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Manners in the supermarket

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mumofmadboys Sat 11-Jan-25 20:24:35

My son worked at a chip shop. A man came in and said' fish and chips'. My son said 'pardon'. This was repeated 2 or 3 times until the customer realised he was expected to say please!

MissInterpreted Sat 11-Jan-25 19:17:53

Manners cost nothing, but are a measure of a person. There's no excuse for rudeness like that.

Babs03 Sat 11-Jan-25 19:02:01

People do seem to forget their manners in places where they are being served, either supermarkets, restaurants, bars, etc., perhaps they think they pay for such a service so it should be available without a 'please' or 'thankyou' being necessary.
It is always necessary.
When I volunteered in a charity shop I was shocked at how rude customers could be when I serve them on the till. I would always start with a smile and a 'hello', nothing more unless the customer spoke to me, but some would simply throw their purchases in front of me and continue talking on the phone or to whoever had come in the shop with them, treating me as invisible. One customer asked I would wrap what she had bought, I said we don't do wrapping, and the customer then proceeded to swear at me until I called the manager who told her to leave. I was so shaken I refused to go on the till again preferring to help in other ways. And this is in a 'charity shop', goodness only knows how rude/hostile some people are in larger retail outlets/supermarkets.
Good for the supervisor for reminding the customer about her manners in the OP. Luckily she didn't get a mouthful.
I really despair when I see how rude and inconsiderate some people are.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:44:34

Bad manners or in the case of the OP no manners really make me cross.

It costs nothing to say please and thank you, along with being polite and a smile (even when it’s difficult) can make all the difference.

Cabbie21 Sat 11-Jan-25 18:32:02

This morning I was buying a few things in Aldi, using the self check-out tills. The young woman next to me called the check-out supervisor over and asked for “ A bag”. Nothing unusual, as people often forget to bring a bag. . The supervisor is an older lady, beloved by all for her efficiency and friendliness. She responded “ A bag, please” , then provided one and pointedly said “ Thank you” to the shopper.
I was full of admiration for her.