Were you raised in an ‘open’ or ‘closed’ house, and was it different from your spouse?

I was just looking at a film of Charlie Kirk discussing things he thought it was important to address before getting married, and one was what kind of house were you raised in. Now, my family home wasn’t a big ‘party’ house, but there were often friends of my parents and siblings there, maybe just for short visits, but often for meals and overnight stays. The Bodach’s house was completely different, with visitors being few and far between, and certainly mealtime invitations were very rare.
I’m glad to report that he came to enjoy welcoming visitors, but his mother was openly disapproving of such practices, so I was wondering if anyone had had issues with visitors.