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Letthefunbegin Mon 21-Jul-25 11:45:16

JaneJudge

I was going to suggest the same as Monica. Could you get a quote to have it taken down completely? and then maybe go halves? I understand it's not your responsibility but it's affecting you greatly and it seems like you have a good relationship with your neighbour otherwise?

It seems to neighbour is responsive to help?

I wonder why he is living in a house with a garden if he has no interest in it? We have neighbours who don't garden but they pay a man twice a month to come and tidy it up at least

Thanks JaneJudge. He will not pay anything I am sure. Never offered to give my son in law the price of a pint after pruning his bay and cutting his hedge AND taking away the rubbish. I think he inherited the house from his parents. I believe he owns a flat nearby that he rents out. But I may just get a quote to have it removed completely and see if I can bear the cost.

Letthefunbegin Mon 21-Jul-25 11:39:33

Thanks Monica. I am not sure that will be sustainable financially, but I will look into it, thanks.

henetha Mon 21-Jul-25 11:33:59

I don't have a dispute with my neighbours, but I do have lots of trees and big shrubs which can get out of hand, so I pay a gardener these days to trim it all twice a year. (I used to do it myself). He only charges under a hundred pounds each time so it's brilliant.
Could you find a gardener, or some young chap, to do this for you?

Astitchintime Mon 21-Jul-25 11:32:43

If the neighbour does agree to go halves for any work do make sure you get that money in advance, before the work starts! He sounds a bit of a freeloading lazybones and you might end up footing the whole bill.

Gin Mon 21-Jul-25 11:27:01

I suggest you read the advice given on www.gov.uk/neighbourhood disputes/ hedges. If there are more than two trees over 2 metres high then it counts as a hedge and should be lowered, the neighbour must deal with it. If he will not then contact the council. I have never heard of them charging for this intervention. That is very surprising.

Elowen33 Mon 21-Jul-25 11:15:35

My neighbour has a hedge that is high and a tree which blocks any sun from my patio, he says he likes it that way, there is nothing I can do about it.

At least you can pay to have his cut, the only other option for me is to move which I dont want to do as I like where I live and who knows what other neighbours would be like.

JaneJudge Mon 21-Jul-25 11:12:07

I was going to suggest the same as Monica. Could you get a quote to have it taken down completely? and then maybe go halves? I understand it's not your responsibility but it's affecting you greatly and it seems like you have a good relationship with your neighbour otherwise?

It seems to neighbour is responsive to help?

I wonder why he is living in a house with a garden if he has no interest in it? We have neighbours who don't garden but they pay a man twice a month to come and tidy it up at least

M0nica Mon 21-Jul-25 10:57:42

Could you just pay someone to come in once a year to cut it back? I am sure it would cost less than £600 plus.

Letthefunbegin Mon 21-Jul-25 10:55:30

Hi all, just wondering if anyone else has had similar experience and how you dealt with it. Lived in current house 11 years. Neighbour one side is a single man, late 50s maybe. I am 69 single female. His front and back garden have always been terribly overgrown. He has attempted to do it twice in 11 years. He got a mate round who does a cursory cut back for a few pounds. The fir hedge between our back gardens is about 3m. His side is more like 4.5m now. Over 11 years I have attempted to cut his side, climbing a ladder, barricading myself in with bins for safety. He also has a bay tree near the houses which is about 6m. Again I have attempted over the years to keep it under control as it’s 3.5 m from my house and could start affecting my house insurance. A couple of years ago my son in law brought the height down as best he could of the bay and hedge. The whole of his garden is a jungle, foxes live in it etc. The point is, I just cannot manage to do his hedge side, and his tree anymore. I am retired, arthritis in every part of me and it’s incredibly hard just to manage my side. ( these are old houses and all boundaries are shared). My son in law does what he can but he works all the hours God sends, and their own home needs masses doing to it. He also feels neighbour should pull his finger out. I have spoken to neighbour over and over about it. He is always polite, says he will do something, but never does. He does work, but not a lot. I just think he is lazy. I have made it clear I cannot do it anymore. You can put in a high hedge complaint with the council but it costs £605 to put in an application and they do not even promise they will do anything! And then what after? Will they keep monitoring that he’s maintaining? I doubt that. I am looking for cheap solutions. He wouldn’t care what I did as long as he did not have to do anything or pay anything. Thanks.