Thanks for all the encouragement, I am not a shrinking violet! Happy to have controversial conversations with anyone, and can fight my corner, I do have strong opinions about some things, but have mellowed with old age, and so I will just continue to browse, add a word or two here and there, and enjoy the early morning catch-up. If you read my blog you will know I am very much involved with people with learning difficulties, and so could I ask if you see a sign saying 4Tea anywhere near you, you support the project. 4Tea is a celebration by United Response - the organisation which has cared for our son for the last 40 years, and it is their 40th year they are celebrating. They do a grand job country-wide, not only caring for people like my son, but lobbying for better understanding and conditions. Soap box now packed up.