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Young people are so lovely these days

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Ziplok Thu 26-Mar-26 21:37:04

It is certainly lovely to hear, although I think there always have been lovely, thoughtful young people who have loved their older relatives and would never snub them or be embarrassed by their presence.

Cabbie21 Thu 26-Mar-26 21:19:18

What a coincidence! I have just had a lovely message from my grandson updating me with his news about university applications etc, and saying he hopes to catch up with me soon. He also shared his latest playlist of classical music and asked what I’ve been up to. So lovely.

Gran22boys Thu 26-Mar-26 21:18:38

I agree too. My grandson is not embarrassed by me at all. I think it’s great.

Harris27 Thu 26-Mar-26 21:14:07

They get so much bad press it’s lovely to hear this, I recently retired and worked with some lovely young people who wrote lovely things in a farewell book I was deeply touched.

rafichagran Thu 26-Mar-26 21:12:44

My Oldest Grandson is the same. He is a joy.

keepingquiet Thu 26-Mar-26 21:10:42

I agree- we have so many talented and considerate young people around. I love being with and around them!

Luckygirl3 Thu 26-Mar-26 21:05:30

I remember when I was a teenager the presence of my parents when out with younger people was a source of deep embarrassment - let alone a grandparent!

I have just been to another gig where two of my teenage grandsons were playing in a jazz fusion band - they are both very talented instrumentalists and I go to as many of their gigs as I can.

I walked in and they detached themselves from the group of young people they were chatting with, came over and gave me a hug and said it was good to have me there. I noticed other band members doing the same with their relatives.

At the door the girls taking the ticket money were so polite and helpful, and when I left early I was waiting by the door for my DD in her car and one of the girls came up to make sure I was OK and went out and looked out for my DD's car and then said "Go carefully; and thank you for coming!

I have noticed this a lot recently - there they all are with their crazy tattoos and hair, and wild clothing - and there I am with my stick - and they are all just so kind and welcoming.

It is such a joy and really isn't at all how it was when I was young. Something to be happy about I think ...;.