love0c
I know a journalist of a very well known newspaper and they informed me that they had seen photographic evidence to prove that she was born a man. Were the photos fake? Who knows. I most definitely believe the journalist though. They were not allowed to publish them.
So your perspective would be (and I don't want to put words in your mouth), you trust your journalist friend, and they have actually seen photos, so you trust the evidence your friend has seen?
You raise such a good few points in your post love0c.
If there were no restrictions on publication (to preserve the perceived position of BM) the public would have more information to decide for themselves how they feel about a trans man/woman being connected to a head of state, and how they feel about a head of state choosing a trans man/woman as a partner.
Why infantilize the public?
The point about trusting your source is more complicated in as much as it brings in an emotional response to the subject.
Which of course (not saying in your case) means we are capable of being easily manipulated through our emotional reactions by outside forces, ie, media etc.
Thank you for your post, it gave me something to think on 