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Janash Sat 02-May-26 15:21:15

21 years ago today I woke up paralysed from the waist down. I was taken to the local hospital for loads of tests, x-rays and mri's and saw at least 10 different consultants. No-one was really sure what was wrong so I was sent to another hospital where, after 25 days I was given a diagnosis - Transverse Myelitis.
No-one had much of an idea about the condition, which was said at that time to be rare, affecting 1 in 1,000,000 people a year. I was then sent to re-hab at another hospital.
As I was wheeled into the unit on my bed I asked how long I had to be there and was told a minimum of 7 weeks, but that was dependent on my progress. I worked out the date - July 30th.... it gave me something to aim at.
I told everyone that come what may, I was going to 'walk' out of that door by the end of July.
On the 25th July I was told that I was being discharged, albeit in a wheelchair on 29th July. I could walk a few steps by that point so tottering on crutches I walked over the threshold and to our car - about 12 feet away.

My time away had been tough on my family. My husband ran his own business and this was his busiest time of year, but he had our 3 teenage children to look after as well.
My first week at home I found my youngest (13 year old) school bag and started to empty it, reading what he had been doing in school while I had been away.
I came across a piece of English. It was his take on what had been happening to me. It said that no-one knew what was wrong with me and they didn't know if I was going to die (I was choked tbh!)... then he put that finally I had got a diagnosis, it is a rare condition called Transfer Smileitis. I loved the fact that the teacher hadn't made one correction to his work.
So for 21 years, through even the toughest of days that is what I try to do Transfer Smiles - especially to the newly diagnosed people that I meet through the support group that I run.
I invite you all to join my little club. You too can have Transfer Smileitis, it always makes me feel better and hopefully it will make you feel better too smile

keepingquiet Sat 02-May-26 15:45:37

Yes, it made me smile so thanks for sharing this sweet story and raising awareness of this condition.

Retread Sat 02-May-26 15:52:00

smile

crazyH Sat 02-May-26 15:55:13

Yes 😀

Pass it on

V3ra Sat 02-May-26 17:35:38

What a lot you and your family went through Janash. I hope you're much improved now?

I like smiling at random people I pass in the street. It's amazing how even the grumpiest looking face transforms as they smile back 🙂

Whingey Sat 02-May-26 17:44:27

My husband had swine erisepalis.Everyone called it smiling Harry syphilis 😭

Moonwatcher1904 Sat 02-May-26 18:02:42

That made me smile too. It's funny how words can be misheard or misinterpreted to make the funniest of things. Hope things are good for you Janash. xx

pably15 Sat 02-May-26 18:45:13

My what a tough time you've had. good to know that you've pulled through and getting on with your life, wishing you well

Wyllow3 Sat 02-May-26 18:48:15

How sweet! and poignant!

I laughed out loud - I'd treasure it all my life and of course when you read it at the time you had a chance to gently reassure.

I do Transfer Smileitis in the park, I walk alone and it's not hard to spot those in need of a bit of a smile plus a "terrible weather" "nice sunny day". Its "definitely catching"

thank goodness you got that diagnosis flowers

Janash Sun 03-May-26 09:59:41

Thank you for all of the lovely comments, and for the smiles.
I walk quite badly now (like a friday night drunk smile ) but at least I put one foot in front of the other. With determination to keep some power in my legs I have invested in an electric trike which I ride at least 5 times a week around the quiet lanes where I live. I can manage 2 miles a day at the moment (that's after 12 days) but I will get better with perseverence.
And I always smile at people who pass me - especially those who slow down to give me room.

Mazgg Sun 03-May-26 10:12:16

Thank you for such a positive and uplifting post.
I had been thinking how gloomy everyone I meet seem to be, this was heartwarming to read

JaneJudge Sun 03-May-26 10:16:19

smile

dragonfly46 Sun 03-May-26 10:19:04

Yes it made me smile even though I don't have much to smile about these days!