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I don't use a mobile phone. Am I unique?

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Aely Tue 18-Feb-25 13:11:14

I do have an ancient Nokia 1200 which I bought in about 2006 when I was going to Crete, but it stays in my handbag, switched off, apart from very rare occasions. I did use it last Friday, a 30 second call to my daughter to tell her I was out of my Chiropodist appointment and waiting by her car. I have probably made a couple of dozen such calls in the last 19 years and sent a few text messages under similar circumstances.

It really irritates me that it is assumed by businesses that, not only will I use a mobile, but that it will be a Smart Phone. I am nearly 77. I have limited mobility. I go out to do my shopping or pop round to a neighbour. I have to pay for a landline to get my broadband service (a hangover from when t'internet came through the phone line). Why should I pay out for a Smartphone, Gigabytes and Minutes I don't need, just for businesses convenience?

I have my MP3 player for music on the go and somewhere in the house I have a digital camera I also bought for the Crete trip. I can't remember when I last wanted to take a photo. I get maybe one non-scam call a week, on my landline, make perhaps 2 calls and even the would-be scammers have mainly given up on me. I have my laptop for t'internet. It gets switched on every couple of days to check for the rare email from an equally elderly friend or to check something out on the Web.

Until I had my cataract fixed a couple of years ago, using any mobile phone was a problem and my jittery fingers and dodgy eyes don't help.
I see friends and even my 40 something daughter fighting with their phones, getting more and more exasperated and think "Why do they bother?" But more and more of life is getting difficult without this clumsy, expensive and time consuming "convenience".

petra Tue 18-Feb-25 14:43:19

Indigo8

I have never owned a mobile phone.

I often find that I can't complete a purchase online without a mobile number and my surgery repeatedly sends reminders for me to let them have my mobile number.

I can't shop with Sainsbury's anymore which is a bit of a chizz because I have loads of Nectar points I can't spend.

I prefer to eat and heat rather than have a phone contract on top of all my other bills.

For the convenience would £5/6 break the bank. You can get lots of deals at that price.
I suppose it boils down to your lifestyle and commitments.

tanith Tue 18-Feb-25 14:49:25

I’m 76 use my mobile for most things, getting rid of my landline saved me over £40 pm and those nuisance phishing calls. I bank online and keep up with family and friends all the time it’s proved invaluable during my house buying adventure I don’t miss a call or email from the various agents. Shopped on it during covid and all my NHS info is there at the touch of a button.
Ok not everybody sees the benefits but I wouldn’t be without mine.

crazyH Tue 18-Feb-25 14:49:45

All my family and friends (except 2) use mobile phones. WhatsApp is a free way to communicate. On the odd occasion I have to contact those who are not on WhatsApp, I ring their landline. What’s not to love about a mobile phone. If it wasn’t for my wi-fi , I would completely do away with my landline…. although I have heard that I don’t need a landline for wi-fi. I will look into that ….

Esmay Tue 18-Feb-25 14:54:40

I find my phone invaluable for keeping in touch ,making appointments and research .
I mislaid it last week and was phoneless for two days and was lost !
Some of my elderly friends don't have mobiles and I find it frustrating trying to contact them .
I guess that I've just got used to it .

Indigo8 Tue 18-Feb-25 15:00:45

petra

Indigo8

I have never owned a mobile phone.

I often find that I can't complete a purchase online without a mobile number and my surgery repeatedly sends reminders for me to let them have my mobile number.

I can't shop with Sainsbury's anymore which is a bit of a chizz because I have loads of Nectar points I can't spend.

I prefer to eat and heat rather than have a phone contract on top of all my other bills.

For the convenience would £5/6 break the bank. You can get lots of deals at that price.
I suppose it boils down to your lifestyle and commitments.

Thank you petra

I must admit it is a very long time since I looked into getting a mobile phone.

The last time I looked the monthly bill was between £25 and £36 depending on a lot of incomprehensible variables. It is probably time I had another look.

crazyH Tue 18-Feb-25 15:08:54

The last time I looked the monthly bill was between £25 and £36 depending on a lot of incomprehensible variables. It is probably time I had another look.

I use Tesco Pay as you Go. It cost me between £6-10 pm.

M0nica Tue 18-Feb-25 15:23:05

Nell82

"I don't have it beeping and weeping at all hours because people want to send me pictures of their dinners"

😂 so true NonGrannyMoll

No one has ever sent me a picture of their dinner - and I have an all singing, all dancing smartphone. I do not get any spam messages on it. Its main use is to send me those 6 figure codes necessary when 'verifying by Visa' any online purchases.

Aldom Tue 18-Feb-25 15:27:37

I often wonder if the people who seem to be so proud of not using a mobile phone own a washing machine, when two dolly tubs and a mangle did the job.

sharon103 Tue 18-Feb-25 15:45:18

I don't have a mobile phone. I'm happy with my landline and answer phone. Not corded so I can take it around the house and so far in the garden. I can talk until the cows come home as long as I end the call after and hour and then ring back.
I did try one ages ago but the signal is rubbish downstairs. People have to go outside to make a call here.
When I go out I wouldn't want people pestering me. I know I could turn one off but then what's the point.
I'm happy with my laptop. Couldn't be without it.
I agree with Petra's post.

sharon103 Tue 18-Feb-25 15:47:26

Aldom

I often wonder if the people who seem to be so proud of not using a mobile phone own a washing machine, when two dolly tubs and a mangle did the job.

I've got all the other mod cons. Aldom. smile

Grammaretto Tue 18-Feb-25 16:01:35

I do all my correspondence on my mobile phone. I am using it now to read this forum.

I accidentally left my phone on the
plane going to NZ, a year ago.

I never got it back and managed the rest of the journey and the month there without it

It was extremely restful without it but I was pleased to find that all my important information, phone numbers etc were somewhere in the cloud so were easily captured onto my new phone when I returned.

I had missed hundreds of emails, mostly unimportant.
It was a real holiday!

Granmarderby10 Tue 18-Feb-25 16:08:13

A timely thread for me today because I have a very old iPhone (hand- me- down) that works adequately for me good battery life but won’t stand any more updates for my work app or for WhatsApp soon. Boo! Plus I have iPad which is fine….for now.

My frustration is the sheer complication of finding information about eg…this afternoon the cinema, times, price particularly price
they will not tell you anything you want to know unless you log in and give them your entire life story virtually,
so a simple decision about what cinema (no manned phone lines) or even swimming pool etc for the Gkids this half term turns into a kafkaesque nightmare grrr 👹
Rant over and out.

petra Tue 18-Feb-25 16:09:27

Indego
You don’t have to give your mobile number for an online purchase.
As long as they have your email address that’s sufficient.
In the box for mobile number put a mobile network code ie 07910 ( that’s a bonified code) then, as I do any 6 numbers you choose. The program only needs to see a number.
The only people who have my number are my bank and my Dr.

Aldom Tue 18-Feb-25 16:12:04

Gosh, Gramarretto is it really a year since you lost your phone. I remember it clearly. How time flies. smile

Moonwatcher1904 Tue 18-Feb-25 16:21:11

RosieandherMaw

^A lady in the downstairs flat to us has a simple phone and text mobile^
So she has a mobile phone. confusedconfused

What I meant was that she has no other technology other than this phone. It's not one that is able to have any apps installed.

Skye17 Tue 18-Feb-25 16:39:02

OP, it’s obviously your choice whether to have a smartphone or not. But if you haven’t used one, how do you know that they’re just clumsy, expensive and time consuming? I’m sure if you asked your daughter and friends they would have some positive things to say about their smartphones.

My Apple iPhone only costs me £8 a month (SIM-only deal), and it undoubtably saves me time besides providing a lot of entertainment. As for clumsy, I’d say it’s unbelievably sophisticated and fast. Sometimes the user might be clumsy!

That £8 a month also saves me buying diaries, calendars, notebooks, maps and satnavs.

There are reasons that most of the world has moved onto using smartphones.

Skye17 Tue 18-Feb-25 16:44:42

NonGrannyMoll

I have 2 mobile phones but wish I could manage modern life without them. They're an expensive nuisance.
I bought a Nokia in 2004 when we were between houses and lived "on the road". Only ever used it to make & receive calls and never bothered with texts. I've only used the Nokia for the past 20 years to call home if I'm going to be late.
I bought another mobile about 3 years ago because it was (don't know whether it's smart, average IQ or just plain stupid) the only way I could access my email account while away from a computer. Kept that one because so many (TOO many) things are impossible to do nowadays without giving a mobile number. I think that's outrageous but the rest of the world seems to think that's a fine way to do business.
I prefer my land line. The sou8nd is good and the line doesn't keep cutting out because the fools who call me aren't near a suitable mast (why do mobile phone users put up with such poor service & coverage?). I can phone anywhere in the world without paying extra for the privilege, and I don't have it beeping and weeping at all hours because people want to send me pictures of their dinners.

I don't have it beeping and weeping at all hours because people want to send me pictures of their dinners.

You can set your phone not to give you notifications (beeps) whenever you want. You can have a schedule for when you want them, e g, during the day but not at night.

muckandnettles Tue 18-Feb-25 16:47:28

I have one friend who doesn't have a mobile and her reasoning is that people can ring her on her landline. What I always say to her is that it's useful to have one for an emergency at the very least (as you do, op) and anyone I know who has had to go for a stay in hospital has found it an absolute godsend for keeping in touch with people, occupying yourself and feeling in touch with the outside world. If you ever visit a hospital ward, most people, if they are able, are on their phones if they don't have a visitor with them.

Claremont Tue 18-Feb-25 16:49:48

I have a pay as you go, and it mostly lives in the kitchen. I do not want to be 'on call' all the time- and I usually go for big forest walks with my neighbour and our dogs- and she always has hers in an emergency. I only take it if I go on long drives alone.

Romola Tue 18-Feb-25 16:52:51

Unfortunately, it seems to be impossible to participate in today's world without using a smartphone.
The thing I do find annoying is that one is expecting to respond promptly to messages of all kinds.

Rula Tue 18-Feb-25 17:00:20

If you don't want a smart phone, that's perfectly fine.

Personally I just couldn't function well without mine. I love it.

RosieandherMaw Tue 18-Feb-25 17:24:52

I’ve never quite understood the “humble-bragging” mentality which claims virtue in not taking advantage of modern technology- and by “modern” I include 20th century.
I know people who “don’t believe in “ central heating (take it from me, it exists) who don’t ever shop in supermarkets, or heat their bedroom or use a hairdryer to dry their hair, or a steam iron when spitting on an iron heated at the fire was fine for their granny or have a television or prefer easy care bedding. I could go on.
By all means, you are entitled to your choices, but don’t expect admiration from those of us who believe in the benefits of progress in our domestic appliances.
Some old people seem particularly prone to this - beware hardening of the attitudes

mum2three Tue 18-Feb-25 17:31:40

How refreshing. Mobile phones do save lives and it's a good idea to always have one with you went you go out.
Apart from that, most people can mange perfectly well without one. It's just become a habit.

M0nica Tue 18-Feb-25 17:34:17

RosieandherMaw I couldn't agree more.

mum2three Tue 18-Feb-25 17:34:30

I made a mess of that...LOL. Juggling several things at once here, including acting as referee to quarrelling budgies!