My adult DS has Down’s Syndrome. If there were benefits for children with disabilities when he was at school, I never heard about them. I wouldn’t have thought, at that stage, that children would be eligible, unless their needs cost the family more money than it cost to bring up a child without a disability. My son was at a special needs school until he was eighteen, then the local college for a year, which didn’t really cater for his level of need. He then attended a day centre twice a week, and it was then that social services ‘ discovered ‘ him. They found a therapeutic placement for him for two days a week, and he was awarded DLA, when he was twenty, plus support allowance, as he wasn’t fit for paid employment. He is now fifty, and still at home. There is a shortage of places in supported living, and no chance of respite whatsoever, as there is a waiting list a few years long apparently. Maybe not in my lifetime then!