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Daughter in law from hell, mini videos on Facebook…

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Witzend Sun 02-Aug-26 11:59:41

I seem to be bombarded with them lately, and I’m afraid to say I find them weirdly compulsive. They always feature a very well groomed, evidently intelligent older woman, whose invariably very glam, devil-DiL is bent on turning her out of her own house, and whose handsome but utterly pathetic husband stands by and says nothing, except perhaps, ‘Mom, please don’t make this harder…’.

Of course the older woman ends up on top, having given them 30 days to find somewhere else to live…’

I don’t understand the point of them though - they aren’t some drawn-out prequel to a spiel trying to persuade you to buy something!

I only usually use FB for a charity craft group I belong to, so it’s a bit perturbing to find myself partially hooked by such tripe!

JenniRen Sun 02-Aug-26 12:17:02

I usually hide them, most of them are AI.
Occasionally I've got caught and thought what a waste of my time!

Elegran Sun 02-Aug-26 12:29:43

They are like watching a particularly highly-coloured soap opera.
I suspect the purpose of them is to get you to click on the "read more" button to get the denouement where the mother-in-law, sister-in-law, or spiteful work colleague get their come-uppance, and the author of the page gets their fraction of a penny/cent per click from Google/Facebook's monetising scheme.

Elegran Sun 02-Aug-26 12:30:43

If you look at one and click, you get bombarded with more.

25Avalon Sun 02-Aug-26 13:02:55

Switch to WhatsApp to communicate with charity group and scrap FB.

Witzend Sun 02-Aug-26 13:47:50

25Avalon

Switch to WhatsApp to communicate with charity group and scrap FB.

Charity group isn’t on WhatsApp. I do use that for family and close friends though.

Witzend Sun 02-Aug-26 13:49:50

Elegran

If you look at one and click, you get bombarded with more.

I don’t click, but I still get more!

aggie Sun 02-Aug-26 13:57:24

I get the wicked mother-in-law , who is so stupid she doesn’t realise her daughter in law is a millionairess

Grandmabatty Sun 02-Aug-26 13:59:35

Witzend, they are my guilty pleasure! To be honest, I have had enough of them.

AmberGran Sun 02-Aug-26 15:11:46

I remember finding them on YouTube - I felt dreadful after reading the first one, then when another one popped up the penny dropped and I realised they were just stories someone was writing. Who knew there were all these rich, clever ex-business women being evicted from their marital home by greedy sons and daughters grin

Haven't seen any for quite a while now, I think they have dropped off my algorithm.

JenniRen Sun 02-Aug-26 15:31:09

I get lots about cats and cute AI kittens but why?
We don't have a cat and have never owned a cat, well, if anyone can ever own a cat, rather a cat deigns to live at your house.

Cressy Sun 02-Aug-26 19:43:23

Witzend are you clicking on ‘ not interested’. The algorithms give up after a bit.

NoodleNut Sun 02-Aug-26 20:51:02

I'm feeling left out! I only seem to get people icing cakes...

petra Sun 02-Aug-26 20:56:43

JenniRen

I get lots about cats and cute AI kittens but why?
We don't have a cat and have never owned a cat, well, if anyone can ever own a cat, rather a cat deigns to live at your house.

Algorithms.
You viewed one so computer says you’re interested. So the more you get.

JenniRen Sun 02-Aug-26 21:33:09

No, not as far as I know, never looked at one as I'm not really interested in cats.

Grammaretto Sun 02-Aug-26 21:46:27

I've not seen them either 😕
I am sent babies supposed to be speaking like older children. All very peculiar.
I can't remember clicking on anything.

Dickens Sun 02-Aug-26 22:59:33

aggie

I get the wicked mother-in-law , who is so stupid she doesn’t realise her daughter in law is a millionairess

... I saw her, too, oh - and the cheating husband who wants an immediate divorce from his disbelieving wife who really should have noticed his growing hostility by now, kicked the bas***d out and changed the locks.

The story-lines are so predictable and the dialogue cringingly awful - AI really needs to up its game.

... and I need to stop scrolling.

Lizzies Mon 03-Aug-26 13:42:55

I thought I was the only one who got these. They started off with endings that were pretty good. Now it’s more often than not a let down. I’ve been poorly over the weekend and found myself reading all that came my way to see if there was any fresh ideas, but no.

Witzend Mon 03-Aug-26 13:44:37

JenniRen

I get lots about cats and cute AI kittens but why?
We don't have a cat and have never owned a cat, well, if anyone can ever own a cat, rather a cat deigns to live at your house.

I get a lot of doggy ones, but I like those. ❤️🐶

Jess20 Mon 03-Aug-26 13:48:41

Posts like this can be hidden or blocked quite easily, perhaps someone might help and show you how to do so 😊

lizzypopbottle Mon 03-Aug-26 13:57:26

It's called engagement farming. There's some advantage to be had from getting people to click. It's also called click bait, I think.
Don't be tempted to find out what happens. It's made up to get you to look.
Made you look! Made you see!

knspol Mon 03-Aug-26 14:14:29

I seem to get lots of videos connected to the US forces where one daughter is ridiculed by the whole family for not making. a success of her life only to come across a senior officer/5 star general saluting her or similar. I have no armed forces connections so wonder why.

lizzypopbottle Mon 03-Aug-26 14:38:24

knspol see my comment above...

lizzypopbottle Mon 03-Aug-26 14:44:53

And, if you do click, they've got you and you get more and more of them....

Dreadwitch Mon 03-Aug-26 19:30:18

The point of them is rage bait. They're intended to annoy people and annoyance comes with comments, comments come with a much further reach and more people then comment or watch other videos... The people posting them are making money on each video and the more engagement they have the more they earn... So they are after money, just not directly asking you for it.