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“Feeling Lonely? Let’s Chat and Support Each Other”

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Devine05 Sun 15-Dec-24 09:21:48

"Hello everyone,
I’ve been feeling lonely lately, and I know I can’t be the only one. I thought it might be nice to create a space where we can share, chat, and support each other. Whether you’re feeling down or just want a friendly chat, you’re welcome here."

love0c Wed 19-Feb-25 19:56:21

Just yo let you know we have seen 4 foxes while having a ealk around our area in the ladt hour. They just stop and look at you. No fear from them at all. A bit worrying really S they are a wild animal. It is very residential where we live. But very large park and woods nearby and houses with very large gardens.

Indiebee Wed 19-Feb-25 19:40:32

Hello Polnan. Hope you can feel more cheerful soon. Have you got your cat with you? Tell us about her/him / name, colour, age, fur!!

polnan Wed 19-Feb-25 18:15:18

Good to hear y`all again, I have had a particulary "lonely " day..

best wishes to you all.

love0c Wed 19-Feb-25 17:28:35

I do wonder if Devine is the brainchild of admin?

Indiebee Mon 03-Feb-25 08:51:16

Loopyloo - Ginger, Rusty, Freddie, Furry, but it might be a girl? Bella, Francesca? Do tell us!

Taichinan Mon 03-Feb-25 08:07:03

Oh, and my daughter's dog, a red setter, is called Rua which I understand is Irish for Red.

Taichinan Mon 03-Feb-25 08:04:48

My great-great nephew's name IS Fox - known as Foxy for short 😂

Truffle43 Mon 03-Feb-25 07:46:58

Loopyloo how nice to see a fox I haven’t seen one in a while . I cannot think of a name idea hopefully others can.
COME ON EVERYONE (Name the fox).

loopyloo Sun 02-Feb-25 10:24:48

We have Influencers, now we have Encouragers.
Wonderful sunshine here in East London. Saw the fox again yesterday.
Must give him a name.
Ideas please.

Truffle43 Sun 02-Feb-25 10:03:33

Devine05
Where are you as you created this post and we don’t hear from you. I am sure we would all love to know how your feeling and ask you to join in with chats.

Truffle43 Sun 02-Feb-25 09:59:09

Good morning all especially Taichinan and Polnan. I had a wonderful thought this morning as I sometimes get really fed up with all the rain we have.
On rainy days I get to use my pretty umbrellas as I have a few bought for me over the years. They can all have an outing one at a time.☔️ yeah misery sorted.

Taichinan Sat 01-Feb-25 09:09:05

Good morning all of you, and especially you Polnan. I hope you feel a little brighter as the day goes on. Truffle that sounded a lovely outing yesterday - I love a cream tea!

polnan Sat 01-Feb-25 08:37:04

Good morning all..

oh thank you for this Truffle43.. just what I need this am. to shake of this feeling of... ok sort of sorry for myself... this encourages me.. I am not and never have been one for lots of friends and now so few,
oh this is a good thread,, more than that, a little community of encouragers forming??

Truffle43 Fri 31-Jan-25 19:49:33

Love the photo taichinan I also love to be outdoors. Yesterday was gorgeous I got out my trusty walker and really enjoyed my walk with little dog with me. I walked to a little cafe sat outside and ordered a cream tea. Oh boy did I enjoy it. I must of put miss piggy to shame it was delicious. It is not something I normally do on my own but hey ho I was in the mood. That walk and little treat had me feeling so good. I felt on top of the world . It is amazing how well you feel after even a small amount of time outdoors and would recommend just getting out of the house to anyone who is able. I am still trying to get out each day and in doing this I chat to lots of different people. This makes me feel better in myself. I hope others can try to get outside just to benefit from the change.

Indiebee Fri 31-Jan-25 15:15:35

Splendid photo Taichinan!! A hood is good!
Made a lot of chocolate tiffin yesterday for part of a discussion group tea after discussing. The good thing about this (or not) is that I had some at lunch and may have a piece for tea and another at supper. Fatness beckons!

love0c Thu 30-Jan-25 16:35:34

Taichinan ha ha love that photo! that is me too!!! even on holiday. I sit on my balcony, regardless of the weather!!!!

polnan Thu 30-Jan-25 08:34:55

smile

Taichinan Thu 30-Jan-25 08:14:29

love0c how nice to sit outside for your cuppa. That's one of my favourite things to do, particularly in winter, all wrapped up cosy. The photo was taken last Sunday, a very icy morning!

polnan Thu 30-Jan-25 07:19:28

Good morning everyone, 7.16 am. here in soon to be sunny Swindon... well haven`t heard todays weather forecast so hoping for sunshine.. bit fresh.. I am just out of bed... coffee on,, cat fed... just like to say hello and wish all our friends here a Good morning... my only plan today is to have my feet done! a home visit for me. smile

this is me learning something new smile I still like lol!

love0c Wed 29-Jan-25 18:10:50

Indibee Not seen another post at all. I asked the same question a few weeks ago. Never came back. Strange that.

Indiebee Wed 29-Jan-25 18:05:53

Devine05 - are you still on here? You made a happy thread.

love0c Wed 29-Jan-25 18:01:43

Cabbie21 Lovely you went to see your sister. She would have so appreciated your visit.

polnan Wed 29-Jan-25 17:34:49

Cabbie 21 I am fortunate that I am of an age, yes, quite elderly, and feel easy smiling at people and chatting with them if they respond.. a small Morrisons near to me where I go mostly, so guess most locals and many people will stop and chat a little. of course, not quite the same as having a special friend, I do find people are reluctant to get too friendly, ie meet for a coffee and chat would be so good.

glad to hear you enjoyed your journey ..

Indiebee Wed 29-Jan-25 17:07:36

Cabbie21 - Have you got a friendly cafe (or possibly pub?) near you where you could get used to having a coffee or tea? If you tried it regularly you might not feel so alone and it would become familiar? People-watching is great or you could take a book, paper or phone to look at. It's very possible to develop a favourite haunt or two so that it doesn't feel lonely but like a friendly place.
I feel it's 'home from home' in 3 or 4 of the cafes in my town and love visiting them on my own as well as with friends. I just sit and relax, think interesting thoughts and watch the world go by.

Cabbie21 Wed 29-Jan-25 17:06:18

Thanks Polnan. Yes, I did go out. I went to see my sister who is in a care home. It was a good day for a journey.