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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 14-Feb-14 16:51:26

How do you feel about getting older? Whether it's a pet peeve or, equally, something you like, let us know (in no more than two sentences) and you could appear in a brand new novel.

Pan Macmillan publishers want to get a snapshot of real women’s feelings about ageing. A selection of these will be included in the new book The Time of our Lives by Sunday Times Top Ten Bestseller Maeve Haran.

You might remember Maeve as the author of 90’s smash hit Having It All, a novel that sparked huge debate about whether women could work and have a family, and much more besides. As well as being a brilliant read, her new book is about four friends in their early sixties, and the new issues they face, twenty years older than the protagonists of Having it All.

Everyone who posts a comment will be entered into a draw to win one of 20 exclusive early reading copies of The Time of Their Lives, and everyone whose comments are used will be entered into a draw to win a luxury forest cabin break for four people – details HERE.

We also have an exclusive extract from the book which you can read here.

crowson Mon 10-Mar-14 13:25:31

Looking forward to retirement and a slowing down in the pace of life. I can do what I want when I want.

tfettuk Mon 10-Mar-14 14:13:09

Knowing what you like and don't like so that your time is spent enjoying yourself more

chrismuk Mon 10-Mar-14 14:21:04

At least as I grow older I have more time to spend with my grandchildren. Its a pity that my body won't let me do all the things they want me to!

lillyfer Mon 10-Mar-14 14:45:22

age has never bothered me, its how you feel and how much fun you have that matters

Teresa1963 Mon 10-Mar-14 15:31:55

i use to worry about getting old and not being able to enjoy myself as much, however its true what they say with age comes wisdom, I am so much happier now, contented and enjoy all aspects of life, I feel I now have time to appreciate things and people more, plenty more patience and more zest for giving everything a good go and trying new and different things, which when I was younger would not dream of doing

karen203 Mon 10-Mar-14 19:32:00

I'm enjoying time with my grandsons and they are certainly keeping me feeling young. Fun and more fun!

picklj Mon 10-Mar-14 20:21:32

I look forward to getting older so when my husband retires we can spend quality time together and not be rushing round doing jobs every weekend

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 10-Mar-14 20:39:08

Just a reminder that this competition closes today so last chance to commit your thoughts to...umm...forum

compstruck Mon 10-Mar-14 21:09:37

I was really shy as a child and a teen and wouldn't speak up for myself but as I've aged, I've grown in confidence through experiencing life, different jobs, and meeting new people. Now you can't shut me up for talking and trying to help people!

compstruck Mon 10-Mar-14 21:10:35

Someone said "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade". So I try and see the positives in situations, rather than dwell on the negatives.

compstruck Mon 10-Mar-14 21:13:15

cupcake If life gives you cupcakes, eat them! Grab every opportunity! cupcake

compstruck Mon 10-Mar-14 21:16:10

The best thing about being old is being a nana and being able to hand back your grandchildren to their parents. All the fun, none of the stress!

vickysmum123 Mon 10-Mar-14 22:04:23

Have now developed the attitude that age is purely a number and you have to live the best life you can. Laugh and love, enjoy and have funsmile

lesleys Mon 10-Mar-14 23:07:33

The thing I don't like about getting older is that my body seems to be falling to bits in subtle little ways!

lisajordan18 Mon 10-Mar-14 23:48:41

I always feared getting older until my granddaughter pointed out that every wrinkle on my face was caused by a time where I had laughed till I cried.She commented that I must have had lots and lots of happy times.Now I embrace those new wrinkles and hope to look like a crinkly prune by the time I get really old.

jd5761 Fri 28-Mar-14 13:50:27

Getting older has made me rather more grumpy about little things and mainly how ungrateful so many people who have so much are!

seasider Fri 28-Mar-14 22:33:37

I do not like feeling invisible sometimes but I am enjoying the confidence that comes with age. I feel I can take anyone on and stand my corner. I am
also now able to stand up and speak in public and to go places alone. Just the aches and pains I hate smile

Ana Fri 28-Mar-14 22:38:55

This competition CLOSED on 10th March, folks...hmm

Nonu Sat 29-Mar-14 10:00:39

Glad you told them ANA , I thought about it then could not be bothered !!
:-)

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 07-Apr-14 10:57:09

Aaaaaaand...news in from the publishers. The winning comments have been chosen and come from (in no particular order):

gillybob
Aka
tracyliz
merlotgran
Cathybee
Maggiemaybe
faybelle
Clairemike
HMHNanna
kittylester
JS06
Pillionprincess
lizzeegee
RoseyGem89
gran5up
Apricot
Soutra
LynneH
Alabaster

Congratulations to all of you for getting your words of wisdom into the book. And an advance reading copy will be winging its way to you very soon. Keep an eye out for an email from GNHQ.

All the above names/quotes were entered into the draw for the luxury break and one picked out at random. And - drum roll - the winner is...

‘One thing to remember after a certain age is that M&S is not a good place to meet your offspring, as my friend’s son commented after an exasperating twenty minutes trying to pick out his particular white-haired little old lady from the crowds’ by Maggiemaybe

Soutra Mon 07-Apr-14 11:21:48

Well done maggiemaybeenvy we had Forest Holidays lodge with DD and SIL last year and you will love it!!

kittylester Mon 07-Apr-14 11:57:36

I'm sure I've posted this once but it seems to have disappeared!

Thank you very much GN. For someone who never wins anything GN is wonderful.

Congrats to all the other winners especially Maggie smile

Now, which words of wisdom was it confused

Grannyknot Mon 07-Apr-14 12:01:41

Well done to the winners, I wish you flowers and sunshine on your luxury break. Oh yes and wine and plenty to smile about.

Maggiemaybe Mon 07-Apr-14 12:19:01

Thank you so much, Gransnet, PanMacMillan, Soutra, kittylester and Grannyknot. smile

I'm absolutely delighted (and astounded!) to have won grin

Congrats to all the other winners - I shall raise a glass of wine to you from my hot tub!

kittylester Mon 07-Apr-14 12:29:16

envy

I've discovered where my first post went - it's on the other thread! [stupidemoticon]