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Aveline Wed 01-Jul-26 12:58:39

I can't stand 'picky bits'! This seems to be advertised in all supermarkets at the moment.

Witzend Thu 02-Jul-26 17:09:24

‘You guys’ when addressing a mixed sex group of over 65s!
Especially when uttered by some over-perky 18 year old who doesn’t know any better.

(No need to tell me I’m turning into a GOB (Grumpy old Bag) - I’m well aware, thanks!)

TiggyW Thu 02-Jul-26 17:10:13

All swear words (unnecessary and insulting).
‘Take care’ - why wouldn’t I?! 🤔
Hashtag.
Love, hun, dear, lovey, darling, sweet.
Influencers.
Babes.
Cheers.
Vacation.
For sure.
Like…like…like, etc.
So… at the beginning of every sentence.
How are you? - From someone you don’t know, as if they care. 🙄
Rising intonation at the end of a sentence when no question is being asked. 🙃

Momac55 Thu 02-Jul-26 17:15:03

I hate the words fur babies too , gives
me the ick

Oldnproud Thu 02-Jul-26 17:15:58

jakuss

Partner, you're not in business, its either hubby/ wife, boyfriend / girlfriend, or even mistress

Forty years ago I felt the same about 'partner' in that context, but nowadays it feels 100% acceptable/normal to me.

Peaseblossom Thu 02-Jul-26 17:26:32

Aveline Funny you should say that, because I've noticed that being used a lot lately and find it irritating. My daughter says it. I prefer buffet!
Loads of American ones, if that is allowed?! My daughter now annoyingly says "can I get?" instead of "can I have" in a restaurant/bar.
Most of the TV programmes and films seem to be American, so some awful phrases and words are creeping into our language. The pronunciation is another matter! shock

Can I get?
What do we got?
Not that big of a deal
erb instead of herb
My bad
Math
I could care less
Gotten
24/7
Normalcy
Bangs
Going forward
Reaching out
Winningest
Doneness
Deplane
Disoriented
ETC ETC ETC

Witzend Thu 02-Jul-26 17:31:06

Ooh yes, ‘normalcy’! Any Brit saying that, instead of ‘normality’ will be another candidate for my rat-infested dungeon.
Ditto ‘math’ from a Brit.
Talk properly!

Grandma70s Thu 02-Jul-26 17:55:42

My son says “Can I get”. Grrrr.
The English isn’t “Can I have?” It’s “Please may I have?”

Ohmygoodness54 Thu 02-Jul-26 18:00:26

All of the ones previously mentioned!
Also, "belly" for no reason I can think of but I just hate it. Why not stomach or even tummy?

Witzend Thu 02-Jul-26 18:02:57

I hate ‘belly’ too, except for in ‘belly dancer/dancing, when anything else would sound daft.

Growing0ldDisgracefully Thu 02-Jul-26 18:11:53

Cute. I just detest the word.
Aww bless.
Fur baby.
My bad.
Reach out.

I'll stop now - far too many!

Picky bits is what we've always called buffet food, so nothing new in that phrase for me!

Lilyflower Thu 02-Jul-26 18:12:29

I really don’t like so many ‘sleeps’ instead of so many nights. Even to children it sounds cringeworthy and patronising. I dislike ‘passing’ for ‘passing on’ or plain old dying. There’s no gilding that Lily!

Growing0ldDisgracefully Thu 02-Jul-26 18:18:45

Oh have to add
'we are pregnant' from a couple announcing the news - if its a male and female couple, only one of them can be pregnant.
And the word lovveee - I presume it's still pronounced love?

Oldnproud Thu 02-Jul-26 18:22:50

Growing0ldDisgracefully

Oh have to add
'we are pregnant' from a couple announcing the news - if its a male and female couple, only one of them can be pregnant.
And the word lovveee - I presume it's still pronounced love?

In my experience, love and lovvee are pronounced differently.

Glenfinnan Thu 02-Jul-26 18:59:00

I have a friend who says ‘ are you joking me!’ Rather than are you playing a joke or similar … grates on me!!

dolphindaisy Thu 02-Jul-26 19:33:41

Gifted - seems to be used all the time now as in "I was gifted this bottle of wine". No one seems to get a present anymore!

grannybuy Thu 02-Jul-26 20:50:28

Mom!

Musky17 Thu 02-Jul-26 21:40:20

I will never say someone “passed” ( what? an exam or test ?) or “passed away” rather than died. When did that euphemism creep in?

Peaseblossom Thu 02-Jul-26 22:05:01

Glenfinnan I hate that!

Peaseblossom Thu 02-Jul-26 22:06:47

I don't mind that. It sounds less harsh than "died". I hate the word "dead". I'm sensitive about it, probably because my 6 year old son passed away from cancer in 1980 and it haunts me daily.

MissAdventure Thu 02-Jul-26 22:12:34

I'm the same regarding "pass".
Whatever their loved ones choose to say is ok by me.
Sometimes i can say died, sometimes I can't.

I commit the cardinal sin of saying I lost my daughter, too.

Peaseblossom Thu 02-Jul-26 22:20:40

62Granny I cannot bear videos where people keep pointing their finger at something, and where there is a miniature person (the one who has posted the video) in the corner nodding along to the video at salient points and they don't stay still either. Drives me crazy!
I also hate the word influencer and I hate influencers. Load of rubbish. They're usually plastic women with trout pout pumped up lips, fake tans, fake boobs. If they have a large following they usually get loads of free products to review, but how genuine are the reviews when they are getting them for nothing, so can hardly say bad things about them. It's all so fake.

Nannee49 Thu 02-Jul-26 22:32:25

MissAdventure that too isn't a euphemism, you lost your precious girl from your life, no greater loss.flowersflowers

Nannee49 Thu 02-Jul-26 22:34:42

Peaseblossomflowersflowers

MissAdventure Thu 02-Jul-26 22:35:57

Ah, thank you.
That's a lovely way of explaining it. smile
It's true, too.

Marthjolly1 Thu 02-Jul-26 22:38:16

I really do not like 'from the get-go'. Where on earth did that come from.