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If you own your own home then it’s your’s to do with as you please. If you were fortunate enough to have been given a council with very cheap rent to bring up your family in then you have been very fortunate. It was never your house, so I feel the government should build more 1 bedroomed places and yes you should have to move to make way for new families. My friend has just gone into a small flat with assisted living, it’s only two floors high and really nice. I think it’s only fair.
I don't think one bedroom places are suitable for older people, or not many of them anyway. Most people want to be able to have friends or family to stay, now and then, and couples don't necessarily want to spend every night together. I often move into a spare room when my husband snores, and if someone is ill and infectious it is not a great idea to share a bed with them. Older people may need overnight care, too. Restricting people to one bedroom on the grounds of age seems to me rather unkind.
I think more two bed homes should be built - not in ghettos for old or young, but as places where people can start and end their time on the 'property ladder'. The 5 bed/4 bath ones that are so fashionable are only really ideal for families with children at home, and that stage of life is fairly temporary.
I'm not keen on the way people are stratified by age. I understand some of it - families might want to live near schools, and older people might prefer easy access to medical centres and public transport, but most of need most services for most of our lives, and IMO it's better to live in a mixed environment. In some ways, that might mean older people moving out of family homes, though, despite the fact that they are often too expensive for the young.
We moved in here when I was in my late 30s, with small children. There is hardly anyone nearby as young as that now, partly because of the location meaning that older people just stay put, but also because the location means that houses are expensive compared to others in the town. You can get a modern estate house for less than a decent sized terrace in the town centre, so that's what families do. First time buyers go for the universally popular two up, two down cottages, and move onto the estates when their families arrive. It will be interesting to see who buys the older houses when we oldies die off. An older woman nearby has gone into a care home, and there is a youngish man and young children in her house now. It didn't go up for sale, so I don't know if it's a permanent arrangement- he may be a relative or a short-term renter (I haven't seen a mum on the scene), or it may be that the tide is turning, and the area will become more mixed again. I'd like to think so.
My daughter lives in what was a 2 up/2 down that has been extended. Her neighbours include older people who have been there for decades, youngsters like her buying their first homes, renters of various types and families. It has a great sense of community.