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Aveline Wed 27-Aug-25 11:02:54

Since when did the oleaginous 'reaching out' become a substitute for just plain 'contacting' or even just emailing?
I find it nauseating and instantly take against anyone who thanks me for 'reaching out'. Pah. Modern life.

justanovice Thu 28-Aug-25 14:34:57

The only people who can "reach out" are the Four Tops😖

JdotJ Thu 28-Aug-25 13:52:25

My absolute bugbear is that everyone is suddenly 'Obsessed' over the most menial things.

Oh, and the phrase 'to die for'
Why can't you just say you like something.

luluaugust Thu 28-Aug-25 08:32:07

Train station drives my railway loving husband up the wall

AGAA4 Thu 28-Aug-25 08:25:19

I don't like any of the above. I had an email recently from a company which said at the end "We got you".

escaped Thu 28-Aug-25 07:17:22

"Getting ducks in a row."
Like on a fair stall?

NanKate Thu 28-Aug-25 07:04:07

When did ‘Top of the hour’ become the norm for tv presenters?

‘Off of’ drives me mad.

Well done Miss Outhwaite my English teacher back in the 50s/60s. I loved her English classes.

BlueBelle Thu 28-Aug-25 06:55:07

Oreo yes I was told only the other day that ‘we are pregnant’
and it drives me crackers when men go through labour then they can use ‘we’

Calendargirl Thu 28-Aug-25 06:39:16

‘I hear you’

‘I feel your pain’.

Dontcallmelove Wed 27-Aug-25 23:35:34

Friend told me she ‘project managed’ the redecoration of her bedroom. Basically a painter came in and painted. Then a new carpet was fitted and she and her OH then moved the furniture back in. I resisted asking what project management tools she used!

merlotgran Wed 27-Aug-25 23:26:55

Why can’t people just say, ‘I agree,’ instead of, ‘Yeah, yeah…One hundred percent!’ Adding ‘Mate’ at the end is optional. 😂

Skydancer Wed 27-Aug-25 21:58:27

How about:
We stand shoulder to shoulder with….
OR Swing by
AND, the latest one, Rock up

Oldnproud Wed 27-Aug-25 21:55:56

silverlining48

I don’t like the terms grab yourself something, we used to get told it’s rude to grab

Also dislike can I get instead of can I have or I would like.
I always want to say yes it’s in the kitchen on a shelf by the door…or something similar.

These are Americanisms which we keep picking up.
Well I don’t actually, but the youngsters do. I have found myself correcting my gc but it has little effect.

At least we don’t say bathrooms… not yet anyway.

My 7 year old granddaughter used the word bathroom only yesterday to refer to the toilet facilities in the cafe.
I was quite proud of myself, as I managed to resist the urge to 'correct' her. 😁

Aveline Wed 27-Aug-25 20:42:08

Love that diagram merlotgram!

HelterSkelter1 Wed 27-Aug-25 20:11:54

"You've got this" grrrrrr

Oreo Wed 27-Aug-25 19:00:46

BlueBelle

And husbands who say WE are pregnant…. No you are not pregnant you made the partner pregnant but YOU yourself are NOT pregnant

Do some men really say this? How idiotic.

Oreo Wed 27-Aug-25 18:58:55

ClicketyClick

People sharing their journey when they mean their experience. Argh!

Oh yeah! Pass the sick bag🤢

GrannyGravy13 Wed 27-Aug-25 18:32:58

Message I previewed and my post definitely said Nessa 🤬🤬🤬

GrannyGravy13 Wed 27-Aug-25 18:32:11

Message can say what she likes 👍

The only things I will be found reaching out for is a glass of wine or a passing GC for a hug 🫂🍷

merlotgran Wed 27-Aug-25 18:24:56

I never minded when Nessa used to say it on Gavin & Stacey

Yep! She’s allowed.

Babs03 Wed 27-Aug-25 18:06:52

As well as ‘I’m not gonna lie’ we also get ‘to be fair’

granfromafar Wed 27-Aug-25 17:58:19

merlotgran

For the avoidance of doubt.

Love that. ❤️

RosieandherMaw Wed 27-Aug-25 17:53:50

merlotgran

Instead of, ‘To tell you the truth,’ we get, ‘I’m not gonna lie.’

I never minded when Nessa used to say it on Gavin & Stacey

silverlining48 Wed 27-Aug-25 17:50:32

I don’t like the terms grab yourself something, we used to get told it’s rude to grab

Also dislike can I get instead of can I have or I would like.
I always want to say yes it’s in the kitchen on a shelf by the door…or something similar.

These are Americanisms which we keep picking up.
Well I don’t actually, but the youngsters do. I have found myself correcting my gc but it has little effect.

At least we don’t say bathrooms… not yet anyway.

Allira Wed 27-Aug-25 17:39:58

merlotgran

Instead of, ‘To tell you the truth,’ we get, ‘I’m not gonna lie.’

Or "to be honest"
Go on, live a little, tell me a lie!

merlotgran 😁

BlueBelle Wed 27-Aug-25 17:37:56

And husbands who say WE are pregnant…. No you are not pregnant you made the partner pregnant but YOU yourself are NOT pregnant