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I’m turning into my mother.

(33 Posts)
Shelflife Sat 13-Sept-25 17:09:57

I definitely chat to strangers, always have done.

Davida1968 Sat 13-Sept-25 16:06:23

I'm just the same as BlueBelle - with the same reaction from our own grandchildren! Eventually our DGD, (who loves dogs but doesn't have one) realised that when Grandma happened to engage dog-walkers in chat, this gave her a good opportunity to meet (and pet) friendly dogs. So she would say; "can you go and talk to them, Grandma?"

BlueBelle Sat 13-Sept-25 15:49:32

Afraid I matter away to anyone and everyone when my grandkids were small they used to say whose that and I d say I don’t know ? They d look at me like I had two heads

ginny Sat 13-Sept-25 15:47:03

Yes, I do and often have some very interesting conversation. Just last week I had a chat with a couple about the estuary and tides at Salcombe and to a lady who had been looking for her husband who had wondered off at Greenway (NT) . She was getting very worried as he had altzimers. I had noticed him looking quite confused in the garden and he asked me where his wife was. They were happy to be reunited.
I also stopped to chat to a chap in Dartmouth who was painting a watercolour by the harbour. He gave me some good tips.

Aveline Sat 13-Sept-25 15:36:45

I often strike up conversation with strangers and DH is often amazed at how I seem to know lots about the lives of various checkout and shop staff.

LOUISA1523 Sat 13-Sept-25 15:20:51

I live near Liverpool ....I work in Liverpool....everyone in Liverpool talks to anyone and everyone ( me included!)

Oreo Sat 13-Sept-25 15:16:01

Sometimes, yes, particularly at bus stops, often get a good natter in.
Don’t worry we all turn into our Mothers eventually.🤭

NanKate Sat 13-Sept-25 14:50:14

I used to be so embarrassed when my mum used to chat to all and sundry whilst out shopping. I used to walk away when she started.

Well I too now chat to strangers when I am out and about. I stop people to tell them I like their clothes. Today when enquiring about tickets for a film in our local cinema I told the two young men selling the tickets that DH and I like to sit on the back row. Then I told them that that is where teenagers in the 1960s used to go for a snog 😳 fortunately they thought it was funny, but I’m not sure my husband did. I didn’t tell them though we like the end seats in case we need the loo!

Do you chat to strangers ?