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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 14-Feb-14 16:51:26

How do you feel about getting older? Whether it's a pet peeve or, equally, something you like, let us know (in no more than two sentences) and you could appear in a brand new novel.

Pan Macmillan publishers want to get a snapshot of real women’s feelings about ageing. A selection of these will be included in the new book The Time of our Lives by Sunday Times Top Ten Bestseller Maeve Haran.

You might remember Maeve as the author of 90’s smash hit Having It All, a novel that sparked huge debate about whether women could work and have a family, and much more besides. As well as being a brilliant read, her new book is about four friends in their early sixties, and the new issues they face, twenty years older than the protagonists of Having it All.

Everyone who posts a comment will be entered into a draw to win one of 20 exclusive early reading copies of The Time of Their Lives, and everyone whose comments are used will be entered into a draw to win a luxury forest cabin break for four people – details HERE.

We also have an exclusive extract from the book which you can read here.

granmaMary Sat 22-Feb-14 11:32:50

I'm 68 and loving it, my husband and I dance 3/4 times a week and we go to the gym 3/4 times. We even do spinning! The only down side is that when we get bugs and colds they take twice as long to get over, however every once in a while it gives us chance to stay home and chill!

kateminx Sat 22-Feb-14 11:29:51

Aware that time is running out to do the things I want to do, but realise that I can prioritise my time with my kids with a new kind of wisdom.

granh1 Sat 22-Feb-14 11:19:35

There are things I like about getting older, mainly free time and being able to have the confidence to choose what to do. I don't like my body feeling older - lack of energy, achey joints etc. My body is aging faster than my mind which I find disturbing!

dopeydorothy Sat 22-Feb-14 11:06:44

It's always nice to look back to the teens or twenties, but in reality when watching programmes on television of the sixties or seventies, like life on Mars, Ashes to Ashes, or even Heartbeat, I am so glad that I don't have to go through that time again. I am very thankful for the knowledge, experience and modern technology which is available to me now enriching my life.

Magrithea Sat 22-Feb-14 10:47:11

I hate being invisible to the 'fashion police'! My mother used to say to me when I was younger "I don't want to dress like you but I don't want to dress like your grandma!" and now I know what she means!

sassy60 Sat 22-Feb-14 10:30:27

I do try and look at getting older in a positive rather than negative way. I do admit though that I felt "different" in some way when I turned 60 in 2012. I could not put my finger on it but felt that people treated me differently somehow as if I had literally aged overnight! Not impressed!

I feel more content now and love to be surrounded by family and friends and looking forward to whatever the future holds for me. I am carer for my husband who has several health issues but we get through hard times together and stay as positive and as strong as we can.

I try and stay healthy and watch my weight, which does tend to fluctuate, but on the whole, life is very good and long may it last.

bridgej Sat 22-Feb-14 10:16:41

My brain can't understand and thinks i can still do anything and i mean anything! Have you seen those snowboarders at the winter olympics?

booboo Sat 22-Feb-14 10:07:36

I do wish that other people didn't talk to me as if I had just landed from the planet Dweeb.
eg 'DO YOU USE EMAIL?' in a slow loud voice

booboo Sat 22-Feb-14 10:05:39

I much prefer getting older to the alternative.
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gran1 Sat 22-Feb-14 10:02:36

Now it takes me all day to do what I used to do all day.
My husband has a version of this phrase involving the night!

Nan99 Sat 22-Feb-14 09:24:21

I enjoy getting older, as there is nothing I can do about it, I just go with the flow. I just wish my inside 16 year old would grow up.

sara1964 Sat 22-Feb-14 08:49:11

After having 2 brain haemorrhages and a massive stroke 8 years ago I embrace life and want as many birthdays that I can possibly have.
life is precious and old age a blessing.

GrannyMilly Sat 22-Feb-14 08:37:11

Getting older - well it's a great excuse to use to avoid doing the stuff you don't want to do and to only do the stuff you want to do- genius!

patsy13 Sat 22-Feb-14 08:16:46

when I do something silly I think why?. Then I look in the mirror and then I know why. (sad)

jmk4646 Sat 22-Feb-14 07:55:57

Being old is just like being young -but slower

bishiebee Sat 22-Feb-14 06:52:19

the advantage of being older is that when you look in the mirror and get a bit upset - it doesn't last long as you forget it really quickly - just like everything else!

Littlemissactive Sat 22-Feb-14 06:42:08

54 years young. Don't stop me now, I'm having such a good time!

tanmack Sat 22-Feb-14 00:41:25

i am not bothered about getting older as long as i can stay healthy. I have become involved in a lot of voluntary work, after i left my last job after a period of ill-health and enjoy meeting new friends in the various activities i am currently enjoying. After all, they do say that age is just a number {smile}

sweetlittlrtriffid Sat 22-Feb-14 00:28:22

Reaching old age is a privilege that is denied to so many. So revel in it and enjoy it to the full.

philatel Fri 21-Feb-14 23:28:07

I like being older except for all the medical issues that seem to occur!

biffsmom Fri 21-Feb-14 23:07:44

Age is nothing more than a number, everyone ages at a different rate, so forget the number.

I am happier, wiser, more body confident and I know myself better than 20years ago.

As a veterinary nurse, I have decided I am ageing like a Jack Russell Terrier, while those around me can age like large breeds.

codfather Fri 21-Feb-14 23:05:07

As I get older, I notice more young women smile at me! Rarely happened when I was young!

faybelle Fri 21-Feb-14 23:04:43

Its not about counting the years that matters its what you do with them which counts

mrusty5 Fri 21-Feb-14 22:45:22

Old, who's old?!

Soutra Fri 21-Feb-14 22:40:00

I have heard said that the most serious illness of old age is hardening of the attitudes!