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Mugs or cups?

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watermeadow Fri 21-Nov-25 15:31:49

I have a pretty bone china tea set and like an excuse to use it. Afternoon tea is old-fashioned and older guests will probably like an old-fashioned cup and saucer.

Bazza Fri 21-Nov-25 14:54:26

A bone china mug for me. I like my hot drinks really hot and a pretty cup cools to quickly for me. I only have one cup and saucer that I keep for a friend who hates mugs.

Granmarderby10 Fri 21-Nov-25 14:50:39

Cups and saucers along with the full tea set of ! Pot, milkjug and sugar basin lend themselves to chairs at the dining table or perched at a breakfast bar. Whereas china mugs on a tray are more suited to the living room imo.

JennyCee Fri 21-Nov-25 14:47:57

I used to have a china business and must agree with JamesandJon and that is nice bone china cups for tea and bone china mugs for coffee, chocolate or camomile tea.
Bone china is upteen stronger than porcelain, crockery or the other heavy ware. Doesn’t craze or chip and it actually bounces, but not on tiles etc.

67notout Fri 21-Nov-25 14:42:40

I have essential tremor that’s not noticeable until I go to pick up a cup and then I either have to put it down or it spills over. It’s always nice to be asked which I would prefer. A full mug is a problem too but more manageable.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Fri 21-Nov-25 14:18:02

We only have china mugs. No teacups (“more tea, vicar?”) and no hefty pottery mugs.

grandMattie Fri 21-Nov-25 13:58:13

Mugs every timer, and the bigger the better!
My parents were rather unconventional and adopted mugs very early despite them being considered infra dig…

Judy54 Thu 20-Nov-25 13:56:05

A nice bone china cup and saucer every time. Seems daft but it somehow makes the tea taste better. If entertaining always loose leaf tea and not teabags.

kircubbin2000 Thu 20-Nov-25 13:26:54

The mugs are nice and light. Cups a bit fiddly.

Cabbie21 Thu 20-Nov-25 13:21:57

If you use cups, make sure they don’t have fiddle little handles which are tricky for arthritic fingers. Mind you, mugs can be heavy to hold. The best ones are lightweight china.

Doodledog Thu 20-Nov-25 13:20:25

I would go with the consensus and serve it in china mugs. that's what we use all the time, except for hot chocolate or iced coffee - for some reason I use glass ones for that.

Witzend Thu 20-Nov-25 12:35:14

We don’t even possess any cups any more. However we have both bone china and ‘heftier’ mugs.

eazybee Thu 20-Nov-25 12:33:17

I would say teacups as long as you have a large teapot to offer refills. Recently I have started visiting a cafe where they serve tea in mis-matched bone china, and tea really does taste better out of fine china, It also doesn't go cold before you reach the bottom of a large mug.

nanna8 Thu 20-Nov-25 12:23:07

Nice bone China mugs are what I would use. For coffee I often use the heat proof glasses because I like the round shape.

Whitewavemark2 Thu 20-Nov-25 12:20:04

Tbh when having afternoon tea in say a hotel they always use traditional cups saucers and plates.

I had afternoon tea in the Brighton Grand this week (the one where Thatcher got blown up) and it was served in the traditional way.

sodapop Thu 20-Nov-25 12:17:48

My mother felt exactly the same AGAA4 I don't like big chunky mugs so compromise with china ones.

AGAA4 Thu 20-Nov-25 11:45:42

I usually use cups for visitors but mugs always when just on my own.
My mum thought mugs were common for some reason so only ever gave her a cup.

kircubbin2000 Thu 20-Nov-25 11:07:34

Some good ideas here. I do have nice China mugs so I think I will ask which they prefer. It's sad that the China never gets used these days isn't it.

Astitchintime Thu 20-Nov-25 11:01:44

Ask the ladies, once they arrive, what they would like. It’s nice to give people a choice and shows that you are considerate and respectful of their preferences. Above all……enjoy! ☕️🍰🍪

Visgir1 Thu 20-Nov-25 10:47:15

I only have Mugs now, but China ones. I replaced my everyday Mugs /Plates /bowls etc from a lovely Art Deco China range from M&S, that's all I have. I would never think about Cups now tbh.
I'm not keen on heavy pottery ones, but I do have some for workmen etc.

Greenfinch Thu 20-Nov-25 10:43:01

Mugs for certain especially if you have any bone china ones.

JamesandJon33 Thu 20-Nov-25 10:40:42

Mugs for coffee usually, and cups for tea.

kittylester Thu 20-Nov-25 10:38:59

China mugs?

I have some 'best' China mugs as opposed to my every day ones.

tanith Thu 20-Nov-25 10:38:35

I'd ask which they prefer.

kircubbin2000 Thu 20-Nov-25 10:37:04

I'm getting ready to entertain a couple of 80 year old ladies who had me in for afternoon tea a while back. I have the coffee table ready with the good china and the cups look really small. Would it be awful to give them mugs or shall I just offer refills?