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So many big spiders 🫣!!

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Lemonred Mon 22-Sept-25 16:52:47

If I catch them and put them in the garden, they often overtake me on the path back upto the house! I think they are house spiders, and don’t want to holiday in my garden. 😁

Allira Mon 22-Sept-25 14:30:58

Babs03

GrannyGravy13

Sorry to worry you, but the lady house spiders have been hiding in your homes all year.

The ones that are noticeable at the moment are the males, coming inside and looking for love 🕷️🕸️🕷️🕸️🕷️

That is a horrible thought GG, although I am all for a love story this really isn’t my idea of Romeo and Juliet.
🤣

😂

windmill1 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:30:50

nanna8

If you really want to see big, massive spiders come to Australia! They look like little birds, some of them. Huntsmen.

Are they the deadly poisonous variety?

Allira Mon 22-Sept-25 14:30:18

Babs03

I don’t remember how my phobia began, luckily I managed to not pass it on to my ACs who can happily pick a big spider up with a tissue and remove it. Though my 3 year old GS whose mummy and daddy have taught him all about friendly bugs/spiders, stood in the middle of my garden the other week and refused to move until Spider-Man came to kill all the other spiders. He was obviously scared.

You can have desensitisation treatment.
It shoul work.

DGD1 is terrified of spiders, DGD2 held a tarantula in the palm of her hand!

Allira Mon 22-Sept-25 14:28:22

I suck them up the hoover nozzle because I cannot go near them, it might be cruel

Sorry but yes, it is.
How would you like it if a huge alien came and sucked you up a nozzle to land in dust and dirt? Poor little things 😥

Can you catch them in a spider catcher and put them right outside?

I've tried conkers to deter them but they don't work
I wouldn't care if they didn't leave their spots of poo all around the conservatory.

Yes, nanna8, I encountered a Huntsman, can verify that the bite is extremely painful but they're not poisonous!

Babs03 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:19:24

I don’t remember how my phobia began, luckily I managed to not pass it on to my ACs who can happily pick a big spider up with a tissue and remove it. Though my 3 year old GS whose mummy and daddy have taught him all about friendly bugs/spiders, stood in the middle of my garden the other week and refused to move until Spider-Man came to kill all the other spiders. He was obviously scared.

Babs03 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:14:35

GrannyGravy13

Sorry to worry you, but the lady house spiders have been hiding in your homes all year.

The ones that are noticeable at the moment are the males, coming inside and looking for love 🕷️🕸️🕷️🕸️🕷️

That is a horrible thought GG, although I am all for a love story this really isn’t my idea of Romeo and Juliet.
🤣

windmill1 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:14:09

It's the same problem every year at this time. You get the feeling you're being watched and when you look round.......there's a whopper up on the ceiling in the corner. I don't know if it's climate change but I swear they get bigger year after year.

Fortunately,I've grown out of being scared of them but they're impossible to outrun!

SillyNanny321 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:13:46

My brother at about 4-5 years old squashed a spider on my leg one afternoon in the garden! Dinner all over the garden & left feeling sick every time I see one. Was 2 years older than my brother then & nearly 80 years later still feel sick at some of the big ones that run after you! Found I like Cellar spiders as they deal with the much bigger ones very easily. Sadly found my biggest & favourite Cellar spider dead a few days ago. Nothing & no one lives forever!

GrannyGravy13 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:13:42

nanna8

If you really want to see big, massive spiders come to Australia! They look like little birds, some of them. Huntsmen.

Yep, my first trip to Australia I was petrified of spiders, after three months of huntsman, dodging red-backs and funnel
webs, spiders over here are a doddle 🕷️

GrannyGravy13 Mon 22-Sept-25 14:12:05

Sorry to worry you, but the lady house spiders have been hiding in your homes all year.

The ones that are noticeable at the moment are the males, coming inside and looking for love 🕷️🕸️🕷️🕸️🕷️

Sarnia Mon 22-Sept-25 14:05:23

Spider season is here. I put conkers in corners and I must say we have very few spiders. Whether conkers are the deterrent or we just don't get too many, who knows but it's worth a try.
The Australians who have some of the biggest and most poisonous spiders in the world don't' seem too bothered with them. In the UK where we don't have this problem we seem terrified of them.
I think being scared of them is a learnt behaviour. In our childhood someone we trusted has screamed like a banshee when confronted with one and that's in our subconscious.

Babs03 Mon 22-Sept-25 13:51:09

No nanna8 that would be a nightmare.
And I doubt the hoover could cope with it 🫤

nanna8 Mon 22-Sept-25 13:34:48

If you really want to see big, massive spiders come to Australia! They look like little birds, some of them. Huntsmen.

Babs03 Mon 22-Sept-25 13:25:28

Not sure about everybody else but we are plagued by big spiders in our house and garden.
Just got rid of a humungous one on the living room curtain.
And going in the garden is like a military op, I have to get the broom and sweep it both ways as I walk anywhere, otherwise I get spiders dangling off me.
Have got plug ins that deter mice and spiders, except they most obviously don’t, and have sprayed peppermint round doors and windows, smells like a toothpaste factory but hasn’t stopped the house spiders from frolicking about.
Any ideas on how to deter them and get rid of them. I suck them up the hoover nozzle because I cannot go near them, it might be cruel but I really am phobic about the blighters.