Stop playing with your bits…..it’s disgusting.

Our grandson became so obsessed with his bits I had to tell him it would fall off if he didn't leave it alone!

AuntieEleanorsCat

I think it’s revolting. Men have always been hands on with their bits but now they do it openly in public places. I’ve never seen a female rearranging her breasts or just having a reassuring fondle, for their own enjoyment.

Then again, I think men today have little decorum. My friend is widowed and four years on, has become friends with a chap. They’ve met for coffee and they went out on Saturday for a meal. She’s 63 and was having second thoughts about it/what to wear/kiss or no kiss on the cheek at the end of the evening. I called her on Sunday afternoon to see how it’d gone. “Oh, it was nice. We got on”. “Will you see him again?” I asked. “No, I don’t think so”. On the way home, he kept belching really loudly and then sent her a message to say he’d had a great time but had terrible foul wind all night”.

And who said the age of romance was dead!

Paperbackwriter

petra

Kats2

I wonder what men would think if women stood around doing that.. You think some of them literally were raised by wolves, as no decent mother would allow her son to do that in public..or at home come to that…

There must be a lot of indecent mothers around.

"Sigh" Always a woman's fault, isn't it?

Almost, on here men are always in the wrong and it is usually their mother's fault.

petra

theworriedwell

My eyesight is fine thanks but no I don't go round looking at mens crotches. I think it's a bit like men staring at your boobs. Raise your sightline.

The movement of his hand would draw the eye.

Oh come on, men get criticised all the time for looking at women's breasts instead of their faces, apparently the breasts are so far from the face this is unacceptable but women studying men's crotches is fine because obviously the crotch is so much closer to the face than breasts are.

I've never noticed a man doing this because I don't go round looking at men's crotches. It is really simple.

petra

Kats2

I wonder what men would think if women stood around doing that.. You think some of them literally were raised by wolves, as no decent mother would allow her son to do that in public..or at home come to that…

There must be a lot of indecent mothers around.

"Sigh" Always a woman's fault, isn't it?

"George... don't do that."

Kats2

I wonder what men would think if women stood around doing that.. You think some of them literally were raised by wolves, as no decent mother would allow her son to do that in public..or at home come to that…

There must be a lot of indecent mothers around.

I wonder what men would think if women stood around doing that.. You think some of them literally were raised by wolves, as no decent mother would allow her son to do that in public..or at home come to that…

I agree that it’s a disgusting habit but away from the subject. Many years ago a young German woman worked in our office and during a general gossip she said that the trouble with the British was that they did not teach their children to play with themselves, she could not understand why we all found her remark so funny.

Esmay

Having witnessed an old neighbour pleasuring himself until fulfillment in his car whilst watching ladies - I absolutely hate men fiddling around with their bits and that includes scratching themselves .
Get some talc .

I prefer men to be gentlemen .

Some years ago I was walking back to work approaching a large lorry.
What caught my eye was movement in the very large wing mirror. I knew straight away what he was doing.
The important part here was: he was parked outside a school and the children were in the playground.
I stood in front of his lorry, looked at him and copied his reg plate.
Then went into work and phoned the police. They came to my work where I gave details.

Lol xxx

We had a teacher in the sixties who sat on his desk facing the class. While talking to us, both hands were down the front of his trousers. By sitting on his desk his crotch was eye level. Surprisingly we kids thought nothing of it as we didn't know about perverts.

I’ve seen a lot of men fondling their bits in my life but I’ve never seen a female with her hands down her trousers.

Rappers have a lot to answer for.😬

Sago

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Shelflife

Not a matter of looking , one can hardly avoid it if it is happening in broad daylight! A lot of light hearted responses to this post but it really is unacceptable - I fully agree Sago it is disgusting.

I agree with Sago too. The only time I’ve seen it done was in an Italian restaurant a couple of years ago, a bored young waiter was lounging against a wall cupping himself as the expression used to be.

I worked for a popular Building Society some 50 years ago and my desk was balcony based so could see the entrance hall and the Mortgage Managers cubicle - He used to eat his sandwiches @lunchtime with one hand and played with his bits in the other! The lady who worked opposite me was the MD’s Secretary and she thought it funny- I thought it creepy and pervy and disgusting-
Today it would be classed as sexual harassment I think 🤔

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RosiesMaw2

He was probably only reassuring his ferret.

That has cheered me up on a miserable day !

Oh my goodness reassuring his ferret made me laugh so much I’m on the train and getting some funny looks. No I won’t tell anyone what I’m reading 🤣🤣

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I think it’s revolting. Men have always been hands on with their bits but now they do it openly in public places. I’ve never seen a female rearranging her breasts or just having a reassuring fondle, for their own enjoyment.

Then again, I think men today have little decorum. My friend is widowed and four years on, has become friends with a chap. They’ve met for coffee and they went out on Saturday for a meal. She’s 63 and was having second thoughts about it/what to wear/kiss or no kiss on the cheek at the end of the evening. I called her on Sunday afternoon to see how it’d gone. “Oh, it was nice. We got on”. “Will you see him again?” I asked. “No, I don’t think so”. On the way home, he kept belching really loudly and then sent her a message to say he’d had a great time but had terrible foul wind all night”.

And who said the age of romance was dead!

A lack of toys when young!

RosiesMaw2

He was probably only reassuring his ferret.

I see this quite a lot. Most recently - group of 4 teenage boys talking in the middle of Woking with one fully engaging in this, no comments from his companions. I stopped and told him off (late afternoon, many people around). They roared with laughter ..... I see it on the tube too.