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GrannyGravy13 Tue 09-Jun-26 18:23:42

It feels odd to have a kitchen without our founder.

We shall carry on as she would have wished.

Supporting each other and sharing our ups and downs šŸ˜˜šŸ„‚šŸ«–ā˜•ļøšŸ°

Usedtobeblonde Thu 30-Jul-26 21:46:23

Grannygravy 🄹 typical husband.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 30-Jul-26 21:36:58

Hi dear friends, DH laid the table outside, then we had five minutes of light rain. I stood outside and it was refreshing.
Now we have a cooling breeze.

Good you liked your cleaners UTBB

DH has asked if I have changed my perfume (I only wear a few Jo Malone and one White Company fragrances)
He nearly spat his wine out when I said it was deet bug spray 😹

Redcar Thu 30-Jul-26 21:21:54

Hi everyone, cloudy here at the moment and a little cooler, but only a little. A few spots of rain on the windows, hopefully we may have a shower overnight.. I have done even less than usual today, moved a few flower pots about, and swept the paved area outside the kitchen. I did clean the fridge, it self defrosts so I didn’t have to do that, but I had to clear the drain as it was spilling water into the veg drawer.

Both DDs and families are staying in Suffolk, not too close to the awful fire at Dunwich heath fortunately.

utbb good that you have dates for your tests, not long to wait and they’ll soon be over. I hope they don’t show up anything nasty.

jaxjacky even the weeds have given up growing on the wreckage of my lawn now. Not sure it will ever recover. I’m not sure how many plants will have survived the gardener’s ministrations either! I hope he’s got rid of the violets, but I bet they survive even if nothing else does! I’m nurturing a couple of pots of salad leaves and two tomato plants, so far they are surviving.

It’s getting dark earlier these days…
Night night everyone.

Jaxjacky Thu 30-Jul-26 19:26:50

Hi all, guess what..sunny, no rain! I yearn for that patter on the window Grandmabatty, too late for most of the gardens, but good for our rivers and farmers.
Organised the first quote to sort out a tiling gap in our roof, need to get at least one more. Good long chat with a friend on the phone today, then one with my daughter re their upcoming holiday to Turkey. I just keep thinking wildfires and have to bite my tongue, not say head for the sea.
I just welled up watching ā€˜one big thank you’ on The One Show, funny what sets us off.
Chicken escalopes in coronation sauce with veg are smelling delicious, MrJ is now chief chef after years of me having that title, he enjoys it, no bad thing.
I’d be wanting it over too utbb won’t be long, glad the cleaners worked out.

Usedtobeblonde Thu 30-Jul-26 16:48:38

I have had cleaners in today, first time for some years.
3 young women but the owner of the company didn’t come as expected, she hasn’t visited at all which I found a bit strange.
They were only here for a hour and a quarter, only downstairs today, they have done a good job, not perfect but good enough, they expected to have more to do, perhaps my GD did a better job than I thought.
It is lovely to have a clean house though.
The sun has come out and it is pleasant.

I hope your H’s scan goes well Yia always nerve racking though and to others of course, unwell or caring.

I have my dates now for my 24 hour heart monitor, Echocardiogram and a face to face with the Consultant, all by September 1st, much sooner than I expected, I shall be pleased to have it behind me.

Grandmabatty Thu 30-Jul-26 14:53:52

jaxjacky the rain has returned to Central Scotland. Lots of heavy showers over the last two days.
Today I had a very early haircut. My lovely hairdresser made a good job of it. Back home and I have pottered about, tidying up etc. I'm now watching The Rapture, recommended by said hairdresser. The rest of the day will continue quiet. Possibly chicken curry for dinner later. Enjoy the rest of your day kitchen folk

Jaxjacky Thu 30-Jul-26 11:35:39

Enjoy your time with the young man and puppy brook 🐶
Our garden is a dark shade of beige Redcar the only green is a jasmine type climber going mad on the fence and tomatoes in the greenhouse, so disheartening.
So swift and devastating FGT šŸ„€

brook2704 Thu 30-Jul-26 11:13:13

Hi kitchen pals, it’s an early visit from me today as I’ll be busy later. DD2 is taking DGD to Belladrum, it’s a local music festival so we’re looking after DGS and their newish puppy. DH has just gone to collect the Tesco food order and then pick them both up. I’m looking forward to a busy but lovely few days as they’re staying until Sunday
Hoping the mammogram is ok today nannytopsy , usually quite painful but necessary
DD1s garden in Cambridge is very dry and brown too redcar, it’s a shame as they’d spent a lot of time on money on it in the spring and because of their hosepipe ban it’s really suffering. I hope it can recover when the rain eventually comes!
What a shame about your friend fgt, I hope she can recover somewhat
Hi to the quiet corner, take care all

Nannytopsy Wed 29-Jul-26 22:14:39

Good evening everyone! Suffolk is very warm and dry today but should start to cool down tomorrow. We have had two lots of visitors plus DGD in the last week, so now we are looking forward to a bit of a rest now. And to start packing for our holiday with the family in 10 days time.
I’m glad there has been some good news about DHs and hospital appointments. Keep it up everyone!
Mammogram tomorrow - oh joy! Still, better than a smear test! 🤣
Sleep well everyone

Redcar Wed 29-Jul-26 21:32:16

Another hot one today! 35 degrees at Writtle, about 8 miles away from me. Very warm indoors too, even with windows and blackout blinds shut. Looking forward to a cooler day tomorrow (28degrees).
I took Dgd3’s birthday presents over to her this morning, her birthday is at the weekend but they’re going away from tomorrow until Monday. DD2 and family plus the birthday girl are already in Suffolk, DD1, her DH and the 11 year old will join them tomorrow.
Didn’t go to yoga, too hot and my cough is lingering. Also I thought my back had had enough exercise for the week. I tidied a few flower pots in the garden, and didn’t do a lot after that.
My dwarf beans have given up and are brown like most other things in the garden. I can’t pull them up yet because there’s no room in the bin to put them.

yiayia I hope the hospital appointments aren’t as scary as you fear. The boat trip on the Thames sounds fun.

jacjacky I hope Imogen enjoys her job in Asda. DD2 worked in Sainsbury’s at weekends and school/uni holidays, I think the novelty wore off fairly quickly.

Night night everyone, sleep tight.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 29-Jul-26 21:18:10

ā€˜Evening All’

I’ve enjoyed today. Yoga was challenging after several weeks absence from class!

This afternoon I lunched with my cousin and his partner in Wilmslow (get me) at a very nice Italian restaurant.

Came home to hear that a 55 year old woman, a dear friend of my friend, suffered a serious stroke this morning and the family have been told by the hospital that the next 48 hiursxare critical.

We never know the day do we? My heart goes out to all her family and friends. It’s such a shock.

Ladyleftfieldlover Wed 29-Jul-26 18:15:01

Hello kitchen people,

It got up to 30 degrees today. I went in the garden briefly but it was too hot. My cold hasn’t gone away yet so I didn’t collect my ceramic cat. I’ll try again on Friday.

I spent a lot of time arranging the pattern for my patchwork project. It will be 15 squares down and 13 squares across. 195 14 cm x 14 cm in all. When I have some energy I’ll sew them together.

The only other thing I did today was listen to a Rest is Politics podcast, they mainly spoke about Andy Burnham and his Social Care and Vocational Educational plans. Interesting.

OH will cook dinner.

Have a good evening.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 29-Jul-26 18:06:20

It’s been a glorious day still 30° and sunny.

Changed bedding, went with DD to get the 11yr olds senior school uniform this morning. This afternoon I have been faffing around getting a lot of niggly little jobs out of the way.

I hope all in the quiet corner are ok šŸ™‹ā€ā™€ļø

brook2704 Wed 29-Jul-26 17:55:54

Hi kitchen pals, I’ve not been home long but DH had made a start on dinner so there’s just a bit of salad to throw together
I’ve had a lovely day, nothing special but just the gym, coffee with pals, a walk by the river and the bus home. Popped into M&S, they had all the sale stuff lined up ready but the sale doesn’t start until tomorrow, I was a day too early! I might have a browse online later tonight
Goodness GG I think a snake would definitely freak me out, you did well to keep so calm
Hoping Imogen enjoys her job Jax, the first job my my eldest DD had was in Morrisons, she was soon promoted and allowed to do the tannoy messages, - she was thrilled 🤩
Lovely to see you here Yia hoping all goes well with the hospital appts
Thinking of everyone in the quiet corner, take care all

Jaxjacky Wed 29-Jul-26 11:50:45

I bet being on the water was lovely Yia glad it was enjoyed by all, vying for the captains hat.

Best of luck for Sunday and Monday, it’ll soon be done.
Good to hear from you.

Yiayia4 Wed 29-Jul-26 11:19:29

Morning everyone.Checking in and I’m still around.
It’s been a mixed couple of weeks but some nice times which have helped.

We spent Saturday at A&E as DH was in pain with his catheter.A bit of a wait but sorted out eventually.On Monday our DS1 hired a boat on the Thames for the day.DH was in his element and it did him the world of good.Not sure who enjoyed it most, DH or our youngest GS!
DH has scans on Sunday always a bit stressful but fingers crossed.I have a stress echocardiogram on Monday and I’m dreading it.😬

Look after that hip Jax. and same for your back Redcar.
Stay cool everyone it’s going to be 35° here later.
Pic of Captain DGS.

Jaxjacky Wed 29-Jul-26 09:49:45

Voltarol or similar FGT twice a day, that and gritting of teeth!!
I hope your back calms down today Redcar seems to me once you have a problem it takes ages to heal.
A hot one today, fortunately brief, Imogen starts her p/t job in Asda - with air conditioning!
Have a decent day if you can.

Redcar Tue 28-Jul-26 21:24:45

Another hot day today. I went for my usual walk this morning and met some of my dog walking friends. When I got back I tried to move the garden waste bin that the gardener had filled. I couldn’t move it so he came round later and put it out for me. My next door neighbour didn’t like it out so early so moved it back a bit šŸ™„! I hope he puts it out on Thursday! Musical bins, but I’ll have to train the gardener not to fill the bin, I need to be able to move it myself. (Control freak!)
Some of my new blackout blinds were fitted and it feels a little cooler. More are coming soon I hope. I saw my dementia friend, who was quite vocal, if only we could understand what she was saying.
When I went outside to water the garden I found a large and very dead pigeon on the drive. My next door neighbour buried it in the garden for me.

fgt your massage sounds very relaxing and enjoyable. I could benefit from one now.

Thinking of those in the quiet corner.

Night night everyone.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 28-Jul-26 20:37:47

Been a frustrating day paperwork wise, but glorious weather šŸŒž

DH had a fright when he went into the garage earlier. A smooth snake was entering via the back garage door šŸ. We have been here for 38 years and it’s our first snake.

Fortunately neither of us are snake phobic, it disappeared under our cushion storage box on the patio, I hope it’s ok and we will see it again.

brook2704 Tue 28-Jul-26 19:29:35

Hello kitchen pals, after a grey start this morning it ended up as a lovely sunny afternoon but a bit windy. I’ve stayed in today, sorted out a few clothes, did some housework and a bit of gardening too. DH went to the post office to post a couple of eBay sales and then did a tip run too. I’m trying to find something to watch on tv for the rest of the evening.
Good news about your hip Jax, at least it’s treatable and hoping that eventually it’s fully recovered so you can get your dancing shoes on! So frustrating for you
Pieris plants do well up here redcar , we’ve quite a few well established ones in the garden. Yes it’s much cooler here than where you are, it’s definitely been warm enough for me though.
Have a good evening and take care everyone x

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 28-Jul-26 19:27:42

By ā€˜eck it’s quiet in here tonight! I can hear the clock ticking….

Hope everyone’s okay.
šŸ‘‹ to all in the Quiet Corner. Life’s pressures can be tough.

I’ve had a good day. A wonderfully relaxing full body massage worth every penny of Ā£55 for that hour. I’d recommend one to all of you. Wishing it could be prescribed. The feeling of well being it generates is second to none.

Redcar Mon 27-Jul-26 22:02:24

Another warm sunny day here, after a cool breezy start. I went to the garden centre again and got more ericaceous compost to finish potting up the pieris. I finished it and gave it a good water.
I didn’t sleep well last night, my usual busy brain, then a lengthy coughing fit, so I’m ready for bed now. It’s warm indoors, my new blackout blinds are being fitted to the dining room and bedroom windows tomorrow, I hope they help to keep the house cooler. Hoping the blinds for the porch doors and side doors come soon too.

jaxjacky you must be so relieved that your hip joint is fine, I hope you don’t have to wait too long for the cortisone injection, and more importantly I hope it relieves your pain!

Enjoy the line dancing brook and the catch up with your friends. I hope it’s cooler where you are, still 21 degrees outside here and the idea of line dancing is exhausting! I’m not sure I’ll go to yoga this week, the village hall is hot this weather, even with the doors open. It has two ceiling fans, the smallest I’ve ever seen and the ceiling is very high because it used to be used for badminton. Also I don’t want to upset people if I start coughing!

Thinking of those who are in the quiet corner.

Night night everyone.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 27-Jul-26 20:57:37

** I can’t even spell ā€˜evening’ or ā€˜that’ it seems!
Why don’t I proof read it’s not as though I’m in a rush ….
#lazygran

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 27-Jul-26 20:56:29

ā€˜Ecening All’

You did well to spell tgat Jax! Hope the injections help to heal. Anything ā€˜itis’ is an inflammation so hopefully it can settle down with treatment. Is it rest or mobility that’s best in the interim?

I’ve had a good day. Brunch with my (wingman) brother in law and his wife. Then the dental hygienist. Fee has steadily gone up these past months (I choose to go 3 times a year as I’m a devout coward and going more frequently = less scraping - ugh!) from Ā£50 to Ā£70 today. Yikes.

I discussed having my teeth whitened. Moulds to be taken in September by the dentist and trays made to clip over my teeth. I said ā€œI don’t want to look like Katie Price but I would like a significantly pleasing resultā€.

I last had this done 20 years ago. Technology has moved on. As I have no caps, crowns, bridges (or whatever) he thought I’d get a good response as apparently my teeth enamel isn’t thin. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø We shall see.

A few of my friends have much whiter ā€˜teeth’ but turns out they’re veneers. Expensive. Plus even if I could afford them I’m too nervous for extensive cosmetic procedures!

Grandmabatty Mon 27-Jul-26 18:51:20

Jaxjacky that sounds very painful. Hopefully the cortisone will help