things. flowers

Howevever, might it be better to avoid reading the fun threads for a while?

littleflo Wed 09-Oct-24 12:12:28

Merlotgran has said good bye
To her favourite mug
She cast it away with heavy sigh
And one last grateful hug

Allira Wed 09-Oct-24 12:25:35

Mug now sits up on a shelf
Alone but not forgot
She'll soon be filled with bits and bobs
And be a useful pot.

Crossstitchfan Wed 09-Oct-24 12:27:23

NotSpaghetti

Esmay I considered a mosaic too but remembered how much I loved finding pieces of old china/buttons etc in the soil.
Small joys for a future generation I felt.

I have a broken pottery ox which will be buried one day. It can't be mended but does hold significance here.
It was given my husband by my son-in-law when he married our daughter. My husband had jokingly asked (at their engagement) what he proposed to offer as "bride price" and my son in law said maybe 50 oxen?

This was one of them - handed over as part of his wedding speech. All different- one glass, a family group of china ones, two carved, one metal, one plastic an old lithograph another a painting... and a photo with a group on - all counted.

Happy day.

What a lot of thought must have gone into that! It sounds like you have a lovely son-in-law with a great sense of humour!

Hellsbelles Wed 09-Oct-24 12:33:15

Farewell one of my earrings!
I've had them 30+ years but reached up to my ear this morning to find one gone.
Been around the house but no sign.

Crossstitchfan Wed 09-Oct-24 12:35:11

mabon1

Well, I am sorry to say that I am beyond words reading that. I have just lost a beloved daughter in law aged 55. Grieving for a flipping mug does not make sense to me, get a grip woman.

I am sorry for your loss, truly I am, as I know how hard it can be.
That said, if you still feel up to coming on here, in spite of your grief, you must be prepared that some posts will upset you, and if you can’t cope with that, you perhaps should have a break from it for a while.
Do you not realise that what you said will have spoilt the post for the poster and probably everyone else? You cannot/should not take your personal problems or grief out on the rest of us.