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Michael12 Wed 03-Sept-25 05:15:55

Good Morning Everyone,
Its dark and wet here at the moment here in Brackley .
My usual bus trip to Bicester ,which gives me a break do a shop,see those i know.
Then watch cycling on TV a double dose of tour of Britain and the Tour of Spain.
My Health OK,
Take Care,
Mick

GrannyIvy Wed 03-Sept-25 15:13:55

Marydoll I cannot believe that GP was so rude. Please consider putting a formal complaint in to the Practice Manager with a copy to the senior partner. I worked for 17 years as a secretary in a GP practice many years ago and it was all so different back then. I despair of my own GP practice and dread needing any help or an appointment. I also worked for 20 years as a PA to a consultant and oh my goodness I worry what has happened to our NHS healthcare. I also have two daughters who work for two different hospital Trusts (both medical rather than admin) and I am very alarmed and scared by what they tell me.

Hoping Blossoming is ok and also a big hug to all those that need one. My heart goes out to all those struggling on this thread.

I am sitting in my conservatory watching the heavy rain and lightening and listening to the thunder. Goodness where has summer gone

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 14:02:26

G.G. I feel your pain.🤣
How can you do a bowel screening test, when both bathrooms are out of commission.🤣

Too much info, I'm beginning to sound like Mick.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 03-Sept-25 13:40:34

Thinking of you Blossoming

Day 9 building update, we are confined to our sitting room, we can reach the kitchen by going outside and round the side of the house. Unfortunately at the moment no access to any loo.

Might be forced to follow the GCs example when they are in the pool and do a wild wee round the corner out of sight in the torrential rain 🤦‍♀️💨☔️

JamesandJon33 Wed 03-Sept-25 13:30:01

Fingers crossed for you Marydoll and hoping Blossoning feels better soon .

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 13:20:19

I have been to the surgery. The saga continues.
More tomorrow. I did find out that there have been multiple complaints about this GP, who is actually a new partner.

I have heard from Blossoming, one line saying she is very unwell.
😪

Its chaotic here, trying to fix the leak s.
No water either. 😭

grandMattie Wed 03-Sept-25 12:55:46

Oh, MD, this isn’t too much but “three much” as an old friend would say.
I hope things can be sorted out, that the thrush is treated and everything else prescribed for…
Hugs 🫂❤️

vintage1950 Wed 03-Sept-25 12:24:04

Marydoll, could you complain about your GP? Her attitude has added insult to injury. All best wishes, for your health and your home!

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 11:57:00

Blossoming emailed me, then nothing.
That is wh I am concerned.

GrandmaC47 Wed 03-Sept-25 11:18:54

Marydoll a tiny light in an otherwise dreadful week. GPs aren’t what they were.
Hoping those with problems and health worries, either for themselves or family, get relief soon.
I too am worried about Blossoming .

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 10:23:08

A can of worms has been opened!!
Quite a few problems in the ^ new bathroom^.
Im so glad to get it sorted.

BlueSapphire Wed 03-Sept-25 10:04:14

Good morning everyone from a damp and dreary Northampton, it will be like this all day, but at least I don't have to go out. Also there are no household tasks crying out to be done, apart from vacuuming downstairs, so I can get stuck into my new book club read, 'The Offing', by Benjamin Myers. I may look at carpet suppliers and fitters, as the second bedroom is desperately in need of a new carpet.

Had a pleasant walk with my group yesterday, and the rain held off. On the way home I called in at the neighbour at the back of me to warn them that gardeners will be here at the weekend and there may/will be cuttings falling into their garden. They have requested my gardeners to go round and clear up afterwards.

Marydoll, what a terrible time you had yesterday with that dreadful doctor; that's the last thing you need considering all your problems.

Easy dinner tonight: chunky fish fingers, new potatoes and peas.

Wishing all as good a day as possible.

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 09:48:30

I have good news, the plumber has arrived * four hours early*!!

Grammaretto Wed 03-Sept-25 09:33:35

What a shame that your medical team are not up to caring for your health Marydoll.
By way of consolation: I was talking to my American helper last night who told me of her DDs complex medical needs and she has to pay $$$$ despite so called insurance. So at least you can enjoy a holiday which is sure to be beneficial for your health 😉

luluaugust Wed 03-Sept-25 09:32:14

Marydoll flowers

whywhywhy Wed 03-Sept-25 09:26:11

Good morning from a wet midlands.
Hugs to Marydoll
I’m Fedup this week but there are people worse off than me.

Aldom Wed 03-Sept-25 09:23:52

Marydol I second what Terribul said.
A sympathetic ear would have gone a long way. You need to feel the doctor is 'hearing' what you say.
So sorry you have this additional difficulty.
flowers

Sar53 Wed 03-Sept-25 09:18:43

I am also upset and annoyed for you Marydoll. What an unsympathetic GP. You do wonder why she became a GP if she has no empathy with her patients.
Sending you a big hug and lots of love xx

Crossstitchfan Wed 03-Sept-25 09:14:41

Michael12

Good Morning Everyone,
Its dark and wet here at the moment here in Brackley .
My usual bus trip to Bicester ,which gives me a break do a shop,see those i know.
Then watch cycling on TV a double dose of tour of Britain and the Tour of Spain.
My Health OK,
Take Care,
Mick

Good morning Mick,
I read your posts every day, and I see that you shop every day. Given that you live alone, what on earth do you buy that needs a daily shop? Just being nosey now! Sorry! 😂

TerriBull Wed 03-Sept-25 08:59:19

Marydoll - I'm not a poster here, but do read the regular posts. Having read yours, I just wanted to say that GP sounded diabolical, what a horrible and unsympathetic way to treat a patient with multiple health issues. I was angry on your behalf and am sorry that you have to put up with that sort of consultation on top of what you are already going through. Commiserations flowers

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 08:46:15

Gingster, I was so pleased to read of your husband's success.
A graet achievement, considering what he has gone through.💐

I will read the posts properly later. I need to get myself ready to go to the surgery for the latest battle.

Gingster Wed 03-Sept-25 08:42:40

Oh Marydoll - I feel your frustration. It’s all too much isn’t it!
Please know we are all thinking of you and wishing you well. 💐🫂 and 🙏.

GrannySomerset Wed 03-Sept-25 08:24:15

Grey skies and a greening garden this morning so we are getting used to normal service after an amazing summer. I wore a waterproof yesterday for the first time for ten weeks!

Admin chores this morning and singing starts up again this afternoon which I really look forward to. I have missed it during its holiday break.

Marydoll Wed 03-Sept-25 08:23:07

Good morning all from a cloudy Glasgow, where it is a chilly 7°C .

Yesterday's experience with the surgery was as awful as anticipated,
I had a consultation with the rudest and most patronising GP, I have ever encountered. DH came home from the shops to find me sitting sobbing.
The GP would not allow me to speak and talked through me.
It was obvious, that she had not read my notes.
She demanded to know, who had requested the bloods and pulled back a little, when I said my consultant, followed by a specialised one by my GP.

Then she said they were not back. I caught her off guard, when I said they were available to view on the portal and my deficiency was not intrinsic.
Silence!
It is dietary then, she snapped, Trying to explain, that the cause was my medication, not my diet, proved pointless.
Are you taking your medication for the deficiency?
I don't have any medication and my symptoms are worsening, I feel very unwell, that is why I requested an appointment!!
She cut me off and snapped, that she would leave a prescription at the desk.

I proceeded to say, I had also been diagnosed with thrush in my throat and that the dental hospital were writing to advise treatment for the thrush and make my Sjogrens more bearable, could I please have those medications. I also mentioned the delay in treatment was impacting on my mental wellbeing.
We are not dealing with that at the moment, she snapped, saying Have a nice day and slammed the phone down. 😪
It was then, I realised, that she was the GP, who had previously advised me to buy a tube of Bonjela, when my rheumatologist suggested I ask my GP for help.

A few hours later, I received a call from the surgery, advising, that I had to pick up a bowel testing kit, at the request of the oral medicine consultant. Apparently, they are concerned about my excessive weight loss (GP wasn't interested) and had suggested other interventions, to determine why I was so unwell.
What a totally different and supportive approach in dealing with my situation.
I asked about the oral medications, I needed, There is nothing about that.
Another receptionist intervened and found the necessary information and said they would pass the prescription request (the actual ones I had requested and been denied, from the rude GP, a few hours earlier) onto my GP.
Explaining that I had other prescriptions lying, I asked could they all be put together and I would pick them up this morning, along with the screening kit, to save two journeys.
No problem at all.

Two hours later, a call from the surgery. We have a prescription for you, you can pick it up after 4pm tomorrow
They hadn't been signed yet and my request to get them all done together, hadn't been passed on. 😪
That is when, much to my shame, I blew up. The poor receptionist was lovely and sympathetic, graciously accepting my apology for being ratty.
Aparrently the the problem is that my complex medical history made it difficult to deal with my needs!
As you can imagine, I am feeling pretty low at the moment.
What happened to that strong feisty woman, who would have taken on the world?😉

DH has offered to drive me to the surgery this morning to get the first batch of scripts (some need ordered) and the test kit.
The bowel screening has come as a shock!

After umpteen messages, the plumber has not responded. 😡Fortunately DD found a local one, who is hopefully coming this afternoon. The leak needs fixed because DS2 has asked us to go away with him, DIL and Babydoll, next week, their treat.
Georgesgran, guess where I plan to visit? 😉 It has been on my bucket list.

I have to go back to the surgery this afternoon to pick up the other prescriptions and will leave DH in charge of the leak.
He has asked me to leave a script, so that he doesn't mess up.😉

I apologise for my tale of woe, I just need to unburden myself and don't want to upset DH.
He is becoming very anxious about me, but is trying to hide it. ♥️

My plan today is to cull my card making stash and donate some of it to the guides, where DIL helps her sister, the guide leader. There is something cathartic about clearing out a stash.

I wish you all a pleasant day, enjoy whatever you are doing.

I am particularly worried about Blossoming, she is not responding. 😪

Jaxjacky Wed 03-Sept-25 08:21:52

Morning from a wet S Hants, a very blustery night with heavy rain woke is both up at intervals, more due today.
I’m sorry to hear about your grandson luluaugust and hope he improves rapidly.
Big ouch for you llfl fingers crossed the pain eases.
Yesterday was mixed, my son had a better job offer which he’s accepted, I had a decent PB win, but news of a prem baby with pneumonia.
I woke up convinced it was Sunday, I need to banish that as it’s library visit, then have another go at sorting out the sat nav in my car.
Blossoming is missed.
FGT
🦩🦩

Gingster Wed 03-Sept-25 08:19:20

Good morning all and it’s wild, wet and windy here at the Suffolk seaside. It will be a cosy day indoors I think, watching the waves from our window.

Yesterday the rain didn’t appear until teatime, so Dh and I had a wander along the beach with his rollator. It didn’t go well as he hates it and the ground was too uneven and tricky for him to control. He swears he will never use it again! 😳🙄.

We saw an elderly lady using two sticks, so back in our garden, he tried it and he felt much more in control , so we headed off to have tea and cake with our friends who are staying 10 minute (15 with dh) walk away.
Dh managed it but was shattered. Our friend ran him back home in the car and I walked the dog back, just as the rain was starting. It wasn’t an easy walk but he managed it and was pleased with himself. .

Today I’ll shop as we have two couples coming for drinks/food
Early evening. I’m not sure what I’ll do yet but certainly make sausage rolls as they’re everyone’s favourite. Perhaps a finger food buffet will be best. 🤷🏻‍♀️.

I hope your gs gets better soon Lulu 🙏.
Good luck to all who are dentist bound 😬

Thoughts to all who aren’t in a ‘good’ place at the moment. Onwards and upwards.

It would have been my mums 111 birthday today, the day before world war 1 broke out in Britain.
I wonder how my grandma coped with that?
She already had a little boy of two, and husband away fighting, rationing, bombs dropping.
No Snowflakes in those days . Strong resilient women !
Happy heavenly birthday mum.🙏