Allira
^You’re absolutely right about the sort of mother she was when her children were young. She was not a good mother at all^
You're going by media reports.
Queen Elizabeth tried to be the best mother she could be within the constraints of her rôle as Monarch. None of us can judge because none of us, even working mothers, have a clue what it was like to juggle that rôle with motherhood. When she had to go away on Royal tours her own mother became the 'mother figure' for her young children and, if course, there were nannies too.
The reason that Charles had less leeway than his siblings was because he, too, was being prepared for the rôle of Monarch one day too.
Charles, talking about his mother: "I remember we used to have lots of laughs ...."
Well put Allira
This is an interesting reflection of all the criticism that goes on about working mothers or the lauding of SAH mothers, who are lucky enough to have the choice to stay at home.