A massive thank you

Thanks GG, I hope she us OK.

Posters can’t ban anyone that’s for the moderators of the site to decide Babs03
You do what suits you best and I and everyone else will do what suits them as regards reporting posts.

AGAA4

Yes Oreo I did understand. I've had some nasty posts directed at me over the years I've been on Gransnet but didn't report them. I leave them for others to see and just hope someone is having a bad day and they won't be repeated. I would never want anyone banned because I've reported them.

Same AGAA4.

I’ve never reported anyone, even when I’ve received hurtful, sarcastic, personal remarks (only on the N&P forum). Like you, I prefer to leave those posts up for others to see.

Oreo I have had answer from Anniebach who is reading but not posting at the moment.

Gladd to see you back WWM2!

AGAA4

Yes Oreo I did understand. I've had some nasty posts directed at me over the years I've been on Gransnet but didn't report them. I leave them for others to see and just hope someone is having a bad day and they won't be repeated. I would never want anyone banned because I've reported them.

I agree.
Have had some nasty remarks made to me but have never reported it, have only reported it if it is a racist remark made in general. Personal remarks are hurtful but I would also leave them for others to see so they know what kind of poster they are dealing with.
Would never seek to ban a poster but I think GNVQ do this if a poster has had frequent warnings. WWM didn’t have frequent warnings so I imagine was a mistake or a knee jerk reaction.
The best way forwards is, if you feel hurt by a certain remark, to search your conscience and wonder if you have done the same thing to others.
People can get testy if you say something nasty to them.

Good News!!

Yes Oreo I did understand. I've had some nasty posts directed at me over the years I've been on Gransnet but didn't report them. I leave them for others to see and just hope someone is having a bad day and they won't be repeated. I would never want anyone banned because I've reported them.

I'm glad you're back too WWM
Wasn't it the News and Politics forum anyhow? Surely these threads should be for debating in a way other threads can be calm and supportive?
I would also like to see GSM back.
Her knowledge is epic!

AGAA4

Oreo

Nobody knows why posters are banned on forums except the moderators and the banned person.Sometimes they are allowed back after a period of ‘grace’ and sometimes not, it’s all in the hands of the moderation team.
If posters observe forum guidelines then it wouldn’t ever happen. Time for everyone to remember there’s a real person behind every user name.

Quite right and this is why I have never and would never report anyone.

I was thinking more of the poster on the receiving end of a horrible comment actually.

GrannyGravy13

Oreo

I hope that Anniebach is still on this forum and well, I haven’t seen her comments for a while.Does anyone know?

Oh I do hope Anniebach hasn’t been banned as well.

She was so kind to me when I plucked up the courage to post for the first time having been a lurker.

It is getting close to the anniversary of the loss of her daughter, she needs her GN pals

I shall try to pm her, perhaps many of us could do that.

Maremia

Well I suppose Oreo, the person who 'reports" would also know why someone is banned.
Thing is, once deleted, you can't actually read the 'trigger' Not sure how we get round that conundrum.

I refer you to GN to ask questions.Anyone who reports a post certainly does not know why the poster is banned, it would hardly be for one deleted post!

Sorry GG, it was you who told us about Annie's daughter. It was Oreo who was asking.

Very unlikely that anyone would report AnnieB. Oreo's sad theory sounds more likely

Congratulations 💐good to see you back.

When I was deleted they clearly explained which post and why.

Well I suppose Oreo, the person who 'reports" would also know why someone is banned.
Thing is, once deleted, you can't actually read the 'trigger' Not sure how we get round that conundrum.

escaped, we may differ in point of view from time to time, but always happy to help a fellow GN.

Welcome back WWM2!

Yes, she does.
She is a kind soul.

Oreo

I hope that Anniebach is still on this forum and well, I haven’t seen her comments for a while.Does anyone know?

Oh I do hope Anniebach hasn’t been banned as well.

She was so kind to me when I plucked up the courage to post for the first time having been a lurker.

It is getting close to the anniversary of the loss of her daughter, she needs her GN pals

Oreo

Nobody knows why posters are banned on forums except the moderators and the banned person.Sometimes they are allowed back after a period of ‘grace’ and sometimes not, it’s all in the hands of the moderation team.
If posters observe forum guidelines then it wouldn’t ever happen. Time for everyone to remember there’s a real person behind every user name.

Quite right and this is why I have never and would never report anyone.

Well, that was hardly time for you to get cold on the norty step Whitewave 😁

We might not always agree and have no idea what you are supposed to have done but it's a shame to lose posters unless they are trolls or deliberate stirrers.

Welcome ' home ' good to have you back.
GSM Is sorely missed .

I hope that Anniebach is still on this forum and well, I haven’t seen her comments for a while.Does anyone know?