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What would you rather have?

(36 Posts)
NotSpaghetti Mon 14-Apr-25 09:33:13

Ditto M0nica.

I don't think I'd like either of the men you describe OhMother.

Churchview Mon 14-Apr-25 09:21:27

Sounds like you need to have a conversation with your husband not GN OP.

Aldom Mon 14-Apr-25 08:27:59

We just 'jelled', no rules. Just got on with life. We were the perfect match.
Like everyone, we each had our idiosyncrasies, but we understood one another, so no problem.
Those were the days....if only....

M0nica Mon 14-Apr-25 08:18:14

Still got my DH and he is neither, so I wouldn't know.

Georgesgran Mon 14-Apr-25 08:02:26

Mine was absolutely useless, but I’d have him back like a shot!

RosieandherMaw Mon 14-Apr-25 07:59:37

Paw was more like the former, and I’d have him back in a heartbeat..

Greenfinch Mon 14-Apr-25 07:57:16

There will be many on here who would settle for either.

Blossoming Mon 14-Apr-25 07:49:18

I want the DH I already have, who fits neither of those stereotypes.

LOUISA1523 Mon 14-Apr-25 07:35:09

The first one , everytime

Poppyred Mon 14-Apr-25 07:25:27

Oh, are you having a domestic?? Bit early isn’t it?

Ohmother Mon 14-Apr-25 07:14:42

Just that…a DH who says, “Tell me what you want doing and I’ll do it.” and stands around watching or interfering while you do a job OR a man who thinks for himself and gets on with it?