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Posh……..a compliment or an insult?

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Sago Wed 01-Jan-25 14:37:28

Resurrecting an old one here but it’s a good debate.

I hate the word posh, I am never sure if it is an insult or a compliment.

What does it even mean?

I was taught that using the word posh indicated a poor vocabulary.

AIBU?

Esmay Mon 06-Jan-25 07:38:00

My son in law used to stay with me and left some of his laundry - nothing more exciting !

welbeck Sun 05-Jan-25 20:06:57

I did write Esmay
honest but my phone thinks it knows better.
Probably something to do with Elon Musk.
He seems to be interfering in everything recently.

welbeck Sun 05-Jan-25 20:03:59

Essay
now I am wondering how you have access to your SIL's socks ...

M0nica Sun 05-Jan-25 17:36:25

I wore a twin set in the late 1950s when I was in my mid teens. My aunt made me a lovely dark turquoise tweed skirt and I wore a lilac coloured twinset over it. I loved the clolours. Never any pearls!

Esmay Sun 05-Jan-25 10:48:14

I laughed to myself the day my neighbour and friend introduced me to one of her friends .
I was recycling and about to garden .
I have to admit to being a casual dresser when doing chores .
The friend said ,
'You said that she was posh .I didn't realise that she was that posh .'
I was wearing one of my son's socks and one of my son in law's socks ,a loose faded top pulled over a huge bleach stain on my paint splattered tracksuit bottoms .

Allira Sat 04-Jan-25 10:57:49

Not the best way to lose weight.

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 23:29:07

Allira

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

Ps which one is you, Marydoll?
I guess the glamorous one with the blonde bouffant!

Allira, that is for me to know and for you to find out! wink

Actually, I am a wee, fat woman from Glasgow! Well, not so fat after having Norovirus.

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:05:32

Not saying the other model isn't lovely - she is!

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:04:49

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

Ps which one is you, Marydoll?
I guess the glamorous one with the blonde bouffant!

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 23:03:33

Marydoll

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

😁

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 23:03:01

Allira

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

I was clutching them, they broke! 😉

kittylester Fri 03-Jan-25 21:13:26

My mum told me I should wear a twinset as the wife of a professional man.

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 20:57:51

Chanel suit

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 20:52:29

Marydoll

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

Yes, that's it, Marydoll!
But where are the pearls?

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 20:27:05

grin No, my nan wasn't Jane Mansfield, but apparently drove all the men a bit wild in her tight fitting sweater and pencil skirt.
She was a fat voluptuous woman.

Marydoll Fri 03-Jan-25 20:09:36

I used to think a twin set was so sophisticated! 🤣

escaped Fri 03-Jan-25 20:04:48

Ah, I think I've got it now. So, a twin set is just the top bits. I've spent my life thinking it was like a suit - a skirt bottom and matching twin jacket in the same wool!
The posh girls at uni did often come to college like that. (They had done their A levels at Cheltenham Ladies' College or Westonbirt.)
Like so, a more modern version ......

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 19:53:24

MissAdventure

Before my time.
I was told my nan was a "sweater girl".
Mind you, it was my other nan who told me that.

Was she Jayne Mansfield? 😯

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 19:52:14

escaped

I think the twin sets I nean were revived by the posh girls around 1980 when I was at uni. A bit like the Diana/Sloane Square look with ruffled collar shirts. The tartan and tweed skirs didn't match the top half though like I assume they did in 1960? I'll look for a picture, but I'm out now until after lunch.

Oh, I remember those!
I think twin sets were more boring, a short-sleeved wool jumper with matching cardigan.

😯 just had a look - they are still sold!

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 16:19:03

Before my time.
I was told my nan was a "sweater girl".
Mind you, it was my other nan who told me that.

welbeck Fri 03-Jan-25 16:14:05

What about the bobby soxers.
That was early 50s.

Allira Fri 03-Jan-25 15:22:01

Indigo8

Having done a bit of light research, I have discovered that Elvis Presley recorded a song "High-heel Sneakers" which was released in 1964. As 'Sneakers' is the name still given to what are now called 'Trainers' in the UK, they must have been around then. Though, if my memory serves me right, they were called 'Sneakers' in the UK back then.

Incidentally I had a pair of 'Basketball Boots' back in the 1960s. They were made of canvas, had high tops, laces and had soft soles. I believe these are still around now and are usually made by 'Converse'.

Yes, I had sneakers. Just couldn't remember the name earlier. I probably wore them with jeans and a striped Breton top; that would be about 1963.

Before then teenagers tended to wear younger versions of what their mothers wore.

MissAdventure Fri 03-Jan-25 15:21:54

True.
It doesn't matter a jot.

Someone could say a person is clever, or beautiful, but it is how it's said that denotes whether it's meant in a good or bad way.

Posh is just a word.
No more, no less.

Gwyllt Fri 03-Jan-25 15:15:28

Does it matter
It’s not what you say it’s the way that you say it

Anneeba Fri 03-Jan-25 14:46:54

My holiday dog sitter when we lived in Yorkshire said my husband and I (southern accents) were posh 'but you're ok'. High praise indeed 🤣