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MetteGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 19-Sept-16 12:35:33

To celebrate the publication of Alfie and His Very Best Friend, we're giving away a blue Mini Microscooter plus a bundle of Alfie books, including the latest book.

Alfie and Bernard are very best friends and together they have lots of adventures. Join them as they go to the library, take part in scooter races and make a very special club with only two special members! A heart-warming tale of friendship by the award-winning Shirley Hughes, creator of Dogger.

Shirley Hughes has won the Other Award, the Eleanor Farjeon Award, and the Kate Greenaway Medal for Illustration twice, for Dogger in 1977 and for Ella's Big Chance in 2003. In 2007 Dogger was voted the public's favourite Greenaway winner of all time. Shirley received an OBE in 1999 for services to Children's Literature, and is the first recipient of Booktrust's Lifetime Achievement Award.

To be in with a chance to win a blue Mini Microscooter and a bundle of Alfie books including Alfie and His Very Best Friend, tell us what are your top tips for helping your grandchild to make friends?

Post your entry below by midday Wednesday 12 October. Can't wait? You can purchase your copy of Alfie and His Very Best Friend on Amazon.

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trisher Mon 03-Oct-16 10:47:57

Let them mix with other children and then stay out of it unless there is real physical bullying. Part of having a friend is the falling out and the making up.

mumandnan Sun 02-Oct-16 18:45:45

I take my grand-daughter to parks, farms, soft play centres etc. and more often than not she will pair up with another child or children. If they go to places where there are other children, they naturally gravitate to each other.

sallie Sun 02-Oct-16 17:04:52

has not been a problem so far,daisy seems to attract nice people

hulahoop Sat 01-Oct-16 10:35:31

Let them be themselves but show how good it is to make freinds by mixing with others reading stories about children and freinds but most of all encourage but don't push they will make freinds at their own pace .

Nanalou Sat 01-Oct-16 09:43:29

Mixing with other children from an early age, encourage them to join in with others, talk to them about their friends.

grandmac Fri 30-Sept-16 22:33:45

My DD taught my DGD to introduce herself to new children and although only 3 she seems to have a lot of friends at nursery. She has always been taken to toddler groups so maybe that is why she is very chatty and sociable. Supervised play dates are another way to get children together.

Hanliying Fri 30-Sept-16 22:19:17

encourage them to join group activities and team sports

GrannyGlyn Fri 30-Sept-16 18:14:30

Teaching them to share their toys and be kind to others.

robyn297 Thu 29-Sept-16 20:48:49

I think its important to teach them empathy and thoughful of other childrens feelings. When we take Josh out, we encourage him to play with children who might be being left out.

gaynorlew Thu 29-Sept-16 17:55:34

Have Family Get Togethers and invite all their cousins over - guaranteed chaos but they have great fun all together and they see the adults chatting away so follow the example x

huggiebear Thu 29-Sept-16 16:33:01

Taking grandson out to the park, soft play centre etc where there are lots of other children. Also having other children visit us at home and vice versa

clairesen Thu 29-Sept-16 14:28:08

Build their confidence and let them see you interacting with others. They'll pick up on how you are socially and follow suit, even if it's just at the shops or at a cafe.
Baby groups do help children to mix with others of the same age and teach them how to play in harmony. Sometimes there are clashes but I do believe it's the best way for children to learn.

sammyislost Thu 29-Sept-16 10:06:09

Have simple conversation with them to teach them small talk! , like 'Hello ...., How are you today? I like your t-shirt, do you like my t-shirt? Shall we play paw patrol?'

zeenie Wed 28-Sept-16 19:40:25

give them plenty of opportuinites to mix with other children

Jayh Wed 28-Sept-16 19:22:40

Encourage your grandchild to make friends by being friendly yourself. With a good role model and opportunities for play dates at your home and theirs, making friends will be a natural part of growing up for your grandchild.

Galen Tue 27-Sept-16 17:54:57

Give them a chance to meet other children. Soft play, parks etc

yd1556 Tue 27-Sept-16 17:31:27

I think it is important to try to instil and measure of self-confidence into children but also to make them aware that it's ok to be different and that not everyone is the same.

jkenn Tue 27-Sept-16 15:30:47

If you teach them to treat others as they expect to be treated, they can't go wrong. My parents and grandparents didn't do anything to help me make friends leave it to them, unless you see a problem.

inishowen Tue 27-Sept-16 08:44:41

Have an open house policy. When my granddaughter plays outside the front door is left open. Neighbourhood children wander in and out at will. Granddaughter runs in and gets a bunch of ice lollies out of the freezer and shares them around.

suzied Tue 27-Sept-16 07:57:03

When our GC visit we get them involved with our neighbouring children by organising games such as "what's the Time Mr wolf", " hide and seek", where they all join in, the children then become familiar and are welcome in their own games.

nettynora Mon 26-Sept-16 21:34:40

Teach them to listen to others, as well as to speak; give as well as take; be fun and enthusiastic; be non-judgemental and open to new ideas and start new conversations with a question and a smile.

dianemjackson5 Mon 26-Sept-16 14:40:56

Take them to places where there are other kids their age and tell them how fabulous they are so why wouldn't other kids wouldnt want to be their friends

theresacoo Mon 26-Sept-16 10:47:35

I set up play dates with children similar ages, go to places where children are. I show my DS me chatting and being friendly and saying hello etc

murphy91 Mon 26-Sept-16 00:53:45

Read a book together and ask both children questions about the pictures.
Tell child to go up to other child and say Hello, what's your name?
Invent a story in the playground and get another child to join in e.g we go to Mouseland, let's find Minnie

pinkwallpaper Sun 25-Sept-16 21:59:24

Teaching them that they must share and think of other people. This may be difficult as children do tend to be self centred but they can learn.