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Didn’t expect to feel this way about her…

(8 Posts)
Jaxjacky Wed 03-Sept-25 10:34:47

I’ve reported this.

AlexLpzz Wed 03-Sept-25 10:30:43

Yeah I get why it sounds weird… but trust me, living it was even weirder

petra Wed 03-Sept-25 10:28:07

Careful peeps. You know where it can get you not believing a BOT. 😉

Smileless2012 Wed 03-Sept-25 10:23:35

Oh dear.

Flippinheck Wed 03-Sept-25 10:14:53

Nope.

Crossstitchfan Wed 03-Sept-25 10:13:20

If you believe this, you’ll believe anything!!

Grandmabatty Wed 03-Sept-25 10:06:41

Reads like a bot or story

AlexLpzz Wed 03-Sept-25 10:04:41

I met her by chance in a café. She was much older than me (51), and I was just a 25-year-old student working part-time. Over time, we talked more, became friends, and eventually started a relationship.

She always told me she was poor and needed money. Even though I wasn’t in a good financial situation myself, I tried to support her and stand by her. But recently, I found out she wasn’t really poor at all. When I confronted her, she admitted that she only said that because she didn’t want me to be with her for her money.

What confuses me is that I never asked her for money, never cared about that part. I was the one making sacrifices just to keep the relationship going.

Now I don’t understand… why does it always turn against me when I try to give and make things work?