Witzend
I walk very often in a park where there are always dogs off the lead. I love dogs but I’ve hardly ever had any of them jump up at me. So I do wonder why so many people seem to have dogs jumping up - do they keep sausages in their pockets, or what?
It's an interesting question isn't it? I live on the edge of the Cotswolds, there are always lots of dogs and 9 times out of 10 a dog which is loose will run up to me.
The owners are sometimes very surprised and even a bit annoyed. I can't explain it but I have had a lot to do with animals in my life and I did grow up with dogs.
I would recommend a course called Trust Technique which is about learning to have a quiet mind with animals (call it mindfulness if you want, I am a lifelong meditator). Animals can read our minds and our body language, they know what we are feeling. So many people rush up to animals shrieking which will raise tension levels in most animals. Trust Technique is an online course thoroughly taught through videos. Many of the videos show people learning a better way to be with an animal, even it is an animal they have had for many years.
I couldn't help noticing on our local common this morning, numbers of local dog owners who were being hauled along by their dogs who were on lead, or the dogs were lunging at other dogs or refusing to walk. None of that behaviour is a dog under control. I am sure there will now be a torrent of disagreement, sorry, as I say, I've spent my life with animals.