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Nellbell Fri 18-Jul-25 21:03:54

Its starting to annoy me when -
I'm told "see you later" especially by people you don't know such as shop assistants. Even had this when speaking to people in call centres miles away. I now respond with "I didn't know I'd invited you to dinner".
The constant inclusion of 'like' in conversations - usually by younger people. Even if someone says it on TV, it's included in the subtitles - argh.
Sorry - rant over.

Jaxjacky Tue 22-Jul-25 15:28:12

The latest two that seem to be in popular use are ‘100%’ and ‘no worries’ the latter often in place of thank you, but they’ll pass.

springishere Tue 22-Jul-25 15:06:10

All of these. I'm so glad there are so many people out there who agree with me. Sometimes I feel I'm on a losing battle. I'm a real pedant, and my adult children are the same.

Oldnproud Tue 22-Jul-25 14:35:31

Menopauselbitch

Everyone using ‘texted’ I hate it with a passion.

I feel like that about people saying 'text'. Or are they saying 'texed'?

Menopauselbitch Tue 22-Jul-25 10:41:01

Everyone using ‘texted’ I hate it with a passion.

katibpkonline Tue 22-Jul-25 10:25:48

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Nanny27 Tue 22-Jul-25 10:18:25

grandma2002 Haitch really makes my teeth itch too, as does mischeevious.

Freya5 Tue 22-Jul-25 10:01:56

Loose, instead of lose. Two completely different meanings.

Grandma2002 Tue 22-Jul-25 09:56:42

I used to dislike the response "absolutely". I am glad it seems to have disappeared nowadays. My biggest bugbear of all time is people who say "haitch" instead of aitch. I am sure I have annoying speech mannerisms of which I am totally unaware.

Nanny27 Tue 22-Jul-25 09:49:10

Myself instead if me. Yourself instead if you.

JamesandJon33 Tue 22-Jul-25 08:15:11

Musicgirl I do so agree with you. …off of, gotten, she knit ( knitted) are all creeping into our language. I went to a grammar school in the 50s and précis, parsing, correct use of speech, and writing marks were drilled into us. I dislike this lax way that is acceptable to some now.
As someone once said, their husband had a Tee shirt , the slogan on it said ‘ I am silently correcting your grammar’.

Musicgirl Tue 22-Jul-25 01:09:40

I am the ultimate pedant. I get annoyed when people say bored of or fed up of instead of bored/fed up with. I am increasingly seeing l have all instead of l have been or gone. Would of/could of/should of instead of would have/could have/should have. Another thing that is becoming all too common is the use of bathroom or restroom in the American sense instead of the perfectly adequate toilet/loo/lavatory or even wc. There are far too many more but I risk an apoplectic fit if I continue. Suffice it to say, I am one of the only people I know who still says university in full rather than the all too ubiquitous uni. I put the blame squarely on the Australian soap operas that were so popular in the eighties and nineties for that abomination.

FranP Mon 21-Jul-25 23:15:10

"to be fair" - aargh!

RSALLAN2002 Mon 21-Jul-25 21:25:27

Absolutely. At least people seem to have stopped using "basically" and "nebulous" all the time although, you know, overuse of "iconic" and "fantastic" have, you know, demeaned their value.

JPB123 Mon 21-Jul-25 21:22:38

Fewer and less……”I might of “ ,instead of “ I might have”.

Jockytaff Mon 21-Jul-25 21:06:33

To Soda pop - spot on.

petra Mon 21-Jul-25 20:45:11

Babamaman

My pet hates ! Get ready list is long using
Of instead of have
To when it should be too
Go and went
Bought and brought
To name but a few ………

Are you aware of the millions of children who grow up with parents whose grammar you disapprove of?
And then attend a school where the teachers haven’t got time to correct every child’s grammar?
Then to compound their ignorance they get a job where the majority speak as they do.

petra Mon 21-Jul-25 20:30:19

Nothing new in starting a sentence with so
The first line of Beowulf starts with the equivalent of so
It literally means im beginning to speak, listen up

Caleo Mon 21-Jul-25 20:20:17

Restyouraunt

Chest of Draws

Caleo Mon 21-Jul-25 20:16:45

"Oh you have made me laugh, Caleo grin" wrote Politics Nerd.

I am so glad PN but it was unintentional as I don't have a sense of humour.

Scribbles Mon 21-Jul-25 20:04:40

Ilovedogs22

I've just got one thing to say, Grans,
Whatever! 😉

Don't you mean, Wha'ever! ?

(Sorry. Couldn't resist🤨)

Ilovedogs22 Mon 21-Jul-25 19:34:17

I've just got one thing to say, Grans,
Whatever! 😉

4allweknow Mon 21-Jul-25 19:13:21

"You know what I mean" drives me nuts. There's a BBC radio presenter who utters this everytime he responds when holding a conversation with anyone on his show.

Nanny27 Mon 21-Jul-25 18:39:39

Not many phrases really irritate me but to see someone on social media shut down a discussion with 'end of ' absolutely infuriates me. So rude to say their piece and then shut down any response.

PoliticsNerd Mon 21-Jul-25 17:49:00

I reserve the right to be as irritated or annoyed as I please.

Of course you have that right Maizie, I just wish you didn't need to feel that way.

Magenta8 Mon 21-Jul-25 17:47:30

JamesandJon33

Time to leave I think. People are getting nickery.

I hope you just mean this thread J&J and not the whole of GN, you would be missed.

I know what you mean though. I am finding an increase in nickeriness on quite a few threads lately. I wonder it it's the weather.