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WhatsApp yea or nay?

(73 Posts)
lafergar Wed 28-May-25 07:24:38

It's a strange beast isn't it? I've removed myself from 2 groups.

One was the WI which generated over 70 messages on the subject of paint brushes.

What a time to be alive.

MayBee70 Thu 29-May-25 22:33:08

As I’ve been locked out of Facebook and messenger on my iPad maybe I need to start using it as a way of being able to message people?

Bea65 Thu 29-May-25 20:42:17

I can text my DD and call her, video chat at any time and it’s free .. can’t believe she’s in NYC as the quality of calls is 5* and texts/chats soo speedy😀

Cath9 Thu 29-May-25 19:04:11

As with many, it is a must do me with one son who spends his working life abroad and the other lives abroad

RedRidingHood Thu 29-May-25 17:17:32

Welbec. It's a way of sending messages through WiFi. You can message individuals or have a group chat.
I have a family chat for me, DH and our adult children. It's quite useful for making arrangements.
My sewing group has a chat but I mute it.

Kari4 Thu 29-May-25 17:14:54

You could save your £4 per month for a start!
FREE texts
FREE calls
🤷‍♀️

Kari4 Thu 29-May-25 17:11:38

Love Wassap!
Family chat, group chat, chat with people in Australia/America etc free!

Easiest way to send & receive photos, audio messages and even forward those too.

I don’t have notifications on my phone for ANYTHING!

How did we live without it?

welbeck Thu 29-May-25 16:57:16

I don't understand what it is really so obviously I am not on it.
I am not in large social groups.
I don't contact anyone overseas.
I never go abroad.
I have inclusive calls and texts for 4pound a month.
And a few giggly bites.
I do pay for wi fi separately.

I can't see any advantage for me to be on it.
What am I missing?

Mamo Thu 29-May-25 16:52:56

I wish there were widely accepted norms or rules for posting on large WhatsApp groups. As PPs have said, it’s so tedious when every member of a group feels obliged to answer the same response to a poster, i.e. thanks or lovely photo or thinking of you, etc!! Or even just 20 thumbs ups when the organizer issues details of an event. Drives me mad. I usually end information messages with No Need to Reply…… despite which within seconds someone will have posted some unnecessary response!!!!

Also, I think it’s bad from to post a joke or a meme or your own photo, straight after someone else has asked a question or shared something sad or personal which does invite a response. It moves theirs up thread where it mightn’t be seen, and seems thoughtless.

I could go on…..🙄🙄 but I won’t. WhatsApp is generally great and I love it!

WelshPoppy Thu 29-May-25 16:32:34

I've got lots of contacts on WhatsApp but any groups, apart from family, I have muted notifications as I can't stand my phone pinging.

Susieq62 Thu 29-May-25 15:44:00

Great for keeping in touch down under and free phone calls!
I rarely respond to the angst on big group messages! Tedious !

Gogo84 Thu 29-May-25 14:53:38

I love WhatsApp. I use it for family messages, photos and phone calls and all free! We also have a family wordle group where we put our results of that and Connections, Strands and Quordle. It gets very competitive.

Nannapat1 Thu 29-May-25 14:19:23

I use WhatsApp for friends and family plus our street group. I've also found that quite a few businesses prefer WhatsApp messages to texts.
My phone has been on silent for a number of years now, so I don't get noisy notifications!

Ilovedogs22 Thu 29-May-25 14:10:42

SueEH

Yes from me. I’ve used it since it started and it’s been invaluable for making free calls home from all over the world. Plus messages etc too of course.

Yes indeed SueEH, I forgot about that bonus of the app, like a twit.🙂

Alison333 Thu 29-May-25 14:09:16

I'm another who finds it useful for family and small groups of friends. It's great for sharing a photo and making arrangements.

GranJan60 Thu 29-May-25 14:08:57

It’s great for friends and family and saves me a fortune in phone calls to France and Germany. I wouldn’t want to be part of a big group though.

SueEH Thu 29-May-25 14:04:29

Yes from me. I’ve used it since it started and it’s been invaluable for making free calls home from all over the world. Plus messages etc too of course.

ViceVersa Wed 28-May-25 18:03:02

I'm another one who finds it very useful, but also only for family and friends. We use it for keeping track of who is picking GS up from school etc. It's also handy for using if you are abroad as you can message without any charges.

JamesandJon33 Wed 28-May-25 17:59:44

We have a family one, and I am on two, for groups I belong to. That’s enough

Ilovedogs22 Wed 28-May-25 17:57:42

foxie48

Use it for friends and family plus a three social groups I'm in for organising get togethers. I find it really useful.

Yes foxie48, I'm relatively new to the app but find it very good for connecting with my far flung family of Boy's, who are very happy to use it too, which a bonus! ☺

Witzend Wed 28-May-25 17:12:26

Mine is just for family and a few, very close friends. I wouldn’t be without it.

sodapop Wed 28-May-25 17:05:15

I use WhatsApp for family and close friends only. As BlueBelle said large groups can become tedious.

MiniMoon Wed 28-May-25 11:23:21

I use WhatsApp with friends and family. My grandchildren all communicate using it. Youngest grandson calls me via WhatsApp as its free. I know when it is him calling as I gave him a different ringtone.

Astitchintime Wed 28-May-25 11:20:46

Yes for family and close friends but NO for anything else. Although I am in a charity WhatsApp group and have had to mute the notifications as the constant ping ping ping was driving me nuts but I still need to read many of the messages.

HelterSkelter1 Wed 28-May-25 11:14:18

I use Messenger. Similar but through Facebook. I keep in touch with my daughters individually and in a joint group and a few other family members and friends. So don't need or want WhatsApp as well. Must go ... younger dàughter has just sent me a photo!

merlotgran Wed 28-May-25 10:59:09

I prefer Facebook for family and friends but use WhatsApp for a couple of U3A groups I belong to.