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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 14-Feb-14 16:51:26

How do you feel about getting older? Whether it's a pet peeve or, equally, something you like, let us know (in no more than two sentences) and you could appear in a brand new novel.

Pan Macmillan publishers want to get a snapshot of real women’s feelings about ageing. A selection of these will be included in the new book The Time of our Lives by Sunday Times Top Ten Bestseller Maeve Haran.

You might remember Maeve as the author of 90’s smash hit Having It All, a novel that sparked huge debate about whether women could work and have a family, and much more besides. As well as being a brilliant read, her new book is about four friends in their early sixties, and the new issues they face, twenty years older than the protagonists of Having it All.

Everyone who posts a comment will be entered into a draw to win one of 20 exclusive early reading copies of The Time of Their Lives, and everyone whose comments are used will be entered into a draw to win a luxury forest cabin break for four people – details HERE.

We also have an exclusive extract from the book which you can read here.

porlockweir Sun 09-Mar-14 20:37:16

You can't do anything about it so why worry about it?

Shscc1 Sun 09-Mar-14 19:44:17

Age brings a sence of freedom.
Gone are the stilleto heels.
I don't feel the need to conform to expected standards and opinions, anymore .. I am not afraid to go against the grain, and set my own standards, and voice my real opinions.
I notice that my first comment was, gone are the stilletos.
I think that is important in under standing the freedom of age.
Its wearing flat, comfy shoes, and saying this is who I really am .. take me, or leave me.

Daph Sun 09-Mar-14 19:34:56

I find the odd things hard, turning around and hurting your back, what is that about!!

tiddles86 Sun 09-Mar-14 19:10:23

As my cousin's husband said "Having grandchildren is your reward for being a parent". What more positive statement on ageing could you find.

bdavies Sun 09-Mar-14 19:08:53

I hate the invisibility of it - where young people don't even seem to see you and I really miss being wolf-whistled at.

paulinecnd Sun 09-Mar-14 17:44:50

Some people can be old at 60. Others can be young at 80.

paulandrach Sun 09-Mar-14 17:43:53

I'm getting older but I'm getting fitter. I feel brilliant and when my daughters come home from Uni they always say how much younger I am/look than their friends' Mums. That's good enough for me.

rozana1234 Sun 09-Mar-14 15:32:10

we all approach or accept ageing differently. I'm sure there are many people that fear it and just as many that embrace it.

I personally have chosen to embrace it, I don't like the idea of getting older but its all about embracing your age just because you are getting older doesn't mean you have to act your age. Just do and act what makes you feel comfortable, young and love yourself.

fmonson Sun 09-Mar-14 15:17:27

I do find with getting older I do learn more and don't get so wound up about things

Robby Sun 09-Mar-14 13:09:55

I don't mind getting older but with that comes more aches and pains and it takes longer to heal

Maggiemaybe Sun 09-Mar-14 11:39:18

At least you can stop worrying about some of the wrinkles on your face as they'll soon be covered up by the whiskers on your chin.

stcuthbert Sun 09-Mar-14 11:07:58

QUITE HAPPY WITH THE AGEING PROCESS. ADVANTAGES OUTWEIGH DISADVANTAGES

weather Sun 09-Mar-14 10:50:38

METAMORPHOSIS in old age:
The ability to become a "no pin number required" ATM

javentura Sun 09-Mar-14 10:02:16

As I get older I try to squeeze in a few last adventures while I am able. Then when I am to old I will have my memories and my photo's.

cherylpearson Sun 09-Mar-14 10:02:11

I don't have birthdays any more I let the kids have them instead!

Lesevans6 Sun 09-Mar-14 07:12:40

Finally, I am only responsible for myself, I may wish to help my offsprings but they have a mind to be ( Silverbacks, or Alpha Dogs ) therefore I am reponsible for and to myself and it is uplifting.

TwiddleDee Sun 09-Mar-14 02:14:11

I like the wisdom that comes with age and also how that helps you put your problems into perspective, but I in my mind I think of myself as 18, so sometimes scare myself when I look in the mirror some mornings lol

Rosy59 Sat 08-Mar-14 18:51:27

Starting to become a bit tattered around the edges, but a little spring clean of the old cogs and I am fit again for the grandchildren

Granniepam Sat 08-Mar-14 16:07:09

Almost a lifetime of experiences has given me so much that I want to share with my daughters. It has also taught me that I must not, under any circumstances, force my opinions and thoughts on them - only share them when asked.

Shelagh2401 Sat 08-Mar-14 15:41:41

I'm happy enough to be getting older. It sure beats the alternative...

denisej Sat 08-Mar-14 12:51:30

The mirror lies!!

Stef1972 Sat 08-Mar-14 12:18:14

I don't mind getting older gracefully in looks, but what I am most concerned is losing my memories and mind!!

Stef1972 Sat 08-Mar-14 12:14:20

I don't mind getting old gracefully, however the only thing I am concerned is losing my mind!!

nightowl Sat 08-Mar-14 11:20:27

Glad I'm not the only one Gally. Woke up feeling particularly grumpy grin

I think they have all forgotten the two sentence rule Ana, and I just broke it. But then I'm not entering, honest, I don't want a bloody cabin break I just want this thread to go away! Told you I was grumpy grin

Gally Sat 08-Mar-14 11:05:18

Nightowl grin I too have been wondering when it was going to stop. Maeve Haran will certainly have her work cut out trawling through this lot!