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BlueBelle Sun 03-May-26 11:20:11

I have a very nice young family live next to me, our houses are semi detached, three children no noise, no problems at all They moved in about two /three years ago. We smile and say hello, but not much more, and that’s fine I m not an ‘in neighbours house person’ I ve given them strawberries and greens off my allotment a couple of times, and she’s taken a parcel in for me.
When they first came I pointed out that there was a sycamore sapling growing very close to where our houses join, (our front rooms in fact) could they please get rid of it and I pointed out the damage it could do etc etc. She said of course i ll get my partner to do it, but nothing happened after a couple of months of growth I lent over and cut it as far down as I could
Second year up it shoots, again I see her and ask her if they can deal with it, and reiterate how bad it will be for both houses she tells me how busy her partner is but she ll get him to do it. Again nothing happens, again I lean over and cut it as low as I can reach. Fast forward to now and I can see there are about five pieces all coming up about 3. foot high leaves on and growing fast They are literally less than a foot from our houses join
I m so aware of the damage sycamore roots can do to our foundations and cutting off isn’t the answer, but I feel such a nagging old woman, is it best to write and shove it through the door or is it best to ‘have another word’ I definitely don’t want to resort to solicitors letters or anything formal
What would you do ?

stillawipp Sun 03-May-26 11:37:41

I’d put a note through the door to the effect of “Hi - I hope you are all well! I have noticed that the sycamore sapling between our houses has sprouted again this year, and it’s getting bigger every time it does. Before the roots get too deep & start causing problems, it now probably needs a tree person to look at it and dig out the existing root system, I think. I know how busy life is for you, so I can organise for someone to do this if that’s OK with you, and we can split any cost” (assuming it’s on the boundary so is a shared thing).

Sadgrandma Sun 03-May-26 11:38:40

Could you speak to her again and nicely ask her if she would like you to arrange for someone to do the work as her husband is so busy. Reiterate the possible damage to both your houses.

AGAA4 Sun 03-May-26 11:43:18

I would first write a note and see if anything is done. If not would you be willing to have it taken down if they will allow someone in their garden.?

butterandjam Sun 03-May-26 11:48:35

I'd wait for autumn then give the sycamore one last prune and a lovely drink of contact weedkiller.

Esmay Sun 03-May-26 12:10:23

I also would give the Sycamore a hard prune and a dose of SBK bought from B and Q for £7 .
Your neighbours probably won't address the problem.
Perhaps they don't comprehend the seriousness of it .

Over the last few days my reclusive neighbour is now hiding from me .
My parents had very polite discussions with him about his overgrown garden and broken fence .
I resumed nearly 19 years ago .
He's very charming to me -it's all ĺovie ,sweetie and darling and a lot of empty promises.
He told me that his house had been sold and it was no longer his problem That was about 18 months ago
I calculated that he's lived in his house for coming on 40 years .
What amazes me is the way that he's charmed some neighbours including the new ones in the adjoining house into believing him.
I have never told any of them that he has a criminal record and has been in prison .

Delila Sun 03-May-26 12:15:12

I can only sympathise BlueBelle - I’m in exactly the same position with a row of sycamore saplings in the narrow space between my neighbour’s house and mine, in her garden. We have given up explaining to her what a serious potential problem we’ll have on our hands in next to no time, pointing out a twenty-foot sycamore across the road, but to no avail. So every year we reach over and chop them down to ground level. This, of course, encourages them to grow faster and spread. We’ll soon have a sycamore forest between our houses. We’re on very good terms but this is a tricky problem.

HelterSkelter1 Sun 03-May-26 12:17:47

Good suggestion stillawipp.

Delila Sun 03-May-26 12:21:08

I’ve just seen your advice Esmay. Although we avoid using weed killer, I think we’ll speak again to our neighbour & make an exception in the case of these sycamore saplings. Thanks.

Esmay Sun 03-May-26 12:40:38

We used to have a Sycamore tree and it made dozens of seedlings a year -that's why I'd advise a draconian method of getting rid of it !

I've completely failed to get my neighbour to remove his weeds and repair the fence .
Sometimes people knock on my door and ask me if his house is derelict .

One thing that I'm going to have to accept.
HE IS NEVER GOING TO ADDRESS THE PROBLEM !
Wishing you better luck .

Macaydia Sun 03-May-26 12:44:55

Sadgrandma

Could you speak to her again and nicely ask her if she would like you to arrange for someone to do the work as her husband is so busy. Reiterate the possible damage to both your houses.

This is goid advice. You talk to your neighbor out of helpful, kindness, not nagging or secret notes.

Obviously, they have other pressing needs larger than the sycamore tree so be helpful, have it properly once-and-done (and make sure you have permission). It is good of you to be concerned with the well-being of BOTH of the homes - keep that kind attitude when you speak with her him.

Farmor15 Sun 03-May-26 12:49:26

If they won't deal with the issue, I would ask permission to go into their garden and cut it as low as you can. If you have heavy duty loppers it's easy to deal with the shoots, then paint with SBK weedkiller as suggested upthread.
Stillawip's letter might work, but it may be easier to deal with the problem yourself.

62Granny Sun 03-May-26 12:58:26

I wonder if you cutting them back is making the problem worse ? Perhaps when he has eventually gone to do something he can't actually see the problem, some people are not actually aware how invasive these trees are, could you print something off about how to deal with the problem and put it with your letter, but honestly I think you need a tree surgeon to deal with the problem efficiently.

J52 Sun 03-May-26 13:48:14

You say this self sown sapling has several 3ft shoots, they will probably be around an inch in diameter each. There’s no need to ‘get a sledgehammer to crack a nut’. If you can get access, chop the five shoots down to the base and paint stump killer ( as suggested up thread) on the cuts, making them rough first, if you can.
The roots of such saplings are quite immature and won’t be causing damage, yet.