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Whitewavemark2 Tue 01-Jul-25 07:11:02

We’ve just returned from a weeks holiday, where we met and clicked with two other couples. We have never had so much fun and laughter ā€œtill we criedā€ for a long time.

We walked in airless 35c temperature, sat in an open top boat in the same temperature, and did everything older people are advised against, like eating late at night and drinking quantities of alcohol.

Their ages?

98, 95, 89, and 81.

They were full of laughter, zest for living, and enthusiasm. (It helps that we shared the same politics😊).

I shall miss them so much.

blue14 Tue 01-Jul-25 11:35:50

What a wonderful holiday WWM.

May you sit back and luxuriate in those happy memories for weeks to come with a smile on your face.

AmberGran Tue 01-Jul-25 12:45:35

That is so lovely - it's rare to meet people you quickly click with and enjoy time with.

We were in the Canaries some years ago and got chatting to a couple at the bar, who then joined us for dinner. We were getting on well when we somehow got split up and I realised DH was further along the bar with MrsStranger and I was cornered with MrStranger. MrStranger suggested we go up to his room, as he thought DH was 'enjoying himself with MrsStranger'.

It finally clicked they were a pair of swingers looking for some fun. I would have been worried but the thought of DH being wooed by MrsStranger, and probably looking like a deer caught in the headlights made me laugh so much MrStranger got angry and stormed off, dragging MrsStranger with him. When DH came over he was very white and it took a while for him to see the funny side. We avoided strangers after that for that holiday grin

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 13:54:15

Stranger Danger AmberGran 😲🤭

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 13:57:49

I think very old people often think ā€˜the hell with it’ and do things they wouldn’t have done 10 years ago.Inhibitions go out the window.
Sitting in the heat and knocking back the vino is what British people are always castigating for 😁

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 13:58:22

Castigated

Oreo Tue 01-Jul-25 14:00:47

It’s nice to meet others on holiday we can get on with well isn’t it?
We have two sets of friends that we met in this way and still keep in touch and meet up as an annual event.

JdotJ Tue 01-Jul-25 14:08:23

How wonderful.

I have a dear friend who is 97 and we laugh like drains about anything and everything.

She's a real tonic to know

Mollygo Tue 01-Jul-25 16:07:01

We keep in touch or meet up with several couples we’ve met up with on holiday. They are all older than us except one couple.
One lady died last year, but her husband still keeps in touch by WhatsApp and cards.
It’s fun, but now we’re not the youngest couple anymore. Who knows what this year will bring.

Georgesgran Tue 01-Jul-25 21:52:35

A little detour from the thread here, but Debbie Harry is 80 (yes 80!) today. I’m 6 years younger, but she makes me look/feel old!!

Skydancer Tue 01-Jul-25 22:02:22

I am mid-70s. My youngest friend is 28 and my oldest is 99. They are both fun and I love being with them.

knspol Wed 02-Jul-25 14:22:46

WHITEWAVEMARK2 - well I enjoyed your post contrary to some and I hope I can enjoy myself at that age. Glad you enjoyed your holiday!

Mojack26 Wed 02-Jul-25 14:29:36

I agree,think that's wonferful

Happilyretired123 Wed 02-Jul-25 14:33:51

Lovely postšŸ™‚ and nothing wrong with sharing similar political views! Life too short to be all doom and gloomšŸ„‚

Juicylucy Wed 02-Jul-25 15:50:52

What a wonderful post, sounds like you had the time of your life. How refreshing not to put limits on enjoyment. Shame some posters just picked up the politics part and not how much laughter was involved. šŸ’ƒšŸ¤£

Shill29 Wed 02-Jul-25 15:57:46

Why has the conversation turned to talking about politics??
The poster never mentioned that !!

Shill29 Wed 02-Jul-25 15:59:29

Haha🤣

Lesley60 Wed 02-Jul-25 16:02:40

Good for you, I feel a little envious when you hear of people making friends on holidays as we never do, even though we are friendly don’t get me wrong we chat to different people but we have never really made friends
It’s fantastic to hear you did those things in your second youth

Mollygo Wed 02-Jul-25 16:19:36

Shill29

Why has the conversation turned to talking about politics??
The poster never mentioned that !!

Yes she did, but recollections may vary.

Anneeba Wed 02-Jul-25 16:52:17

Enjoyed your post WWM2! I agree the laughter might have been less loud if there was a difference in politics... Being able to completely relax and say what comes to mind with new friends is a joy. Long may it continue for us all.

Momac55 Wed 02-Jul-25 17:24:06

Wow that’s brilliant, I hope I’m like that at their ages

Momac55 Wed 02-Jul-25 17:25:12

Wow

Momac55 Wed 02-Jul-25 17:26:16

I’ve never heard a drain laugh ;)

Mollygo Wed 02-Jul-25 17:27:55

Momac55

I’ve never heard a drain laugh ;)

Drain laughs are more of a gurgle, but it’s definitely a funny sound.

Crossstitchfan Wed 02-Jul-25 17:31:08

Sago

I would avoid anyone in a social situation that started talking politics.

My thoughts exactly, the minute I read the post!

Crossstitchfan Wed 02-Jul-25 17:32:38

Happilyretired123

Lovely postšŸ™‚ and nothing wrong with sharing similar political views! Life too short to be all doom and gloomšŸ„‚

Agree in principle but why on earth talk politics on holiday? Some people need to get a life!