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soop Thu 22-May-25 14:38:31

Welcome! Please make yourselves comfortable. I thank you all for your patience and support throughout the times that we've shared. flowers

harrigran Fri 06-Jun-25 22:55:44

Just read about FGT.
Perpetrator should get down on their knees and thank God they are not in a similar position. Do the right thing and remove yourself from GN 😡

Kate1949 Fri 06-Jun-25 22:50:14

Agreed merlot No longer caring and supportive. What a shame. People going through probably the toughest time of their lives get treated so badly.

Grran Fri 06-Jun-25 22:45:27

Just realised that FGT has been reported. Sorry. That is awful. The world is not a kind place anymore. Still sending her my best wishes and hoping someone sees sense and reverses the ban soon.

SueDonim Fri 06-Jun-25 22:38:43

What in heaven’s name is going on?? FGT has been banned after being reported?? shock shock

Someone needs to take a long, hard look at themselves and ask themselves if they’re the sort of person they’d offer up as a role model in life. angry

Grran Fri 06-Jun-25 22:35:45

Just nipped in for a catch up. Sending best wishes to the Soops, FGT2 and Sue D.

It’s our last weekend with our foster pup, who will be going back to the charity that owns him next week, to train as an assistance dog.. what a treasure he is 😍🐾 I will miss him.

G’night everyone. May tomorrow be a good day.

mamaa Fri 06-Jun-25 22:08:42

Wish there was a like button as Merlotgran I’d have ‘liked’ your post- I totally agree with everything you wrote.
I’d hopef that the Mods maybe would’ve learnt from the Maw Phoenix debacle and the fall- out which followed, but it seems not. Sad times indeed. sad

merlotgran Fri 06-Jun-25 22:01:42

I’m another who rarely posts in the kitchen but follow everyone’s news.
I’m shocked at the cruel treatment of FGT. Does nobody at HQ have a heart?
I also remember Maw being banned, when we had to refer to her as, ‘the lady with the thin dog,’ and the unbelievable banning of Phoenix.
This is no longer the caring, supportive site it used to be. 😢

Grannydaisy1 Fri 06-Jun-25 21:52:22

Fgt flowers can't believe what I have just read. Hope you can come back soon

Grandmadinosaur Fri 06-Jun-25 21:45:54

I am gobsmacked at the action of whoever reported FGT2 how cruel can they be at such a worrying time for her?
If anyone is in touch please pass on best wishes to her and himself. I’d like to think GN admin would have a rethink and reinstate her.

Sending thoughts to to the soops Suedonim Yiayia and anyone I may have missed.

I’ve been to the theatre this evening an early performance of Six. It was a Christmas present. It wasn’t really my cup of tea. One of the singers had a rather screechy voice too.

woodenspoon Fri 06-Jun-25 21:41:01

I think it’s outrageous. I didn’t see what she posted but she certainly doesn’t need this. Send her my best wishes those of you who know her 💐

GrannyIvy Fri 06-Jun-25 21:38:29

Omg I cannot believe this. I don’t post on this thread normally but I cannot believe FGT has been banned. Unbelievable. Sending love to her and her DH and love and strength to them both x

Kate1949 Fri 06-Jun-25 21:33:15

I don't post on this thread often either but what IS the matter with people? I have read FGT's posts for years under her old and new name. How spiteful some people are.

Ladyleftfieldlover Fri 06-Jun-25 21:30:27

I’m so sorry to hear this news. I’ll try and send her a message.

mamaa Fri 06-Jun-25 21:30:15

I was about to post my best wishes and positive hopes for FGT and Himself, which I have obviously now just done 😉, when I read Rosie’s Maw’s post detailing what has recently transpired due to the actions of others, and frankly it beggars belief.
Why would someone do that irrespective of which thread FGT posted on, because unless they’ve been on Mars these last few years they would/should have been aware of the FGT’s situation and at the very least ‘cut her some slack’ if they disagreed with whatever had been posted.
At times I do despair about the humanity of some people and hope that Mrs FGT is re- instated sooner rather than later especially given the recent news.
Rant over, can you tell I’m cross? Sorry about that as this such a gentle place, but I needed to let off steam.
I’m off to the quiet corner now to fume quietly. xx

Redcar Fri 06-Jun-25 21:26:52

I’ll miss her.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 06-Jun-25 21:23:50

FGT2 wants to thank all of you for your support in this difficult time for her and himself.

Unfortunately someone has reported a post of hers on a different thread, consequently she has been banned from GN.

She will miss your kindness over the years very much.

kittylester Fri 06-Jun-25 21:15:58

Me too.

Whoever did that should feel ashamed.

Yiayia4 Fri 06-Jun-25 21:15:28

That’s so very sad.Cant believe someone would do such a cruel thing.

brook2704 Fri 06-Jun-25 21:13:52

Thank you for letting us know Rosie, I don’t understand it but hope it can get resolved soon

Jaxjacky Fri 06-Jun-25 21:11:12

I am very sad.

Redcar Fri 06-Jun-25 21:09:47

grandmabatty it may have been a complaint about something she posted on another thread.

Redcar Fri 06-Jun-25 21:04:17

rosiesndhermaw thank you for the heads up, but how awful that one of our friends is now unable to post. If you are able to contact her, please pass on my best wishes and prayers for her and her DH.
sueD thinking of you at this difficult time for you and your DH. I hope the treatment goes well.
I hope you soon feel better grandmabatty, look after yourself.
grannmarie look after yourself and eat what you fancy for dinner - more than a toastie though. I hope you have a good day with your DGD and Grandpup tomorrow!
I finally started to declutter the dining room, there are several boxes of toys that very occasionally get played with by the granddaughters on their short visits. So I threw out several old Barbie dolls and some of their clothes. Then I looked at one of the canteens of cutlery under the glass cabinet and decided that it could go to the charity shop if they want it. I’ll “make do” with the other three canteens I have acquired from somewhere. I couldn’t bring myself to get rid of my mum’s old dessert spoons though. I gave up after that, didn’t want to exhaust myself - ha ha!
Night night everyone, I hope the rain doesn’t wake us all up in the night.

Grandmabatty Fri 06-Jun-25 21:03:04

I don't understand why someone would do that. It seems really cruel. It's taken a lot for FGT to post that update. There's nothing contentious about it.

RosieandherMaw Fri 06-Jun-25 20:38:23

I don't often post here but do follow.
And just wanted to give a heads up that somebody we know whose DH is about to start another round of chemo and a trial won't be posting because somebody else in their infinite wisdom has seen fit to report her and the plug has been pulled.
She is sorry she can't even say goodbye and thank you for all your immense kindness and invaluable support.
I just hope "whoever" is proud of themselves to cast out somebody who is facing perhaps the greatest struggle of her marriage (been there, done that remembering how I too was left in isolation and loneliness.)
And how terminally ill Phoenix was barred just months before she left us.
I find it hard to credit the unkindness of some people , the lack of basic charity.
Ah well, takes all sorts.
If this gets deleted I hope enough people have read it and pass the message on.

Grannmarie Fri 06-Jun-25 20:29:39

Reading about Grandmabatty's and Jaxjacky 's tasty dinners, favourites of mine, has made me realise I've not had mine!! Some days I just have a toastie. Must try harder!

Toddy time, Grandmabatty, it'll give you a good sleep. Purely medicinal! 🥃 🍯 🍋 Well done to your wee DGS1 on his super report!

Hope you avoid the storms, Jaxjacky, enjoy the wedding.

Enjoy your wee break in Dundee, GrandmaC47. DH and I had a great time there in between lockdowns, we stayed at the waterfront and had a fantastic visit to the Discovery.

My massage yesterday was very helpful, thank you lovely ladies for your kind comments. I have another appointment next week, I'm so glad our GP practice has this available cos I've still not heard from Physiotherapy, I was referred by A and E doctor on Easter Sunday. I phone every week to enquire but no one answers.

DGD (nearly 14) and Grandpup are coming to 'keep me company ' tomorrow, that should be interesting!

Wishing everyone the best weekend possible. TOYA, especially those with illness, worries or sorrow.

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