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Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 20:07:02

Christ watching call the midwife and it’s now the year I was born! Feeing old! But as a young district nurse in the early 80s most old people had the key on a string behind the letter box. Can you imagine that now? Sadly no I think.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 20-Jan-19 20:29:13

Mr GG and I just said the same (I was 7 in 64) can remember keys on strings.

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 20:31:57

My dd is 19 she couldn’t believe it. How sad really isn’t it

BBbevan Sun 20-Jan-19 20:37:57

I was pregnant with DD in 1964. Lots of things on Call the Midwife resonate

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 20:48:17

i havnt watched it for ages but really enjoying it tonight. Well enjoying not probably the right words but fascinating.

As a nurse born in 64 medicine has obviously changed but nursing care is the same, or should be

BradfordLass72 Sun 20-Jan-19 20:48:52

Christ watching call the midwife

Goodness me, I had no idea Jesus was such a telly addict. smile smile

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 20:51:04

gringringrin

How to me I am the almighty

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 20:51:20

Bow obviously grin

Fennel Sun 20-Jan-19 20:55:49

I wish I'd seen it.
I can't remember why, but after a traumatic first hospital birth I decided to have second son at home in 1963.
It all went fine, all over in about 12 hours. The midwife was in and out most of the time, and my GP during the last hour.
TG a healthy baby. and it was nice to be at home with his older brother, who was only 13 mo at the time smile.

annsixty Sun 20-Jan-19 20:55:54

My D was born in 1965 and it does not seem to portray reality at all to me.
It seems set at last 20 years earlier.

annsixty Sun 20-Jan-19 20:58:09

My second was a home birth in 1970.
It was wonderful and nothing like the programme, was I just lucky?

Jane10 Sun 20-Jan-19 21:50:20

Maybe you lived in a posher area annsixty? My Dad used to take me to visit patients and I quite often saw homes like the ones in the programme.
On holiday we stayed in a flat in Kinghorn with gas lighting and a toilet outside and down the stairs at the bottom of the garden! Just remembered that.

BlueBelle Sun 20-Jan-19 22:13:09

I don’t watch Call the midwife but I lived in a very working class area in the early 60s and we definitely had an inside toilet two infact one inside with a newly built bathroom and one just outside the back door, we also had electric lights for all of my life (born ‘45)
I still put my key on a string, if the grandkids are coming as they invariable forget their keys ? used to do it for my own kids when they were out late my sister in law in London always leaves her key under the doormat I wouldn’t do that though

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 23:03:57

Fennel you could get it on catch up! Or in u tube. It’s worth it.

Fascinating comments but I know as a district nurse in the 80s I saw houses and lives I didn’t Belive existed to be honest. Such poverty and squalor.

Most of us only mix with people like ourselves.

Maybe that explains the comments

Grammaretto Sun 20-Jan-19 23:21:14

I missed it too. I was told in 1972 that there was a shortage of hospital beds so unless I'd had complications the first time or had to share a toilet with other families, there was no reason not to have baby #2 at home.

Mycatisahacker Sun 20-Jan-19 23:39:41

My mum said that she had a bed booked in the local hospital to have me (1964) as my older sister was an emergency CS and her friends were jealous as she had a better rest in hospital than at home smile

Jalima1108 Sun 20-Jan-19 23:59:28

My D was born in 1965 and it does not seem to portray reality at all to me.It seems set at last 20 years earlier.

I remember my SIL going into the maternity home to have my niece a couple or three years before then and she had to stay in for two weeks - no visitors allowed except for my brother for one hour a day.

Jalima1108 Mon 21-Jan-19 00:01:00

1973 - no chance of having a baby at home; you could either go into hospital and stay for 24 hours or five days. I opted for 24 hours so they stuck me in a room on my own as all the other mums were staying for 5 days.

Humbertbear Mon 21-Jan-19 07:54:18

I wasn’t allowed to have my first baby at home in1982. GP said he would have nothing to do with me. I was stuck in hospital for 7 days. Three years later they had introduced 48 hour discharge and I was out of there as quick as I could manage

Anja Mon 21-Jan-19 08:21:23

Some of you are so young. I was sitting my ‘A’ levels in 1964.

Gagagran Mon 21-Jan-19 08:35:01

I thought that too Anja!

I was engaged in 1964, living at home and DH and I were busy renovating our future first home - a run-down cottage, prior to getting married in 1965.

I can remember gas lighting at my great-aunts' home in the 1940s and how it popped when they lit it. They also had an outside lavatory.

I had DS in hospital in 1971 and was in hospital for 10 days as I had some complications but DD followed in 1973 and I was in and out in 36 hours.

sodapop Mon 21-Jan-19 08:40:26

Yes Anja I started my nurse training in 1964. My first child born in 1968, I was in hospital for a week, that was usual then. Advised not to take the baby out for two weeks after that.
My second child born in 1974 I was only in hospital 48 hours due to rhesus incompatibility.
My daughter was only in hospital for 6 hours after her last child, how times change.

BlueBelle Mon 21-Jan-19 08:42:32

I met my husband to be in 1964 and was married in 1965 moved to Malaysia and had my first baby in 1967

vickya Mon 21-Jan-19 11:02:41

I had first daughter in 1973 in hospital, not a pleasant experience. You were supposed to stay 10 days but I went home after 5 smile. I had to fight to have second at home in 1075 and change GP. The midwife who attended was anti home births and had two students with her as nobody had home births in the area. The whole thing stopped, due to go in and be induced next day. They gave me sleeping pills and left. Then daughter arrived and they just made it back in time to catch her! Husband had done medical course as part of work and seen the film so said no worries, he would deliver it smile.

It was much better and that daughter had her own at home, grandson, two years ago, birthing pool. 3 midwives and photos for us all smile Actually I could have done without some of the photos. although baby ones are lovely.

vickya Mon 21-Jan-19 11:03:18

oops 1975 not 1075