As a disabled person with a full time working partner PIP is the only allowance I can claim in my own right after decades of working and paying taxes. If PIP gets stopped this leaves many disabled people financially vulnerable and reliant on the good will of their partner, have to go cup in hand asking for money for sanitary items and other such personal items, imagine if that partner used that in an abusive coercive way, not all couples have joint accounts.
I was on full DLA when I first met my partner, then my daughter died and I was suicidal. I had only known him a few months, but luckily for me, he was a star, the first non abusive relationship I had ever had. He refused to leave me alone in my own home because when he did I made another suicide attempt, so he took me to his home. ALL my sickness benefits stopped because I was living with him, so not only was he supporting me emotionally, suddenly this poor man was expected to support me financially too! most guys would have run a mile, I only just met him!
so for years I was purely financially dependent on him, I tried working at a checkout, then having to reduce hours to eventually doing just 3 hr shifts were too much, twice a week.
Then PIP was brought in and at last I had some dignity, I could contribute to all my financial needs and pressures my disability incurs instead of being a financial burden I can buy my own.
Just to clarify, on PIP we do not get free prescriptions, I have to buy annual pre pay to help alleviate the costs. I pay for dental, for glasses and I do not drive a brand new car for free from the DWA, because you can chose either have a car and lose your money, or have the money, you don't get both! I am rarely well enough to leave the house so a new car sitting on my drive seems senseless.
I think it very scary that vulnerable disabled people are now going to be at the mercy on the generosity of partners, and there are many who are not! Thankfully I am one of the lucky ones.
I agree there are some that milk the system because if they claim anxiety etc they know they get more money than job seekers and they do not have to prove they are hunting for work each week. If they are single, and usually earn min wage then there is not a lot in it between the benefits they can claim, to having to work, so of course they prefer to claim PIP to top up their money and sit around watching netflix all day instead of working. YES - I do know some of them!
It is very hard to claim PIP you have to provide reams of medical proof of disability, and my claim took over 18 mths to go through. The interview process is brutal and I know many people at my disability charity support group who literally cannot face the whole process and go without claiming and they would easily be able to claim. It is tough, but the ones who come from multi-generational benefits families, where they know the the loopholes how to claim and what they need to falsify to get the extra money should be looked into because it gives us a bad name.
I am fed up of all this disabled shaming that is rife on social media at the moment. GENUINE Disabled people live with enough shame and guilt, and feeling like a burden, to society, to family who support them already without everyone jumping on the bandwagon to beat them yet another stick. There will be many taking their own lives over this decision, on many online groups I belong to, already so many are so stressed about it.