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Are White British Men somehow “disadvantaged”

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Cossy Wed 10-Jun-26 19:05:01

So, on another thread a male contributor raised a point about why he feels 1) Diversity and Equality laws have “gone too far and 2) why (in his opinion) White British Men support Reform.

I think we should explore this further as I’d like to understand why W.B.M. apparently feel this way and if Reform is the panacea for these feeling of what I can only describe as “WBM feeling somehow subjugated, oppressed, left our, ignored”

In my lifetime I’ve seen a lot of extremely positive changes made to all sorts of different lives and opportunities.

I don’t think “positive discrimination” was the answer, but can understand completely why this was used. Clearly, to me, this was used to ensure groups who might otherwise be overlooked were given opportunities to prove themselves.

Positive discrimination is rarely used now, especially in job application situations.

However, there is a box you can tick in England on any public sector role if you’re disabled. If said box is ticked, AND the applicant reaches the minimum level required, a guaranteed interview will be given. This will apply to EVERYONE, irrespective of colour/race/age and includes WBM.

Exactly what is it that Reform as specifically offering to White British Men and Women, that is different or special from any other political party?

In my own friendship group, I have no Reform supporters, nor have I heard W.B.M. complain or even comment that they’ve been “overlooked” at all in their personal or professional lives. Ditto those W.B.M. in our own immediate and extended family.

I have to admit, I was thoroughly shocked to read the line about women taking jobs that belong to men?

Let’s try and keep this pleasant please, but some opinions expressed around this entire topic have utterly dumbfounded me.

62Granny Thu 11-Jun-26 11:49:03

Well Reform definitely "target" a certain demographic , my DH received at least 3/4 personally addressed leaflets during our recent election, I received only 1. Schooling has always favoured the sit and look interested brigade, if you have a problem and keep asking questions you were always made to feel stupid and overlooked especially if you sat at the back out of the way of the sarcastic comments of the teacher. I wasn't brilliant in school but could hold my own in the core subjects. When it came to career choices it was a local factory for the girls and an apprenticeship if you are lucky for the boys or as one teacher told a boy I was in school with " you will end up cleaning the toilets" That teacher was the sarcastic one. I am not sure how we go forward and make boys feel valued , where do those loving little boys who run around the playground go once they hit puberty.

foxie48 Thu 11-Jun-26 11:42:02

The police do not use positive discrimination in their recruitment process, as hiring someone purely based on their background rather than merit is unlawful. Instead, forces use lawful Positive Action under the Equality Act 2010, which helps under-represented groups compete on a level playing field. AI generated,

Can we please put this idea to rest, positive discrimination is illegal in the UK. In the early 90's I used to train senior managers in recruitment and training and boy did they need the training! The 2010 Equality Act consolidated the preceding equality laws and gives EVERYONE protection against discrimination, that includes white men. This idea that Equality Laws give some people an advantage is absolute rubbish, they help to protect us all against unfair discrimination.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 11:29:11

I just feel that this thread is not about education at all, though of course it’s an interesting topic.

It’s simply about the misnomer, in my opinion, that White British Males in the UK are “somehow” disadvantage which is very different from being disenchanted and disenfranchised.

Personally, and this doesn’t make me right, it’s just my view, I just don’t believe it and I’d go further to say that this has been politicised by some right parties and that some White British Men are more than happy to go along with, rather than perhaps looking at other reason, or even, heaven forbid, themselves to discover what’s gone wrong for them!

Basgetti Thu 11-Jun-26 11:02:10

Oreo

I do wonder if boys would respond better to an all boys school from aged 11 with lots of male teachers and plenty of sports?

I’m sure they would. Unfortunately, too many parents are suspicious of male teachers, just look at MN.

Galaxy Thu 11-Jun-26 11:00:18

Hope it goes OK Cossy.

Rosie51 Thu 11-Jun-26 09:58:34

Wyllow3 Are you accusing those recruited under the scheme are not up to the job of course not and I'll thank you not to suggest I am!
All candidates on the waiting for training list were up to the job they had all passed the criteria, fitness tests and interview.

As to Or it this another moan re white males about not getting "first dabs" as has been forever before? There really is no need to be so offensive, I have never expressed such a view, and don't hold it either.

Wyllow3 Thu 11-Jun-26 09:40:31

I'd love a female Labour Party leader. I regard choosing the right leader at any given time is rather different from recruitment at ground level in the police force.

Well, we'll have to disagree: we really, really need a balanced police force, Rosie. However, the metropolitan police have never stopped recruiting while males I have just done a check:

"No, the Metropolitan Police has never legally stopped recruiting white males, nor has it ever implemented a strict ban on them. However, the force has utilized targeted "positive action" strategies and aggressive recruitment targets to dramatically increase the number of female and ethnic minority officers in its ranks".

Are you accusing those recruited under the scheme are not up to the job

Or it this another moan re white males about not getting "first dabs" as has been forever before?

Rosie51 Thu 11-Jun-26 09:24:40

Wyllow3 ^a bit longer* in that case was over a year and still counting. The Met weren't comparing one candidate with another they were accelerating admission over a whole queue of candidates based purely on sex and skin colour.

Rosie51 Thu 11-Jun-26 09:18:54

Well one area where British white males are not at all disadvantaged is as leader of the Labour party. That's all there has ever been, and the present white male leader will be ousted in favour of yet another white male leader if Andy Burnham gets his way. I am not in favour of fixed quotas, but you'd think there might be some deviance from white male leaders along the line. The Conservative party have managed it on several occasions, the current one being a black woman.

Wyllow3 Thu 11-Jun-26 09:18:45

Rosie51

So Wyllow would you be happy to wait longer to see a doctor/clinician because your area didn't have the correct 'ethnic' representation?You don't actually want the best candidate for any position appointed you want strict ratios? So if, for example, BAME candidates field stronger for a position than their white counterparts you want some disadvantaged to keep the ratios correct? Wow, I just want the best in every position. If I need surgery I don't want my surgeon selected by race, religion, birth country or skin colour, I want him/her selected on ability alone, but you do you and take your chances....
Just as you don't seem aware I dont want a wholly white male police force actually. Its great to see more women police out on the. streets at night, and they are often so capable. not all the female officers are black, and what do you do if there just aren't the applications to join from non white, non males? Just lower the entry qualifications, accept anyone from the under represented groups, employ 'press gang' tactics? I quite fancy being a surgeon, absolutely zero normal qualification but I am female, have mixed heritage if you go back far enough, and am enthusiastic, fancy me doing surgery on you or yours?

erm...

I was just talking about the police in that, in reference to particular examples of a black policewoman getting training ahead of a white male who had to wait a bit longer

and I stated clearly "as long as there were both up to the job" meaning qualified of course..

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 09:15:11

Sitting in GP surgery May resume this topic later 🙂🙂

Galaxy Thu 11-Jun-26 09:03:10

I didn't see that thread, sounds like a bit of a wind up, I think David admits he likes to challenge ( polite way of putting it) I just think the subject is interesting.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:58:55

Galaxy I totally agree with you BUT (again) as a woman I felt I simply couldn’t let the comments of our normally lovely male member pass without questioning his comments.

I’m quite sad not to see him on here explaining his comments and giving us some answers and insights.

Personally, I think it’s utterly outrageous to state WBM are somehow disadvantaged and women have stolen their jobs! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

NotSpaghetti Thu 11-Jun-26 08:54:32

Just realised this is what Cossy said.
I went away whilst typing.
Apologies

Galaxy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:48:06

I can't answer some of those questions mostly because I loathe identity politics grin, the separation of people by a specific characteristic is one of the most divisive things I have ever seen. The issue is complex, and these strategies tend not to work.
So I could if I had the energy go through each characteristic - so for example Chinese students outperform white students in education. I suppose I think most of these 'solutions' are simplistic answers to complex issues.

NotSpaghetti Thu 11-Jun-26 08:42:39

Sago

So this was in last week’s news; www.linkedin.com/posts/elliot-hammer-37522920_middle-class-white-men-banned-from-public-activity-7469009904591155200-oyye

This is wrong, I believe strongly in meritocracy, it should always be the best person for the job.

Cossy I am amazed you know the voting habits of your friendship group, do you have to fill in an application to join?

Only my husband and children know how I vote.

I suppose this must be their specific Diversity Summer Internship?

It is not actually a job Sago. It allows them to be both "tested" and "try it out" over a period of six weeks and prove themselves (or discover this isn't for them).
If they are good enough they can then join the Graduate Training Scheme- which is open to all graduates.

There are lots of ways to get into the National Audit Office.
This particular scheme is a standalone initiative.

The NAO runs a Trainee Accountancy Scheme and also has general graduate intakes (as above).

These jobs and apprenticeship schemes obviously don't carry demographic restrictions and are open to all who meet their standard academic benchmarks.

This one scheme is essentially work experience targeted at groups that are under-represented in accounting and public sector auditing.

This is how I understand it.
Hope that makes sense.
I can't read the article as don't have a subscription. Sorry.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:41:11

Galaxy I read your first post and agree with it BUT this could apply to ANY man. This post was questioning whether White British Men are disadvantaged and I’m yet to see strong evidence, other than one link to a 6 week intern role, that they are disadvantaged in any way, nor than they have have been deprived of job roles by women.

I started this post in direct response to a post on another thread by one of our male members.

Fallingstar Thu 11-Jun-26 08:40:19

Cossy

Padstow A big huge thank you, as your post really made laugh out loud! I love your choice of words and have to agree wholeheartedly with your rhetoric.

Yes I must second that 👏🏽👏🏽

Chardy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:38:09

Chocolatelovinggran

Macaydia, I, like you, am concerned about the phrase " women taking men's jobs". I have no experience of the Metropolitan Police, so cannot comment on the previous posting.
However, I do have knowledge of other workplaces, and have seen only successful appointments reflecting the best candidate.
As I have stated elsewhere, my DIL is an engineer, leading her department in an international firm. She has been consulted by a prestigious university on course content. If she did " take a man's job" it's because she was better than him, unpalatable though that might be to some .
Oh, and the percentage of female headteachers to male headteachers has gone down over the last twenty years. Maybe men are stealing women's jobs, here.

The male:female headteacher ratio does not reflect the gender proportions of the classroom teachers they lead, especially in primary.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:36:44

Padstow A big huge thank you, as your post really made laugh out loud! I love your choice of words and have to agree wholeheartedly with your rhetoric.

Galaxy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:36:09

I listed some of the disadvantages men face in my first post. As I said I can list the advantages as well.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:33:03

Fallingstar

I couldn’t agree more.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:31:53

M0nica with all due respect of course your children benefitted from their single sex schools, however I’ll wager they benefitted far more from the fact that they attended underspent schools and when your son left he would have benefitted from the “old boy network”, which at its peak deliberately excluded women from both certain job roles and social activities.

I’d be very shocked if your son considered himself “disadvantaged”

Fallingstar Thu 11-Jun-26 08:28:07

I think the whole white men are disadvantaged is a familiar right wing trope aimed at convincing those who like to think they are owed a sense of superiority due to their colour and a history of being the ruling class, that other races or genders are being prioritised. This they blame on left wing liberalism and a woke conspiracy.
But I think we can all see that those at the top of most institutions, large corporations, and governments in the western world are white men.
They are still in charge and not in the least disadvantaged.
As for those who are on low income or unemployed, they face the same disadvantages that women and other ethnic groups face when on low income or unemployed, but some are convinced by the likes of Farage that this isn’t due to failures by past governments to address societal issues in parts of the country where the primary and secondary sectors were decimated, but due to discrimination.

Cossy Thu 11-Jun-26 08:27:55

There are certain job roles, with plenty of vacancies, I don’t see White British Males in a queue to apply, or to retrain to apply!

These include, but are not limited to, care roles, nursery nurses, nurses, primary school teachers. Mmmm interesting isn’t it, traditionally female roles.

There are still far more men than women in mechanics, engineering, plumbing, electricians. Traditionally female roles.

There are still far more episodes of domestic abuse committed by men against women, far more sexual offences committed by men against women.

A large percentage of working women still do more than 50% of the housework and childcare.

Please, oh please, can people just explain to me in words of one syllable, how and why White British Men are so disadvantaged and how Mr Farage et al are going to resolve this terrible situation?