Not so mid life crisis

Thank you Astitchintime and Aveline 😊
That's really reassuring to read. I think I've felt as though I ought to have a plan straight away, but maybe I just need to give myself a bit of time
I like the idea of having something to do on weekdays but not overcommitting until I know what I actually enjoy. Volunteering has crossed my mind too, so it's good to hear how rewarding you've found it.
I suppose after years of work it's bound to feel a bit odd at first, I think no one really prepares you for this and you feel like an empty nester of yourself?

I always try to have something organised to do every week day. I want to try to keep weekends special/different.
Classes, social meet ups, jobs round the house, organising holidays etc. You'll find your way.

Hello, and welcome to GN! I basically retired slightly early due to work related injuries, I could have continued to work but not in the physically demanding role I was trained for and I took my OP because I was at an age where I had that choice.
Being still very active I volunteered with a couple of local charities which was really rewarding. I could also go swimming and cycling when I wanted to rather than trying to fit those in around a shift pattern.
Much longed for travel plans became a reality as did time with AC and DGC.
Just pace yourself and don’t make any commitments until you’re absolutely sure. But most importantly, enjoy everything that you do! 💐