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When did you last go to a ‘proper’ dance?

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Allira Tue 03-Jun-25 22:58:32

welbeck

Never.
Not my thing or milieu. At all.
went to barn dance in my youth.

Yes, those too.

tanith Tue 03-Jun-25 22:54:00

I went to many fishing club and working men’s club annual presentation dinner dances in my time. Always in evening/cocktail dresses and stilettos of course. This was in the 70s early 80s to be honest I never liked them, I never learnt to ‘dance ballroom’ only danced to the disco type and jive music..

welbeck Tue 03-Jun-25 22:48:30

Never.
Not my thing or milieu. At all.
went to barn dance in my youth.

Allira Tue 03-Jun-25 22:46:07

Now is the Hour at Naval Balls as the last dance!

Allira Tue 03-Jun-25 22:45:25

They always seemed to play Now is the Hour at Naval as the last dance balls! 😥

Now is the hour
For me to say goodbye
Soon I'll be sailing
Far across the sea

M0nica Tue 03-Jun-25 21:50:36

Around 2000. I went to a naval ball in Portsmouth. We had close friends in the navy and we were invited at various times to join them at the Ward Room's summer ball. They were great fun. Theoretically very formal, tall standup tables to eat at, beaytiful food exquisitely presented, a proper orchestra, and, literally, all the fun of the fair in the gardens. The last one there was a caricaturist who drew caricatures of guests. We had ones done and they are opposite me on the wall as I write this.

NotSpaghetti Tue 03-Jun-25 21:25:42

...that said I do remember some glorious dresses from the days when I was "shapely" grin

NotSpaghetti Tue 03-Jun-25 21:23:22

Last ever dinner dance - probably 1970s... just one or two works "dos" (which I've always hated) and a couple of presentation evenings since.

Don't miss it at all.
Was expected to go with my parents as a teenager. 😬

keepingquiet Tue 03-Jun-25 20:59:13

I remember a time when social clubs (often called working mens clubs) were in every town. The town I grew up had at least four, and they would all have been packed on Friday and Saturday nights. Who would have believed they would disappear almost without trace?
When I left home we dressed up and went down the discos and nightclubs (oh what carefree days!) and stayed out until the small hours.
My kids went clubbing too, and now they mostly hang out in cocktail bars and go to the pub for a meal.
I have no idea what my grandkids will get up to when they are old enough... things change, but at least I have those memories. I just can't remember when the last time was...!

Grandma70s Tue 03-Jun-25 20:49:49

I think I was probably at university. I loathe ballroom dancing. I like ballet, but that’s not very sociable.

Jaxjacky Tue 03-Jun-25 20:41:18

I’ve never been to a proper ‘dinner dance’ like my parents used to. In the corporate world it was dinner, company speech (tax offset) entertainment, then disco, sometimes a hotel room thrown in. So, it would’ve been in the 90’s, as I left in 2000, local government do’s were far more toned down, often self funded.

kittylester Tue 03-Jun-25 20:34:23

Even longer ago than that, Bluebelle 1974 at a guess.

BlueBelle Tue 03-Jun-25 20:15:22

I think it would have been about 1984 or around there so about 40 odd years ago 🤣

Aveline Tue 03-Jun-25 20:14:27

Last month. Mind you I didn't dance. Just watched but found the music far too loud. Old fogey complaint!

Magenta8 Tue 03-Jun-25 20:12:38

The last dance evening I went to was a barn dance which had a small band of beardy men playing the music and another (unbearded) man with a microphone who called out the steps as in "Dosey doe and round you go". Good fun but very little dancing skill required. Even those seem to be a thing of the past.

The only dance I ever went to where people did proper ballroom was over 60 years ago. Gosh that makes me feel old.

Daddima Tue 03-Jun-25 19:15:12

I was just looking at a film of a couple doing some very nifty dancing, and it reminded me of how jealous I used to be of those couples who were accomplished ballroom dancers ( like my parents!), and whom we used to see at local dances. Then I realised that it is years since I have been to a ‘proper’ dance.
The Bodach and I often used to go to Saturday night dinner dances, always dressed up, usually in a hotel, then when children arrived it was mostly school/ football teams/ club fundraising dances, usually with food of some kind, but always with a live band.
The last ones would have been the Golf Club annual dance and prize giving, but I seem to remember that the last one we went to was a disco, and was definitely over ten years ago.
So, has the Annual Dance become a thing of the past?