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Good Morning Wednesday 24th September 2025

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Michael12 Wed 24-Sept-25 05:20:39

Good Morning Everyone,
A dark but dry start here in Brackley.
A busy day ,plan to get a earlier bus to Bicester hopefully have a chat with people I know, return have a early lunch and then get a bus to Banbury to the out patients opotomolgy check up , before coming back home .
Health OK,
Take Care,
Mick

merlotgran Wed 24-Sept-25 17:35:19

grandMattie

💐 FGT
Yes, many of us have been through - the operative word being “through”. Come out the other side, bruised and battered, sad, etc. it is totally horrible while it happens.
Much love ❤️ and hugs 🫂

I echo this.
There is no easy route through ‘through’ but love and support from family and friends will help you find your way.
Sending love X

mamaa Wed 24-Sept-25 15:26:18

That should say spur himself and us on… this is when I’d like an edit button!

mamaa Wed 24-Sept-25 15:23:18

Sorry for my late post but only just catching up as we’re away from home at the moment and the hotel wifi is patchy at best.

Sending thoughts and gentle hugs also to all those GMer’s with pain, and to those caring for their loved ones who are suffering similarly.

I remember how my dear Dad was so stoic throughout his illness- always thinking of others despite his pain, and somehow managing to spur himself on with his lovely smile or caring glance. Xx

grandMattie Wed 24-Sept-25 13:23:51

💐 FGT
Yes, many of us have been through - the operative word being “through”. Come out the other side, bruised and battered, sad, etc. it is totally horrible while it happens.
Much love ❤️ and hugs 🫂

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 24-Sept-25 12:52:09

Such wonderful support and kindness on here. Thank you. It’s very humbling to read such caring posts. On the more challenging days I do truly take comfort from the knowledge that so many lovely folk are rooting for us. Many of you have been through this too.

I sincerely appreciate that you really do care about us during this difficult time. x

Hiraeth Wed 24-Sept-25 12:34:36

+FGT+ my husband was stoic too . He was protecting me from all the pain in my heart that I had .

GrandmaC47 Wed 24-Sept-25 11:52:43

Still mornig , just. I’ve not read everything yet so can’t comment 😂 sending healing vibes to those who need them and happy travels to those on the move.

Susan56 Wed 24-Sept-25 11:24:39

FGT thinking of you and your DH and sending strength to you both.A stoic indeed, what a man💪🏼

Redcar Wed 24-Sept-25 11:23:14

fgt hugs to you and your DH.flowers

BlueSapphire Wed 24-Sept-25 11:09:11

FGT2 and you very due at DH, thinking of you as ever. xx flowersflowers

Grannydaisy1 Wed 24-Sept-25 10:45:26

Fgt hugs to you and himself

Grannyme6 Wed 24-Sept-25 10:29:10

FGTs thinking of you, as always. 💐

cornergran Wed 24-Sept-25 10:23:47

It’s horrific to see a much loved person in such pain fht. Hold fast. Love and care to you both. X

madeleine45 Wed 24-Sept-25 10:16:02

Just came back to see what other posts to read, and now have the small triumph of getting the washing out. The sun is just coming out but could do with a little breeze too but very still right now. Anyway it is out, which is the main thing. Now to plod through half an hour of basic bits, bedmaking etc, and then I shall time myself for an hours ironing, before rewarding myself with getting my swimming bag ready and leaving cares behind me, whilst I creak into the swimming pool and hope I get out a bit better, and then have whist to look forward to. I am going to check at the pool today, previously when you went into the swimming pool with your years ticket, you could come out and use the sauna. It was just open and sometimes there would be 2 or 3 or sometimes you were on your own. It suited me to have a little time in there after my swim and warmed me up. But last time I went after not being able to go for some weeks because of my eye operation the door was locked and it had a notice about seeing the people at reception. So I feel that is another way things are cut down, and now you will have to pay for that separately. dont see why as it is kept at its normal temperature, and those of us in the disabled swimming often cannot try and swim fast enough to keep warm, and it was especially good in the winter time, to let you warm up a bit. But sadly this is the way everything is going I find, so in things like being able to do extra small things such as in the library, now are all priced out of possibility. I am also old enough to not enjoy going to the library as I used to as there is too much noise about. I am not saying it should go back to the deathly silence rules, but computers and phones rule ok now and all their annoying bleeps and dings, interuppt your concentration. I would be happy if they just had a quiet area and a less quiet area but the whole place these days has no quiet corners. Fortunately I still seem to have that teachers stare, where I simply sit and look without blinking at the noisiest people young or old and it does seem to still work to some degree!!

I have radio 3 on of course, and it should be fun this weekend as they are doing a railway journey from Scotland to London, literally by rail, but also playing railway related music so there should be some good Strauss, and hope they play The Night Train Auden , and have that one which I dont remember its title but it is in south america and a little train going through the mountains. (Dont think the old favourite from childrens choice of The Runaway Train came over the hill and she Blew, will be part of it!) I have travelled quite a lot in scotland and sailed all up the west coast and beyond but never yet gone on the train to Mallaig, which I would like to do, but very pricey I understand.Think I shall always have itchy feet, and long distance train travel was something I enjoyed. Once took my brother with me and went from London to Dusseldorf. A great journey, but that was before the tunnel and so of course ferry was part of it. Never done the tunnel , what is the opinion of GN's who use it? Cheaper? Faster , even coming from up here?

Well time is up and reluctantly making my way to the ironing board, which should result in a better selection of tops and underwear to choose from.

luluaugust Wed 24-Sept-25 10:01:27

FGT and himself [flowers*

Blossoming Wed 24-Sept-25 09:48:31

Good morning Mick and everyone. It’s a bit cloudy here in Lancashire but sunshine expected this afternoon. I’m feeling pretty good, will try and do some gentle exercises this morning as my room has lots of floor space,

Maria59 Wed 24-Sept-25 09:46:57

FriedGreenTomatoes2 thanks thoughts with you both

karmalady Wed 24-Sept-25 09:46:42

FGT flowers

Flowers are not enough. Hugs from me and as much support as I can send you over the ether

Ladyleftfieldlover Wed 24-Sept-25 09:43:54

A quick morning all from an autumnal West Oxfordshire.

That’s a beautiful quilt GM.

🪻FGTS.

I will be mainly making lemon ice cream today - it’s a family favourite and granddaughter finished it off at the weekend. This evening I will listen to a WI talk on London waterways.

OH has an eye test. I fear he will need a new prescription.

Have a good day.

Stilllearning Wed 24-Sept-25 09:41:17

FGT and Himself, 💐and ongoing prayers.

GrannySomerset Wed 24-Sept-25 09:34:46

Not an easy read this morning as so many have so much to cope with. Such real courage is shown and it puts my own minor problems in perspective. Hope today is kind and the promised sunshine brings some cheer.

Grammaretto Wed 24-Sept-25 09:29:44

FGT flowers

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 24-Sept-25 09:21:03

karmalady

Thank you for your best wishes re the tooth and jaw pain, if anything it has made me much more aware of the pain that several on here go through on a 24/7 basis. Such stoic people who get on with life. I do think of you constantly but never really appreciated how incapacitating pain can be. There are 2 at my craft group too. Life is full of lessons and I have learnt a little more, to add to my empathy. Certainly it did not kill me and has made me stronger.

We stand together as a group, thanks to Mick, through thick and thin flowers

I just filled up reading this karma.
Himself has been on Fentanyl patches changed every three days, pregabalin, morphine and 8 paracetamol a day … since mid May. My heart breaks for him. Yes, stoic. A good word to describe him. I truly don’t know how he copes mentally. 💙

GrannyGravy13 Wed 24-Sept-25 09:20:36

A quick good morning, haven’t read the thread, will do later.

All go here and I am struggling with the aftermath of a full blown migraine, complete with sickness. I think it’s down to the s will of wet plaster, paint, dust everywhere and general chaos of the building work.

Just booked my Christmas delivery slot from Waitrose, thank goodness I can amend it when I am fully compos mentis 🤷‍♀️🎄

BlueSapphire Wed 24-Sept-25 09:00:45

Good morning everyone from a bright and sunny Northampton; a good forecast for today. One load of washing in the machine.
I have just stripped the bed ready for clean sheets and the autumn duvet, it felt quite chilly last night. Letting the bed air for a while.

Enjoyed a good walk yesterday with the walking group, although I felt chilly, as I rushed out to get the bus and failed to grab a warm enough jacket. I was misled by the glorious sunshine I set off in, only for the sun to disappear and the sky to cloud over and a cold wind to appear from nowhere.
I decided to walk home as I needed to call into the paper shop and pay my very late bill - I am now up to date till the end of October.
Checked my phone pedometer when I got home and had walked well over 13,000 steps and over 5 miles.

Book club this afternoon, which also means delicious cake! 🍰 I may wear the new woollen jacket I spent my M&S voucher on last week.
The last of the chicken soup I made yesterday for dinner tonight.

Wishing all a pleasant day.