I think the moaning set in prior to Meghan, she just knows how to elevate it and has weaponised perceived, slights and grudges against his family, the whingy 'spare' crap. Disrespectful courtiers, everything to do with "the firm" whilst adding into the mix her very own specialities "racism", "i feel suicidal" in this grey, gloomy country where I can't do things my way and speak my truth" Before she came on the scene, Cressida Bonas painted a dreary courtship with Harry, walking several paces behind whilst he raged about his father and life generally. It's a shame he didn't meet Chelsea later and not in the first flush of youth, he looked really happy, I think with her there he was a different Harry, plus they both shared a genuine love of Africa.