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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 14-Feb-14 16:51:26

How do you feel about getting older? Whether it's a pet peeve or, equally, something you like, let us know (in no more than two sentences) and you could appear in a brand new novel.

Pan Macmillan publishers want to get a snapshot of real women’s feelings about ageing. A selection of these will be included in the new book The Time of our Lives by Sunday Times Top Ten Bestseller Maeve Haran.

You might remember Maeve as the author of 90’s smash hit Having It All, a novel that sparked huge debate about whether women could work and have a family, and much more besides. As well as being a brilliant read, her new book is about four friends in their early sixties, and the new issues they face, twenty years older than the protagonists of Having it All.

Everyone who posts a comment will be entered into a draw to win one of 20 exclusive early reading copies of The Time of Their Lives, and everyone whose comments are used will be entered into a draw to win a luxury forest cabin break for four people – details HERE.

We also have an exclusive extract from the book which you can read here.

NanaPlenty Fri 07-Mar-14 13:00:13

Getting older means you can be yourself, be crazy, be zany and enjoy.....the journey is not as long as you might like it to be. Live every day as if it were your last and make lots of happy memories.

Redrach Fri 07-Mar-14 13:40:41

I'm happy to be older. I'm about to retire and looking forward to it, and I'm going to grow out my hair colour and go grey. I hear myself saying things that I remember my dear mother saying, and I used to swear I would never be the same; and I love hearing my granddaughter shout "where's Granny?" when she comes in the door!

jeanhaigh Fri 07-Mar-14 14:33:06

Being older slows you down but gives you the time to appreciate all that life, love and the universe has to offer.

perkypeach Fri 07-Mar-14 15:00:47

Being older means a little wiser and of course more interesting and of of course I believe in the old adage age is like a fine wine with maturity comes quality ..What keeps me young also is having a younger husband so I am always kept on my toes
Negative points in my head I am still able to party till dawn in reality a no no and all the aches and pains that come with age

But I try to have a little mantra be as old as the man I feel xxxx

saraband Fri 07-Mar-14 15:29:17

I love being older, most of the time - there are so many perks and, paradoxically, we are so much better off than when we were both working. But just occasionally I think "OMG I have lived over half my life already and I'll be very lucky to get another 40 years!"

clairesen Fri 07-Mar-14 17:41:02

I get a bit more peace in the morning now!

Vidubo Fri 07-Mar-14 18:57:58

Getting old? well, it has begun to sink in since I turned 67. And 68's rushing up. I still work whenever I can - most days - and can't imagine not doing so. However, I'n certainly doing a lot more reading - which I call it 'research'. And I admit that anything on health and nutrition flags up an immediate pause.

I tweet and FB a lot, but am backing off that for the sake of live contacts with people. And although I have several websites, I plan to eliminate most of them to focus on the primary task: collating useful information for a book linking health problems with food and nutritional options (illustrated with my own food shots and recipes).

My daughter just reminded me that my two grandchildren will be at university in two years' time and they need support. So dropping out of the work force doesn't seem likely for a while yet. Not if I can work on regardless with osteoporosis, a woofy hip and fading eyesight. Getting old? Hmmm, these are reminders...

lilaclil44 Fri 07-Mar-14 19:02:57

Only Insight has twenty Twenty Vision! When Your'e older,It saves you the Task of Having To ask!

troodle Fri 07-Mar-14 22:33:51

It's hard work of a different kind . The past was full of responsibilities and the present an emptiness that its my responsibility to fill, daunting.

seagullperson Sat 08-Mar-14 10:48:49

I feel annoyed that having been made redundant I can't find another job and I have to wait so long for a pension. Too old to work, too young for a pension!

Cookingcarolyn Sat 08-Mar-14 10:51:23

Now I know why my grandma was so happy and content!

nightowl Sat 08-Mar-14 10:54:58

This thread seems to be going on forever. I'm sure I'm at least ten years older than I was when it started.

Ana Sat 08-Mar-14 11:03:26

And some posters still seem to have completely missed the 'in no more than two sentences' rule!

Gally Sat 08-Mar-14 11:05:18

Nightowl grin I too have been wondering when it was going to stop. Maeve Haran will certainly have her work cut out trawling through this lot!

nightowl Sat 08-Mar-14 11:20:27

Glad I'm not the only one Gally. Woke up feeling particularly grumpy grin

I think they have all forgotten the two sentence rule Ana, and I just broke it. But then I'm not entering, honest, I don't want a bloody cabin break I just want this thread to go away! Told you I was grumpy grin

Stef1972 Sat 08-Mar-14 12:14:20

I don't mind getting old gracefully, however the only thing I am concerned is losing my mind!!

Stef1972 Sat 08-Mar-14 12:18:14

I don't mind getting older gracefully in looks, but what I am most concerned is losing my memories and mind!!

denisej Sat 08-Mar-14 12:51:30

The mirror lies!!

Shelagh2401 Sat 08-Mar-14 15:41:41

I'm happy enough to be getting older. It sure beats the alternative...

Granniepam Sat 08-Mar-14 16:07:09

Almost a lifetime of experiences has given me so much that I want to share with my daughters. It has also taught me that I must not, under any circumstances, force my opinions and thoughts on them - only share them when asked.

Rosy59 Sat 08-Mar-14 18:51:27

Starting to become a bit tattered around the edges, but a little spring clean of the old cogs and I am fit again for the grandchildren

TwiddleDee Sun 09-Mar-14 02:14:11

I like the wisdom that comes with age and also how that helps you put your problems into perspective, but I in my mind I think of myself as 18, so sometimes scare myself when I look in the mirror some mornings lol

Lesevans6 Sun 09-Mar-14 07:12:40

Finally, I am only responsible for myself, I may wish to help my offsprings but they have a mind to be ( Silverbacks, or Alpha Dogs ) therefore I am reponsible for and to myself and it is uplifting.

cherylpearson Sun 09-Mar-14 10:02:11

I don't have birthdays any more I let the kids have them instead!

javentura Sun 09-Mar-14 10:02:16

As I get older I try to squeeze in a few last adventures while I am able. Then when I am to old I will have my memories and my photo's.