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Whingey Tue 23-Dec-25 06:50:19

Posted earlier about poo with blood and clots.poo sample also found blood but that was a week ago and haven't seen blood since.I have anemia though.Appointment 9th january.should I cancel? Don't like hospital!

pably15 Tue 23-Dec-25 09:03:16

please don't even think of canceling ,It's very important to get this checked the sooner the better.

Witzend Tue 23-Dec-25 09:06:50

Both my father and my MiL died of bowel cancer that wasn’t diagnosed in time. This was in the 80s - tests and diagnosis are so much better now.

Everything crossed for you, Whingey, 🤞👍

Wyllow3 Tue 23-Dec-25 09:17:19

Actually seeing my insides on the screen was my choice, drugged up on fentanyl as I was it was interesting. And if there is something to discuss afterwards (cysts, for example) you will have seen it for yourself.

Primrose53 Tue 23-Dec-25 09:18:54

I’ve had many colonoscopies as I am at med-high risk of developing BC as my late Mum had it twice, different types.
They are absolutely nothing to be feared and I would rather have one of those than a tooth extracted.

You will be fine and the staff do them day in, day out and make it very comfortable for you.

annodomini Tue 23-Dec-25 09:36:00

I have lost two friends/relations who had undiagnosed bowel cancer. Please don't risk not having the colonoscopy.

ViceVersa Tue 23-Dec-25 09:45:34

As others have said, the prep is the worst part - please tell the staff about your anxiety at having the procedure and they will do everything they can to reassure you. No-one likes having this type of procedure, but they are a means to an end and hopefully everything will be fine.

Blossoming Tue 23-Dec-25 09:54:26

Don’t cancel. I became very anaemic due to internal bleeding and was subsequently diagnosed with bowel cancer. Prompt treatment and keyhole surgery saved my life. It’s a scary diagnosis but it isn’t necessarily the worst.

Homestead62 Tue 23-Dec-25 10:00:25

Tell whoever you see at the appointment about your fears. They will help.

Luckygirl3 Tue 23-Dec-25 10:08:24

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Grantanow Tue 23-Dec-25 10:26:37

Bowel cancer is lethal if not dealt with early enough. My cousin died from it. Get the colonoscopy.

dotpocka Tue 23-Dec-25 10:42:56

chat is killing people all over the world

OldFrill Tue 23-Dec-25 11:21:42

Good luck Whingey! You don't have to look at your insides on the screen but it's quite fascinating 🙃

Whiff Tue 23-Dec-25 12:23:34

Whingey glad you aren't cancelling . Never had one but friends who have . Having one saved my uncles life as they found the cancer very early on. He lived for 15 years after treatment he died from kidney failure. He didn't get bowl cancer again .

I hope everyone has there mammogram once you reach 50 every 3 years then. And the bowel screening at 60 then every 2 years. At least the mammogram machine is smaller than my first one .And the bowel screening isn't the cardboard and needing 3 bowel movements. So easy to do since they had the little bottle.

What made me laugh was the instructions about catching your poo with my first kit . It said into a plastic bowl 😱😱😱😱 or wad of toilet paper.
I use toilet paper .

One of my friends said she made sure she had plenty of toilet roll and Andrex wipes . As the stuff you have to use to clean your colon out these are her words 'made my arse feel like a hot poker had been pushed up there . ' She used Sudocreme to ease the soreness. But said it put her mind at rest everything was fine .

Hope all goes well when you have it done .

NotAGran55 Tue 23-Dec-25 12:54:44

Whingey

Thanks everyone.promise I will not cancel.Seeing your insides on a screen?😨

Great news * Whingey*
Watching the screen is the best bit 😃

Ziplok Tue 23-Dec-25 13:03:08

I’m glad you’ve decided not to cancel Whingey. I know the thought of it is probably unpleasant, but it will be over quickly and sedation will relax you. Then, you’ll have the results quite quickly and suitable treatment should begin soon after. 💐

Ziplok Tue 23-Dec-25 13:06:54

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Flippinheck Tue 23-Dec-25 14:09:26

Whingey

Thanks everyone.promise I will not cancel.Seeing your insides on a screen?😨

So glad you are going ahead. Maybe take headphones if you have them and listen to your favourite music. Good luck.

fiorentina51 Tue 23-Dec-25 14:20:07

Regarding my first colonoscopy, it was about 20 years ago, so perhaps my not being offered sedation was because it wasn't part of the process back then.

During my second procedure a colour photo was taken of my innards. It is now one of my most treasured possessions. 😉

Elegran Tue 23-Dec-25 14:28:35

Anaemia is a symptom, *Cariad". not a disease in itself, and one of the things of which it can be a symptom is internal bleeding. There are many causes of this, and a colonoscopy gets an "inside view" which can rule out most of them, including cancer in the digestive/excretive system.

Advising someone to try to cure a symptom by "a natural cure" while refusing a way of checking for serious disease is just telling them to bury their head in the sand and sing "La, la, la-la-la" with their fingers in their ears - not helpful.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 23-Dec-25 14:35:13

I hated the thought of it....but it was fine. Best bit was the tea and chocolate bourbons after.

And the staff were wonderful. They see many bottoms a day and yours will be no different!!! And the proceðure saves lives. We are so lucky we have colonoscopy procedures.

Not many people like hospitals and the older you get the less you like them. Don't be a wuss. FGs don't risk being a dead wuss.

BlueBelle Tue 23-Dec-25 14:35:25

Well done Whingey we ll all be thinking of you

HelterSkelter1 Tue 23-Dec-25 14:42:43

Just read you are not cancelling Whingey. Excellent. You will be fine. Well done.

rafichagran Tue 23-Dec-25 14:55:59

Glad you are not cancelling. I have had three, I also had fentanyl, the proceedure was done andvI had very minimal discomfort.

Dickens Tue 23-Dec-25 15:37:40

Marg75

I have always been afraid of anything required that involved my bottom but had to go for a colonoscopy, if I hadn't I wouldn't have had the last 24 years of my life. I was diagnosed with Stage 1 Bowel Cancer, totally treatable. Please be brave and go.

I would emphatically endorse your recommendation.

I had bleeding and blood clots + anaemia, and was diagnosed with stage 3 bowel cancer after a colonoscopy. And it was in my lymph nodes.

... but here I am 12 years later. I have been 'signed off', as there is no evidence of disease after 3+ years of monitoring.

Don't cancel.

Ladyleftfieldlover Tue 23-Dec-25 15:45:45

I had a third colonoscopy a few weeks ago. Piece of cake as you are sedated and time goes very quickly. The bowel emptying preparation can be a bit grim but it’s only over a couple of days.