Looking at the daily activities, early rising and commitments of lots of Grans, some lolling about ought to be de rigeur - at least sometimes. Mine is over breakfast. It’s extremely rare for me not to have a breakfast tray in bed. I love it and am so grateful to the dear someone who regularly provides it.
However, this can never involve anything - like toast - which might include the risk of even a stray crumb or two either on or in the bed! Horror! Each day tea and a bowl of something with oats: banana, pear, melon, chia seeds, dried red currants or blueberries, walnuts and a spoonful of Greek yoghurt. Delicious - to me. In winter, maybe porridge. No crumbs, stains or drama and a daily treat which wakes me up and sets me up for a morning’s activities.
Sometimes we all need little things to remind us we’re actually retired.